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Anytime miss Alex
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I'm single and have mixed feelings. I noticed many things that people go through in relationships whether good or bad. The greatest thing about being single is not having to deal with other people's bullshit. I have to worry about myself than to deal with another person and their problems. Falling in love was never easy in the first place. There are too many people in this world who are needy, hypocritical, picky, rude, selfish, and so many other things. It sucks more when you find the right person, but are immediately turned away before you get the chance to express your feelings. Nowadays, it seems like sex is more important than romance. Not many people have the patience to deal with a virgin/single. It goes to show you that not everyone is lucky enough to find that special someone. Truth be told, humans are very idealistic when it comes to romance. They cry out for perfection because they can't face that harshness that is reality. I'm not ready to find someone yet, because I have to get my life in order and deal with my bullshit. It's nice to find someone just for me but I can't deal with the frustration of searching. Relationships are a task that needs to be completed by both parties. We deal with stress every day in life. it's no wonder why people chose to remain single. This is just my opinion on this topic.

People can look for love but love won't always look back.
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I'm in a relationship and he is my high school sweet heart. we've been together since 10th grade so 4 years

And I think people are seriously OVER THINKING EVERYTHING! Firstly... being in a relationship should NEVER tie you down or stop you from doing something and if you are being told not to do something then they just aren't on your level and nor should you ever hold them back from what they want in life.

Everyone is making a big deal of expectations and no.. it's not like movies! You'll go through stages of Honeymoon period where everything is perfect and you just don't get mad. then after like 7 months you'd probably move on to jealousy cos you aren't used to certain things they say to people but you just gotta TALK to your partner and come to a conclusion. then you'll get in to a spot where you're like.. I'm way too young to settle down and have so much more to do with my life.. then after you realize everything you want to do in life.. you want them there with you so you can talk back about the great memories you had and then last you come to the conclusion that you're best friends... you get along and the may be annoying but so is your family and you don't go telling your family to ever call you ever again.. just cos you "aren't feeling it" kind of mood... I wish people will just stop over thinking things and have fun! If you want space then that's your choice. but I enjoy being able to have secrets and stories and inside jokes.
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Posted 7/10/13
i been single for 5 years now.
im sick of it. ready to meet someone. anyone for a boyfriend or just a gay friend letme know xD
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As a lot of other people said, both are good in their own ways. I think it's important to be happy with yourself before you ever get into a relationship. A relationship is meant to enhance your life, not fell an empty hole. You must feel whole first.

But I see a lot of people getting hurt because of relationships. I don't see many last. I have personally never had a boyfriend. That might be a good thing. The best advice I got was from my mom though. She told me not to waste a bunch of time on guys at this age, because most of the time things wouldn't turn out good. She said that I need to focus on myself and my goals. And when I get where I need to be, then I can add a relationship to my life if I want. If more people did that, I think they would end up happier.
At the same time, if you meet someone and you are just positive they are the one ... well, you know how that goes. Hopefully it works out then.
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Much more complicated than just "which is better".

I would say, to summarize, that it's better to be single and free than in a relationship that doesn't make you happy. Yet it is better to be with someone who makes you happy than to be alone.
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I prefer being single kuz relationships are just too much to handle *q*
Especially when you're with someone that's really clingy...
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19 / M / No Stalking
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Being single is the best feeling in the world. You're free !
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23 / M / England
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I prefer being single as I can do what ever I want but it always make me feel like I have a big hole missing from me. = /
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20 / M / Chicago
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Posted 7/30/13
Stay single until you honestly feel that you can't live without this person, if they feel the same then go for it.
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16 / F / Narnia
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Posted 7/30/13
yes, but they don't have to be in a relationship for that.
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Both suck in their own way, you just choose how you suffer while you hurtle to oblivion on this nightmarish hell-train we call "life".

No, but seriously, they each have their merits and you can't answer "which is better" without clarifying; better for what?
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Posted 7/30/13
I would prefer to be with someone, but only if we love each other. There is nothing worse than being with someone when there is no love there.
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Posted 7/30/13
It depends, if you want somebody to love and talk to and stuff like that then yeah, but if your busy and dont have time then no, but honestly, if you come across the person of your dreams youll most likely enjoy the relationship
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20 / M / Seattle
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Posted 7/30/13
be single if your young but if your like 40 relationship is proabably good feel meee
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