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Post Reply Is being single or in a relationship better?
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In a relationship would be preferable and by dating this women you combine anime and dating. http://www.yourdailymedia.com/post/the-human-anime-character/?utm_source=crowdignite.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=crowdignite.com
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I wouldn't know which one is better, since I've never been in a relationship.
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So if you have a 0 percent compatibility with girls......... What about your chances with men?
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I'm single but absolutely not unhappy or lonely.
I really don't know if I would be happier in a serious relationship, I've never been in a serious relationship before so I cannot compare.
Just had adventures here and there in the past and the last one of those has been close to 10 years ago...
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Posted 2/13/13
Single is better cause if you're in a relationship, you'll never know when your heart will be shattered. Cause I had experience it. And it hurts. So much...
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It depends. I'm single, but I'm not sad. I'm actually better than I ever was! It's been a year since I've had a boyfriend and I feel FAN-TAS-TIC. But there are those days where I see the guy I have a small crush on, and I think differently.

YOU KNOW WHAT. No. I really don't want a relationship right now. I'm free. c:
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Relationships are overrated. Couples these days annoy me.

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Posted 3/21/13
Being single is the bestest..
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when you get old like me and all opportunities are gone being single isn't so great anymore.........
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Posted 6/3/13
It's so much easier being single. But soo... lonely?
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Posted 6/3/13
Depends on how the relationship is. Being in a relationship with someone that is not good for you is worse than being single. Being with in a relationship with someone who truly gets you can be one of the best things ever. The problem is finding that person who gets you.
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I've been single for 9 years. Being in a relationship would be preferable. Seeing other couples doing their PDAs doesn't help my self-esteem much either. It only makes me feel worse that I can't find that kind of happiness myself.
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It's a difficult question.

Are you capable of being in a relationship? For one thing, Not everyone has the temperment. Maturity, honesty, and responsibility are the biggest factors, and if even one is dishonored, it can mean the end of a relationship.

People who prefer to be single are often those who either prefer to avoid any of the three being dishonored, or they never understood the meaning of a relationship, intellectual or sexual. For that, I do not pity you. The opposite sex is dangerous grounds. You have to overcome norms you would rather not tread into, such as cleaning up after your filthy BF, or being dragged into some awkward granny lingerie department by your GF.

But with all those tensions, it's all worth it. You would always find yourself looking back at those times and in the end the change you and fix you. Honestly, I miss being in a relationship. But I know I don't have the time for one
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the human mind is not capable of sustaining sanity during long periods of isolation.
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Posted 6/4/13

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Well, to those who were bringing up studies and college, make a scenario if those weren't obstacles cause its like saying.

"Well, i cant b in a relatship bcuz I'm about to go to sleep right now."

Or.. "I can't be in one because I'm going to work tomorrow." ?? WTF?

Relationships are always better, just with the right person. Cause single can be worst if you were deprived of all relationships! LOL It'd be like a zombie apocalypse!

And to the guy above.

"ALL I know is anything is better than my current!" LOL


No that is not what they are saying at all.They are saying it is better to focusing on your education when in college (that is the point of going to college to further you education) because relationships can get in the way. I didn't date in college because I didn't have any time to. Maybe it was just that my degree program was more demanding then most but having to juggle a romantic relationship in addition to my job and class work would have cause my grades to really suffer. Also how does being single deprive you of all relationships? Are you suggesting that just because you don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend your friends and family suddenly disown you and stop talking to you?

What is right for you depends on a lot of things and can change over time. Just because you are better off single at one time doesn't mean that later on you wouldn't be better off in a relationship. Both options offer different experiences that can help you grow in different ways, so one isn't really better then the other per say. Just do what you think is right for you and forget what other people think about it.
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