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Why Is the World So Shallow When it Comes to Looks?
Posted 3/8/11
I believe people need to feel at least some kind of physical attraction towards someone for any kind of relationship to grow then when you get to know the person your not as judgmental about their looks. At least thats what happened to me in my five year current relationship...i thought he was good looking started talking to him a year later we started dating and now he looks like a hippy/hobo and i still love him to death and think he's the most attractive guy in my eyes when other people tell me i can do so much better because i'm pretty -_-
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Posted 3/8/11
You live in a world of "Duality." Wake up and get out of the current game.
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Posted 3/8/11 , edited 3/8/11

BreakbeatHeartbeat wrote:

I believe people need to feel at least some kind of physical attraction towards someone for any kind of relationship to grow then when you get to know the person your not as judgmental about their looks. At least thats what happened to me in my five year current relationship...i thought he was good looking started talking to him a year later we started dating and now he looks like a hippy/hobo and i still love him to death and think he's the most attractive guy in my eyes when other people tell me i can do so much better because i'm pretty -_-


i kinda agree with you on this i am attract to this guy who to every other girl is not cute at all but to me and knowing him for 6 1/2 years is the one of best attractive guys i know and mostly b/c i know him and how he is and his soul and could care less what other think about him and dont care if they say i should be doing better
Posted 3/8/11
Technically it's all just biology. We are pre-programed to search for strong healthy mates. Now what is define as strong & healthy is largely depended on societies views. In today's media obsessed world this fact is exploited to sell us images and ideas. A few years back what was defined as beautiflul for a women was an hour glass figure like Marilyn Monroe and stick thin models weren't the norm till twiggy graced photo shoots. However when you come down to it, then it's just a matter of opinion cause in the end beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Posted 3/8/11

wwe wrote:


BreakbeatHeartbeat wrote:

I believe people need to feel at least some kind of physical attraction towards someone for any kind of relationship to grow then when you get to know the person your not as judgmental about their looks. At least thats what happened to me in my five year current relationship...i thought he was good looking started talking to him a year later we started dating and now he looks like a hippy/hobo and i still love him to death and think he's the most attractive guy in my eyes when other people tell me i can do so much better because i'm pretty -_-


i kinda agree with you on this i am attract to this guy who to every other girl is not cute at all but to me and knowing him for 6 1/2 years is the one of best attractive guys i know and mostly b/c i know him and how he is and his soul and could care less what other think about him and dont care if they say i should be doing better


Keep not caring about what others tell you about you trying to be with someone better looking ^^ I sure as hell am not gonna listen to them either. I rather be super happy with a guy who loves me for who i am and who i love for who he is
Posted 3/8/11

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You don't have to be perfect looking, just good enough to wake up to every morning.


I'd love to wake up next to you every morning ^_~
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Posted 3/8/11 , edited 3/8/11

BreakbeatHeartbeat wrote:


wwe wrote:


BreakbeatHeartbeat wrote:

I believe people need to feel at least some kind of physical attraction towards someone for any kind of relationship to grow then when you get to know the person your not as judgmental about their looks. At least thats what happened to me in my five year current relationship...i thought he was good looking started talking to him a year later we started dating and now he looks like a hippy/hobo and i still love him to death and think he's the most attractive guy in my eyes when other people tell me i can do so much better because i'm pretty -_-


i kinda agree with you on this i am attract to this guy who to every other girl is not cute at all but to me and knowing him for 6 1/2 years is the one of best attractive guys i know and mostly b/c i know him and how he is and his soul and could care less what other think about him and dont care if they say i should be doing better


Keep not caring about what others tell you about you trying to be with someone better looking ^^ I sure as hell am not gonna listen to them either. I rather be super happy with a guy who loves me for who i am and who i love for who he is


yup true i will be doing the same
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Posted 3/8/11
cause not everyone is blessed with the looks we got and if you ever notice couples are never equally good looking one is always better than the other
Posted 3/8/11
A lot of people love with their eyes first before their heart. Some people flock to what appeals them visually first. It's how [many] people are. Everyone isn't like that thankfully. There's individuals out there who loves a person for their personality, no entirely their looks.
Posted 3/8/11 , edited 3/8/11

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I believe in natural selection. We think some people are attractive just so we can create a diverse, beutiful, strong genepool with them. We look for beutiful people since we need to ensure the offspring is aswell so it can continue to carry on the genes. People are often attracted to their opposites just to create a good immune system. This is programmed, we are not aware of why we do the things we do, in the end we are just biological robots. Do you think a spider loves? no it frikken eats its partner afterwards. We are just like them, except the eating part.

Thats my cynical thought of it.
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Posted 3/8/11
You can make anyone look pretty if they try hard enough.

I'd personally find someone who doesn't look after their appearance or health at all very unattractive but that doesn't mean I expect people to look like models either.
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A majority of people say that personality matters, yet I can't see your "inner beauty," I can only see the outside. Like it or not, looks usually play a significant role in human attraction. For most people the first thing you see is someone's face, 9/10 during that time you're judged. Dose it suck? Yes, but that's life. You can't change the way people perceive you, it's all in how you see yourself. For me I judge on appearance. Call me shallow, but what I do about 10 other people have probably done the same to me, yet as II get to know a person my point of view may change.
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Posted 3/8/11
You can tell yourselves not to judge a person, but on the inside we already have our own personal stereotypes and opinions about a person once we've seen them. We unconsciously draw conclusions about a person. Vanity is just part of what the media tells us that we should desire, you don't have to follow that standard. However, it is pretty hard to resist mass media. Personally, I'll go by looks first and change my conclusions about them as I get to know them. It's just a process.
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Posted 3/8/11
Looking presentable is important. I'm not saying gorgeous here, but if I'm with a guy he better be able to take care of himself.

That being said, I do look for personality over looks. Good looks mean nothing if you have an ugly personality to go along with it.
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Posted 3/8/11
I like sexxy,cute, hottie and good person. I love a girl that loves to hang out with me, ask me if i'm okay.
Always care about me and loving me. Also I like a girl that never cheat on me. I hate when girls cheat on their boyfriend. It pissed me off so much. You know when yall girls do that, it hurts me so much. Because I was in love with you and I gave my heart to you.
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