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Well I was flipping through the channels this one day and the Olympics came on. Now, I didn’t know I was a pedophile… But then they did the parallel bars. I’m all, “Man she’s hot,” and then the speakers came on “Thirteen year old such-and-such and such…” I was all…eww… I feel dirty!

:p, Bit of stand up…

Anyway, in my opinion the lowliest people in this world are the people who hurt small children, especially girls, and especially when they sexual force themselves on others. Call what I said sexist, but I feel (as a man) obliged more to protect women than men. Even if they’re children. (Now if I had to chose between a woman and a small boy I’d take the boy. I don’t think his life is like…worth more, but this being said he hasn’t had as much opportunity as her. She may be more valuable to society, but I’m a softy.)

This being said I hate how people assume that only girls get molested and raped and talk about how men are the bane of such things. This coming from a victim, boys get molested too. In fact, I don’t remember where this was, but some statistic showed that in this specific areas between rape and molestation victims between the ages of 5-9 are mostly boys. The reason they gave for this was that mothers leave their young children with teenage babysitters who are usually girls. Note, this was an old statistic that I found years ago, but it drives me nuts to hear that boys never get hurt and life is just 99% harder for girls and women than for boys and men. That’s total crap, in my opinion. Guy’s have a lot of things that work against them too. (This is referring to America, obviously there are certain places where women get screwed over.)

I also think it’s unfair that if a man takes advantage of a little girl he’s a pedophile and pervert. If a woman does it she’s emotional wounded, and it’s her husbands fault, and she just needs some help. It’s a double standard, and Oprah agrees. (Though Oprah was much nicer to women who took advantage of boys than men who took advantage of girls.)

On her show she had several women who had been convicted of raping or seducing young boys. Elementary and middle school boys. 3rd-7th grade. Grown women. In fact one of them actually waited for the boy to turn 18 and then married him.

One of these women got 2 years in prison. Another got 6 months public services. The sentences were of this nature. But if a 18 year old man sleeps with a 15 year old girl (or if the girl just –says- he slept with her,) BAM! 20 years in prison.

What’s your opinion on all of this? How do you feel about pedophiles, male or female? What do you think makes them feel an attraction for small and young children? Is it truly just physical lust for men and emotional instability for women? Is it fair to give women lighter sentences than men? General discussion about these things is open.




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Just for the record, you're not a pedophile if you think that a 13 year old is hot. You're just sixteen years old. If you were 21 and she 18, you could be married. x)

I watched that episode with Oprah, and I agree with you. The women who were on the shows got a lot of milder punishments than males who do the same.
Pedophiles who molest small kids on the other hand should go to prison right away in my opinion.

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Yeah your only 16.
Most boys would let it happen if the womans fit...
But men raping little girls is just.. urgh ..
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MrArmageddon wrote:
I watched that episode with Oprah, and I agree with you. The women who were on the shows got a lot of milder punishments than males who do the same.


Accia wrote:
Yeah your only 16.
Most boys would let it happen if the womans fit...
But men raping little girls is just.. urgh ..


Hurray double standard!

Edit to clarify: A child is a child an adult is an adult. Regardless of gender pedophilia is illegal and the punishment shouldn't change simply because of the genders of the offender or the victim.
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pedophile, at sixteen? uh.. sure, if you like 5 year olds or something, but come on.
16 and 13 are not far off from one another, and besides. both of you are still growing.
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paperback wrote:

pedophile, at sixteen? uh.. sure, if you like 5 year olds or something, but come on.
16 and 13 are not far off from one another, and besides. both of you are still growing.


it's not that far, but here in my state it's still enough to get checked into Walla Walla for rape charges.
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You know what is funny though? You are 18, shes 17 and you both are in the same year but she is still considered to be jailbait? Hmmmm.

Yea, theres nothing wrong with thinking minors are hot (....but for me that line ends when they are under 16 -_-...so 15 year olds.... YOU'RE NOT HOT. go put some clothes on)

I don't care if the pedophile is male or female but they they sexually molest a child, that just kind of sickening. I agreed that gender bias of the pedophile is kind of ..."unfair". Women should receive the same amount of punishment the men does seeing how the crimes are identical. I don't know why pedophilia is such a problem. Probably because the innocence of youth is too tempting? I don't know.

And Opera...hmmm I haven't seen that show in years...seeing how it sends me to sleep =]
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lol... just say i was in the same position
I'm 17 right now so I'm not a pedophile until 7 days later when I turn 18 ? (holy crap only a week away)

wait isn't pedophilia where u "do" it with minors?

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Apparently not. The dictionary on my desktop says its,
"sexual feelings directed toward children."

And a Pedophile is,
"a person who is sexually attracted to children"
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Am I considered a pedophile if I'm 15 (turning 16) and I'm attracted to a 13 yr old (turning 14) ???? I wonder....gosh...we have so many pedophiles and molestors in this world tho....probably a few in CR too....and also...we have alot of pedophile threads...
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noooo, it's only when ur past 18... i think
around here at least,
That's why i was asking if i was attracted to one right now am i considered a pedo?
if not, what about a week from now when i turn 18 ???
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Jorlwind wrote:


paperback wrote:

pedophile, at sixteen? uh.. sure, if you like 5 year olds or something, but come on.
16 and 13 are not far off from one another, and besides. both of you are still growing.


it's not that far, but here in my state it's still enough to get checked into Walla Walla for rape charges.



eww, why would a 16 year old go for a 13 year old in that way? lol
i thought we were all just talking about physical/age attraction =P




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paperback wrote:


Jorlwind wrote:


paperback wrote:

pedophile, at sixteen? uh.. sure, if you like 5 year olds or something, but come on.
16 and 13 are not far off from one another, and besides. both of you are still growing.


it's not that far, but here in my state it's still enough to get checked into Walla Walla for rape charges.



eww, why would a 16 year old go for a 13 year old in that way? lol
i thought we were all just talking about physical/age attraction =P






Uhhh why would a 50 year old go for an 8 year old. Ahhh the strange things in this world..
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I was technically a pedophile before Redgarnettk turned 18.
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lol.. this thread.

I just remembered. I think the law was that, you can't date or "do" anything with anyone 3 years older or younger than you if you're under 18... over here
Something like that
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