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moneygrip3030 wrote:


a619ko wrote:

I prefer a strong relationship, being single makes me feel lonely and depressed.


If you can't be happy by yourself than you can't really be happy... You should never expect others to make your life more enjoyable. If you don't like yourself and spending time by yourself, than who is going to want to spend time with you?


I can...but I can only spend so much time before I get bored.
That's why I change it up from time to time.
However, I do prefer the companionship of someone rather than being alone...just my nature I guess.
Whether its a friend or a girlfriend, two+ people is a party man.
You can't party alone--well, you can, but that's just...weird.
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I guess I will be single till someone sweeps me off my feet. I am not one for companionship. I would rather be alone for the rest of my life since I am happy. =D
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Being single is nice, yes.

I've been in a relationship for almost one year now and I'm happier now than I've ever been single. I agree totally that being single is good, it allows you freedom and time, but when it comes time, you're not going to care about freedom and the only time you're going to want is the time to hang out with the person you're with. I know a lot of you are saying, "Oh, single is the best because you don't have to worry about heartbreak", but honestly, you're going to experience heartbreak whether or not you're in a relationship. I know I have.
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being single is nice... then you get lonely sometimes.... fill it in with anime :)
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Being in a relationship is a huge pain in the ass, but being single can get boring...
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buttonhole wrote:

Being single is nice, yes.

I've been in a relationship for almost one year now and I'm happier now than I've ever been single. I agree totally that being single is good, it allows you freedom and time, but when it comes time, you're not going to care about freedom and the only time you're going to want is the time to hang out with the person you're with. I know a lot of you are saying, "Oh, single is the best because you don't have to worry about heartbreak", but honestly, you're going to experience heartbreak whether or not you're in a relationship. I know I have.


You look like a 12 year old.
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Posted 2/7/13 , edited 2/7/13

Nyuboom wrote:


karmacide wrote:

Being in a relationship is a huge pain in the ass, but being single can get boring...


I can make your life un-boring. *wink*



*wink* *wink*
















*wink*


I just had the mental image of a woman standing over my dead body with a chainsaw in her hands yelling 'Are you still bored?!'
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Like others have said its whatever you're happiest with. Personally I don't just date casually as something to do or to get sex. If I'm not in love or connecting with a girl a relationship is a huge hassle and one I won't put in the work for, I'm too lazy for that. If I am feeling a powerful connection(which is very very rare for me) I'd move mountains if necessary to make said person happy and be there for them when they need me. Stll I get why many people date as something to do with their free time and rather be out trying to find a connection rather than sitting around alone. I'm lucky enough to have great people in my life so even when I'm not dating I don't feel alone. Plus relationships can drive you crazy Love truly does make one do crazy things and I find that effect on me unnerving. It makes me feel erratic at times and I prefer to be calm and stable mentally and emotionally.

So basically I prefer single and calm to a realtionship unless the girl is worth the insanity that is a relationship which is very rare for me. Single at the moment and I find that I am enjoying the little things in life more than I was when I was last in love.
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Single until I meet my best friend. No rush, already learned enough.
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they both kind of suck, being single tend to get boring and yea it's always fun spending time with some1 you like, but also sucks when you dont get enough space and get bugged constantly about dumb things completely off topic and accusations of silly things. either way both sucks and both also has its benefits. but i don't believe in true love but i do believe in falling in love. Everybody just has to find the right person that meets each other needs
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Posted 2/7/13 , edited 2/7/13
Single is better if you like to have an exciting life.
Relationships are better if you're ready to settle down.

Edit: Why can't you have relations with people unless you're in a relationship? I see everyone saying that single is boring.
Being single doesn't mean you have to stay at home alone all day.
Get out there and have fun. You don't need to 'put a ring on it' to have fun with other people.
You people who think being single is boring, obviously spend too much time home alone.
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I don't like being single, I guess I'm more in a settle down phase now.
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Single, ...though it is a case by case I think. I believe somewhere in the Bible it even says to stay single if you can, that things will go better for you, or something.
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CarboKill wrote:


buttonhole wrote:

Being single is nice, yes.

I've been in a relationship for almost one year now and I'm happier now than I've ever been single. I agree totally that being single is good, it allows you freedom and time, but when it comes time, you're not going to care about freedom and the only time you're going to want is the time to hang out with the person you're with. I know a lot of you are saying, "Oh, single is the best because you don't have to worry about heartbreak", but honestly, you're going to experience heartbreak whether or not you're in a relationship. I know I have.


You look like a 12 year old.


That's cool, I'm actually going to be 18 in a few months .-.
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It depends on several factors including but not limited to your personality, preferences, and current situation. There is no right or wrong answer to this question.
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Posted 2/7/13 , edited 2/7/13
Both are good in some ways and its always depend on the person you are with if you are in a relationship. Being single is cool tho
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