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why you girls like playing hard to get?
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Posted 3/1/11

shesssh its really get the me when girl do this....
stop with the mind games!
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Girls are playing hard to get? Nay. It's either they're just not into you, or you're too impatient.
Posted 3/2/11 , edited 3/2/11
I've never had that problem. All my past relationships consisted of either girls showing an interest in me, or by starting as casual friends who talk about random stuff. These days I just ignore females who show interest in me because I am not looking for anything from them. Can get annoying especially if I am at the gym because a lot of times they are persistent with their 'hints'.

Just buy her a present and ask her if she likes anybody right now. It doesn't even have to be specific of who. If she says yes while 'smiling', then that's a clue, if it's a no, then neither of you have confessed, and she gets a nice sentimental gift which can build to an eventual relationship.

If you really want to bite the bullet. Take into account your chemistry of friendship or comfort level. 'In this case the better the worse in most cases'. You need to straight out ask her if she likes you. No tricks involved. If she says 'as a friend', then you have the go ahead to sulk into a deep dark depression. Have fun with that.
Posted 3/2/11
She isn't playing hard to get, you're just a stalker.
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Posted 3/2/11
haha. yeah i agree with the previous comments^^
the problem is in you not with girls.
it's not playing hard to get.
you might just misinterpreted the girl's real intention.lolxD
Posted 3/2/11 , edited 3/2/11
It's because they want u to rape them >=D lol jk xD.... well in psychological sense it could be because they want to see how far u r willing to go for them, tht they don't want to be easy to get, or tht they're just not interested
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lol ....stalking lol thats funny....no its not that..i know she like me all her friends tell me..just i dont understand y she wont tell me.....
mayb she think i wont like her back..or mayb i should just tell her. that i like her
o forget it this just give me a headache.
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Posted 3/2/11
Isn't that what makes them adorable though?
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Don't know why some girls do make it hard, just make it obvious if your interested or not... not make it into a big ol' puzzle.
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Sokdsun wrote:

lol ....stalking lol thats funny....no its not that..i know she like me all her friends tell me..just i dont understand y she wont tell me.....
mayb she think i wont like her back..or mayb i should just tell her. that i like her
o forget it this just give me a headache.


tell her dat u like her or else this would drag on nn she might lose interest
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maybe she has doubts..
Posted 3/2/11

varnlestoff wrote:

I've never had that problem. All my past relationships consisted of either girls showing an interest in me, or by starting as casual friends who talk about random stuff. These days I just ignore females who show interest in me because I am not looking for anything from them. Can get annoying especially if I am at the gym because a lot of times they are persistent with their 'hints'.

Just buy her a present and ask her if she likes anybody right now. It doesn't even have to be specific of who. If she says yes while 'smiling', then that's a clue, if it's a no, then neither of you have confessed, and she gets a nice sentimental gift which can build to an eventual relationship.

If you really want to bite the bullet. Take into account your chemistry of friendship or comfort level. 'In this case the better the worse in most cases'. You need to straight out ask her if she likes you. No tricks involved. If she says 'as a friend', then you have the go ahead to sulk into a deep dark depression. Have fun with that.


I LIKE THIS TIP.
Posted 3/2/11 , edited 3/2/11
Not all girls are hard to get. Some just throw themselves to guys. For me my standards are high, but not to the point where they're ridiculous. If a guy becomes interested, that's wonderful, but expect a challenge. Gifts and candies only work but so much.
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It's not necessarily playing hard to get, depending on the girl, her feelings, and the circumstances.

If she just came out of a bad relationship, she might have a hard time dealing with rejection, insecurity, or trust, and might need some time to truly warm up to you and see that you're a good guy willing to wait and try for her.

Perhaps she feels wary about getting into a new relationship. Or maybe she's unsure of something about YOU, even though she likes you. Maybe she has certain requirements, likes you, but you don't quite yet meet them and she's trying to nudge you to do or say something.

Or, she could be like many girls who want to not have to express their like and just have the guy say it first, and when he does, she'll say it back. She may also just want you to straight up ask her out, without all of the awkwardness of "I like you..." "I like you too..." *pause* "So..."
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Sokdsun wrote:

lol ....stalking lol thats funny....no its not that..i know she like me all her friends tell me..just i dont understand y she wont tell me.....
mayb she think i wont like her back..or mayb i should just tell her. that i like her
o forget it this just give me a headache.


Maybe she's waiting for you to man up and tell her you're into her.. Waiting for her to make the first move is a bad idea. Especially if you know she's into you, what more do you want?
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