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Why Is the World So Shallow When it Comes to Looks?
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Posted 3/8/11
nothing wrong with admiring and loving beautiful people.. it's only nature.. to be attracted to the physical best of a species.. there is absolutely nothing wrong with it... people that thing there is.. well they're confusing issues.. if looks are the only thing considered.. well that's not right.. but it is an important consideration.. people don't purposely go out and try to get an "ugly" version of something.. they get stuff they consider beautiful.. now some opinions will differ on what is beautiful.. but that doesn't change the fact people prefer something beautiful..
Posted 3/8/11
OP has to get real. This is how the society works, I'm pretty sure you won't go for an ugly man/woman either. You can be friends with a not-so-good-looking one, and slowly as you guys know each other better, it can leads to chemistry and stuffs like that. And for people who are complaining that they can't get a freaking boyfriend/girlfriend and how people just judge others by their looks are mostly people who only complain but don't do a single shit about how they dress and look.

I'm not sure about guys, but seriously, get real, girls. If you want to go out not combing your hair or dress like kids, don't complain that guys don't come for you. Like last time when I was young I had all these stupid thoughts too. But as I grow, I realize, if I stop thinking I'm some smart ass (meaning that thinking how shitty this society is as people just judge others by looks), things went so much better.

So my advice, do something about your look if you're not happy about it instead of complaining about the society. Like that's gonna work, it'll just make you even uglier to others. -_-

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EXCUSE ME ZEBRA BACKGROUND BUT I DONT SHARE THE BEAUTY PAGEANT COMPLEX
I AGREE....
Posted 3/8/11
Instincts.

A healthier body means healthier reproduction. It's a simple answer when you come down to it, when someone is strong and beautiful that means they can defend themselves as well as reproduce effectively.

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It's not that looks are the most important thing in the world. A lot of people pay attention to the personality as well
But you're not going to know someone's personality by glancing at them from a distance.

Posted 3/8/11
It seems we've accepted more of our basic nature. It's like a bird that wants to mate, the visual appeal must be there.
Posted 3/8/11
The Media cancer, mostly. It plays at peoples self esteem.
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you may look pretty all you want, but in the end it's the guy with a wad of cash in his pocket that walks away with the lady at the bar.
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I honesty do not care how I look, but I do hate it when people talk down to me, because I don't. I refuse to change for anyone or anything. That being said I also hate it when girls get mad at me, cause I don't care how they look either, especially the ones that don't want to be judged by how they look -.- Looks matter to me about as much a penny does, and that isn't much considering I give all my pennies away >.>
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NE1469 wrote:

It seems we've accepted more of our basic nature. It's like a bird that wants to mate, the visual appeal must be there.


You can talk about shallow all you want, if you can't talk me into a hard on, you better have the looks to make up for it or your personality is worth about as much as a turn off.
I'm sure the deeper amongst you might argue that it is me that needs to give personality a chance to the extent that the spark may be created, but truth be told, my ears have given a lot of you personality girls a shot and in the end, you've been as interesting as a doorknob.
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Isn't it along the lines that looks are what draws you in and personality is what keeps you together? I'm pretty "shallow" myself. I like how that term is used for those of us who know what we want.
Posted 3/9/11

Lemonii wrote:


NE1469 wrote:

It seems we've accepted more of our basic nature. It's like a bird that wants to mate, the visual appeal must be there.


You can talk about shallow all you want, if you can't talk me into a hard on, you better have the looks to make up for it or your personality is worth about as much as a turn off.
I'm sure the deeper amongst you might argue that it is me that needs to give personality a chance to the extent that the spark may be created, but truth be told, my ears have given a lot of you personality girls a shot and in the end, you've been as interesting as a doorknob.


You'll never find me taking one for the team when that is just a man cheating himself. If the only options I have are fugly women, I think a life of celibacy, or some drastic changes, are naturally in order.
Posted 3/9/11
Looks aren't all that matter in things.

If people want to base a person solely on looks then they're going to be really disappointed later in their lives.

Looks die with age, what's inside does not.
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well personality is important but before you actually approach someone, there has to be something that attracts you to them. Most likely if you're not that appealing to a person you're less likely to be approached and thus you'll never know that great personality behind the looks.
Sure people can be harsh and calling someone ugly is really hurtful but each country had what they think is beautiful.
when I was younger I used to be teased about how I looked but as I got older those same people started to talk to me... I don't tease ppl about looks because of my own experiences...
Honestly I much rather wait and find someone who has both looks and personality, sure that may be shallow but that doesn't mean I'll completely ignore someone who isn't as handsome.
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Posted 3/9/11

LynnTerra wrote:

Looks aren't all that matter in things.

If people want to base a person solely on looks then they're going to be really disappointed later in their lives.

Looks die with age, what's inside does not.


Don't act like people don't change;
Evidence: All men that wonder when their sweetheart turned into the nag they want to avoid until sex-time
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