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Post Reply Is being single or in a relationship better?
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~To anyone saying its sucks because "your" needs/goals etc took a backseat in the relationship,
when you are with someone your needs become their needs, you both sacrifice for each other, thats what it means,
yes sometimes its goes wrong and it turns into slavery, but for the most part being in a relationship is never just about you and your needs, dont forget there are 2 people in that, nothing will make a person happier sacrificing something for their partner to watch them smile and be happy, i sacrificed when i had to and dont regret it and never have that smile is the biggest reward you can ask for. ~~recently dumped~ ~
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I'm 25, and have been married for 5 years. My husband is an athletic charismatic jock type of guy and I am a shy nerdy anti-social type of girl. He is Filipino and I am white (and very southern), our culture, our families (mine being poor), and our backgrounds are completely different. With that being said, I couldn't have picked a better life partner because he is the only person that has ever made me feel "normal". We run around the house with blankets tied to our necks like super heroes, wrestle in the morning, have a gaming room and play video game beside each other (because we play different games), and it is great. We are both extremely honest and we communicate well, if something is bothering one of us, we express it. Also, I have a pretty messed up past and I have never met someone so supportive. When he met me I lived in a trailer (I was poor), and he didn't judge me for it. My motto was "If you never look forward to anything, you'll never be disappointed", but I didn't make goals and I wasn't getting anywhere. He told me how stupid that was and helped me make small goals that came reality, we moved to the city,, I have a really good job, we bought our first house, and I have never been so motivated and inspired in my life. My new motto is "keep your chin up and your feet moving forward". I really liked being single, I've been cheated on the past and I had a lot of friends, even if they were friends with other intentions. But being with this one person that I can trust completely, that plays games with me and makes me laugh, I wouldn't trade it for the world.

In relationships, you either grow together or you grow apart, and there is no such thing as a perfect person. Relationships take work, they take effort, you have to accept the other person's flaws, but with honesty, loyalty, and communication, they can really work.

I rambled a bit for this to be my first post...
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Posted 14 days ago
I've been in several relationships and I'd say being single is great but make sure you have friends so you don't get too lonely.
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Posted 14 days ago , edited 14 days ago
I suppose being single is better (I'm not sure however;I haven't been single for a while) . You're free to go out with as many people as you want. However on days like Valentines Day, you might feel like being in a relationship is better, but thats only one day out of the whole year, so weigh your options...
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Posted 14 days ago , edited 13 days ago

MelodieLenora wrote:

Girls ask for so much stuff, really? God, I'd love to be in that relationship where someone is buying me shit all of the time. I certainly wouldn't be asking left and right, though.

I'd love to be in an awesome relationship. But right now, I don't know that I'm going to go for that. In any case I'll probably go for a girl in my next relationship.


So I am up next for relationship?! oh wait... *looks at my own profile and scrolles down and sees it says male...* damn it can I try next year? (its a new year allready...)
Yeah but the thing is that it will be better when both parts goes into the search for someone a bit more "serous" about relationship (I am not that person, also when you feel that comfort from instinct and recon/"similar" smell)
I think there is 3 parts of love
1. by instinct (totaly obesseted from first contact or something like that) Valkyria, dragonaut etc
2. Build up/created bond (where both want to build it or it happend because of a good/critical/bad event) most series
3. Forced/ by illusion (either by 1 part that want to force the other part in someway) something like in Elfen Lied ( but with some of number 2)

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About in relationship or not
I think for many will help alot phycological (hope thats right) to be in some relationship before they are getting messed up in some way (I have been bit effected by that :/ )

also yes when after a first "try out" then I guess things would go much smoother and clearer so the first time early is somewhat needed for many?
I think too that you get a clearer view of the other gender by doing so (really if you are/been alone for a long time or had a bad past people)
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Posted 13 days ago
Both are beneficial in their own way. It depends on a person's life style. Not everyone will have the same answer to life.
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Let me preface this by saying I've personally always been single but I've seen plenty of my friends go through relationships. With that out of the way, I'll say I prefer to be single as of now. I say this because I just have not found the right person yet. I guess you could call me "picky" because I know what I'm looking for and I have yet to find it. But once I do, perhaps my opinion will change and I'll be like "relationships ftw!"
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Some people prefer to be single, some rather always be in a relationship, and some are content with either or. Mostly based off someone's personality. I'm single right now because of school, work and pursuing goals. I would like to be in a relationship, but not actively seeking one. They'll end up popping out of the woodwork one day.
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