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don't bit more than you can chew.

hard to imagine, 1 partner is already enough plus kids.

hands full, where do they get the time...amazing

and $$$ too. how do support so many? hmm...
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I think it is alright as long as the other partners agree for it~ Though I never heard of a women with alot of guys Hahah
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I don't think I could handle it. I barely got this one relationship down.
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aqjuvenileorion wrote:

I think it is alright as long as the other partners agree for it~ Though I never heard of a women with alot of guys Hahah


don't be surprise, there is.

empress cixior wu zetian are good examples.
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wrong
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though my religion permits it... i'd rather be divorced den go thru polygamy. i mean, who ever can stand havin their husband sleepin wid another woman even if its his second wife. a whole lot of bull sh*t to me. cheers.
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One is enough. The living expenses for the family would already be sky high to substain. LOL
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Cool, it would be fun having multiple partners. Umm.... but on the other hand that might cause problems too
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sadly... almost half of my classmates suffer such a situation...
many had tried to commit suicide and stuffs that are too horrible to mention...

The kids are the ones who suffer the most...
and parents are too stupid to not consider such a factor...
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dkcy209 wrote:


aqjuvenileorion wrote:

I think it is alright as long as the other partners agree for it~ Though I never heard of a women with alot of guys Hahah


don't be surprise, there is.

empress cixior wu zetian are good examples.


Ohh you made me remember Lol thanks I forgot -_-
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CrashAriMP5N2O wrote:

Although it's people's business whether they want to be polygamists or not, I do not support it. It has an adverse effect on the relationships that takes place within a household. No person can serve to masters at once. Who would you give more importance among your spouses? Because people are the way they are, such ties can breed jealousy, incompetence, and inferiority complexes to name a few. What does that do to the children? They will quite have a stunted understanding of a familiar relationship. I've also seen disturbing news among polygamist environments. There was this report in a remote place in Colorodo where polygamy is taken to levels that include incest, molestation, and child abuse (which is not limited to the usual definitions but to arranged marriages between a 14 yr old with a 40 yr old). If you're born a male, you're pretty much ousted from the society because competition among males for females is absurdly rigged. That place forbids internet, radio, and television so they're pretty much disconnected to the outside world.

EDIT: With respect to some cultures and religions such as Islam, I believe they have limits (such as 4 for Islam) but it's still a little immoral to me. A Muslim man can legally and completely divorce a wife by saying "I divorce you" 4 times to that wife.


i agree with the whole polygamy can cause problems within a family ...however in islam its true a man can mary only four women... at the time this law was made ppl were marrying loads of women and there were concubines and everything and if u were born a girl at the time im talking like thousands and thousands of years ago women had no rights whatsover and terrible things happened anyays...also there are rules and stuff really hard rules the man must follow in order to marry another women and he has to have sorta like permission from his other wife and he has to be equal to both, three or all four with absolutely everything.....not tht i think that ppl follow the rules cuz ppl never do really follow rules... anywayz...im against polygamy... and marriage...
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I don't care about Polygamy if you're not a pedo about it.
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To tell you the truth ..
i think that it is not wrong at all...
let me explain
1 man
1 2 3 (3)womans 1A man+1A woman 1B man+ 1B woman
4 4 4 (12)daugthers and sons. 2 children 2 children
they all live in the same roof know each other couple A and Couple B get a divorce
and those 3 woman get along rather well and 1AMan+1Bwoman 1Bman +1A woman
so all his children too. 4 children
MOST people think that is morally wrong since there situation: some of the kids think that is either mama
not marry and have more than one woman. or papa`s fault or they even will blame there self. They might
never know his stepbrother/sister since they dont get along.
Most people think that is morally wrong since
they are not married. 2 broken marrige and 4 children that might ever knoe eachother.
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I would rather have a monogamous relationship.
For one i wouldn't wanna share xD
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Demented3 wrote:
however in islam its true a man can mary only four women... at the time this law was made ppl were marrying loads of women and there were concubines and everything

This sort of law made sense at the time in Islam because many women's husbands were killed in all the fighting. They were left without husbands and, in that society, needed a man. There weren't enough men to go around.

Muslims have told me that, these days, even if they're permitted to marry more than one woman in their country they don't because "it's too much trouble." I think it's probably kind of rare in most places unless you're a rich guy who just wants to show off and marry four gold diggers.
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