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Posted 3/14/11 , edited 8/3/11
What would you do If your mom, Dad or anyone from your family try to stop you from dating your bf/gf because they were not the same race? Or what would you do if your bf/gf family try to stop them from dating you b/c your a different race from them? How you feel about this and has this happen to you or anyone you know? what advice do you have on this?


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date secretly. In this situation it's can be hard to change peoples minds
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I would be really pissed off at them, c'mon. This is my life not their life. I can do anything I want, if that woman loves me back. I'll do whatever it takes to date and love her. I don't give a shit about my parents thinking I shouldn't date a different race.
Posted 3/14/11
my parents dont let me date at all lol
but if i did have a bf and my parents dont like him because he's a different race i'd most likely tell them to f*ck off, rude yeah i know.
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Posted 3/14/11
I wouldn't listen to them. It doesn't matter who I date, as long as they make me feel loved. My family doesn't let me date at my age right now, but it would be really nice for that to happen (:
Posted 3/14/11
thankfully my mum lets me date whoever i want, no matter what she secretly thinks about them..id probly still do it anyway if i thought they were worth it
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Lol in there face and move out...

The laws on my side in this argument!
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This sounds like a hot situation like a type of "forbidden fruit."
By saying "you can't do this," the parents just make the sex 10x better.

I think my family would be happy to see me with a white, Irish American girl because I have the same background but they don't care that much.
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i wouldn't know my mom is totally fine with that sorta thing but my cousins guardian may be a problem, they are total shits i feel so sorry for her.
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Posted 3/14/11

clannad3 wrote:

Lol in there face and move out...

The laws on my side in this argument!


You will have to seek legal emancipation first, before you sever your parent's rights to control your life. And I don't think emancipation will be granted just because you want it. You will probably have to demonstrate that you are economically self-sufficient first before a judge will grant it to you.

Realize that once you have been emancipated, your parents have literally ZERO legal obligations toward you. They don't have to give you clothing, cars, food, shelter, money, etc etc. Even if you find yourself homeless, emancipation can not be reversed.
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man..i would be upset. havent they heard the phrase? Love is more just skin color.( i think thats how it goes) but anyway Ive dated outside my race but my parents are cool with it. but if they were like that, I would tell them" judge them after know you get them".
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Posted 3/14/11

NotGheyDeer wrote:


Leechan69 wrote:

man..i would be upset. havent they heard the phrase? Love is more just skin color.( i think thats how it goes) but anyway Ive dated outside my race but my parents are cool with it. but if they were like that, I would tell them" judge them after know you get them".


Love is more than skin-deep.

You owe me lunch.


Oh right..i knew it was something like lol
you owe me lunch?
Posted 3/14/11
My parents would never be so petty, but if they were I would just ignore such idiocy and carry on with my relationship.
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Taedrin wrote:


clannad3 wrote:

Lol in there face and move out...

The laws on my side in this argument!


You will have to seek legal emancipation first, before you sever your parent's rights to control your life. And I don't think emancipation will be granted just because you want it. You will probably have to demonstrate that you are economically self-sufficient first before a judge will grant it to you.

Realize that once you have been emancipated, your parents have literally ZERO legal obligations toward you. They don't have to give you clothing, cars, food, shelter, money, etc etc. Even if you find yourself homeless, emancipation can not be reversed.


Im like 18 in 3 months...

So i control my own life.

And the laws on my side because they would be using racial discrimination which is a serious offence these days.

Court has no place for such small cases.
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Posted 3/14/11
Laugh and keep dating.
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