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Any Of Your Friends Try to Pressure You in to Having Sex?
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Um yeah.
My ex wanted it a lot.
I was only thirteen, then.
I didn't find the image of two people sweating over each other was nice.
Still don't.
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Other than the "you should f*$# that girl" which is just manly encouragement, my one old friend was trying to get me to have sex with this one chick that I wasn't really into. He was pleading with me "please have sex with her. Do it for me. It could be the best sex you ever had!

I was like "leave me alone. I don't want to have sex with her. " lol.
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nope... that's never gnna happen.... my friends are too innocent to even talk about it... lol x)
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a few times but I only gave in once >.> I feel bad about it
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My coworker is always telling me to get jiggy with our boss, since shes uptight. Thats about it.
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Well, not really.
But back in school... many many years ago. I remember one recess, i was kicking a ball around with a couple of guys from my class. Grade A douchebags by the way. Anyway, at one point one of them goes "So Martin, how many girls have you fucked?" And i was like 12 at the time.
Having sex with a girl wasn't even on my radar at 12.
And they then went into a spiel about how slutty the girls were when they got drunk, and described something that to me sounded damn near like rape of semi passed out chicks. They tried to convince me how sad i was for being a virgin, and that i should try getting with the chicks when they were all liquored up.
The only thing i thought of that, even then, was; "How fucking sad are these guys?!"
I lost my virginity just fine, when i was ready. But it for damn sure wasn't at 12.

The only time since then, that i have been "pressured" was when a girl, quite persistently, initiated sex with me. I halfheartedly said no several times (Due to my family being in the next room.) But being the weak willed 15 year old bag of hormones that i was. I somehow failed to prevent this intercourse. ^^
Then again, it took about as much "pressure" to convince me to have sex, as it takes pressure to break soap bubbles. If a girl straddles a 15 year old healthy lad, i can guarantee you he needs a damn good reason to say no.


this was a pretty cool response until the last part lol but i guess it's only nature

wat kind of 12 year olds did u kno? well these days, kids are more "informed" than back then...well there was an 8 yr old who was pregnant before on the news. even at this age, not one of my friends think about sex yet..except like 2 but its all joking and no one pressure any of us into it. P.S. im only talking bout girls czz my guy friends are all nasty. hormones
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this was a pretty cool response until the last part lol but i guess it's only nature

wat kind of 12 year olds did u kno? well these days, kids are more "informed" than back then...well there was an 8 yr old who was pregnant before on the news. even at this age, not one of my friends think about sex yet..except like 2 but its all joking and no one pressure any of us into it. P.S. im only talking bout girls czz my guy friends are all nasty. hormones


Hehehe, well, at 15 i enjoyed sex just like everybody else, wasn't hard to convince me. :)

These guys were douchebags. Not to mention bullies. It probably wouldn't surprise anyone to know that one of them is a politician now. ^^


Well, everyone are ready for it at different times. Once you feel the urge, have fun. Until then, don't worry about it.
And yes, guys are usually more focused on it than girls at that age.
I have to say though, over the last handful of years, the females i have had the pleasure of getting that close with want and enjoy sex as much as I do. And that is the way it should be.
It shouldn't feel like a chore, or something you are trying to get out of.
Find yourself a partner ready to listen, and work with your particular wants and needs. Then you want ever have to worry about trying to dodge sex. Once you move into that realm.
Posted 3/22/11
All the time. It is irritating.
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xXxCocoMusicNxXx wrote:

this was a pretty cool response until the last part lol but i guess it's only nature

wat kind of 12 year olds did u kno? well these days, kids are more "informed" than back then...well there was an 8 yr old who was pregnant before on the news. even at this age, not one of my friends think about sex yet..except like 2 but its all joking and no one pressure any of us into it. P.S. im only talking bout girls czz my guy friends are all nasty. hormones


Hehehe, well, at 15 i enjoyed sex just like everybody else, wasn't hard to convince me. :)

These guys were douchebags. Not to mention bullies. It probably wouldn't surprise anyone to know that one of them is a politician now. ^^


Well, everyone are ready for it at different times. Once you feel the urge, have fun. Until then, don't worry about it.
And yes, guys are usually more focused on it than girls at that age.
I have to say though, over the last handful of years, the females i have had the pleasure of getting that close with want and enjoy sex as much as I do. And that is the way it should be.
It shouldn't feel like a chore, or something you are trying to get out of.
Find yourself a partner ready to listen, and work with your particular wants and needs. Then you want ever have to worry about trying to dodge sex. Once you move into that realm.


protection? lol but yeah, im only 15 so i have a good number of years before im ready.
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Sure and I always listen! At the right blood alcohol level, every woman looks sexy enough.


Also, I'm a hardcore crook, drinking rubbing alcohol, never use a rubber at all, I'm fuckin' bitches raw!!




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xXxCocoMusicNxXx wrote:

protection? lol but yeah, im only 15 so i have a good number of years before im ready.


Well, you should always protect yourself. But there is many ways of going about that. :)
Hehe, you never know.
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You can't rape the willing!
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xXxCocoMusicNxXx wrote:

protection? lol but yeah, im only 15 so i have a good number of years before im ready.


Well, you should always protect yourself. But there is many ways of going about that. :)
Hehe, you never know.


yeah, i read another forum question bout sex too and saw all these advices on stuff bout condom, pills, etc. i feel like i already learned all this stuff from school. had like half a class of sex ed and was never taught again. media provides the rest of my knowledge.
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Posted 3/22/11
No, it's not like I even need pressuring.
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xXxCocoMusicNxXx wrote:
yeah, i read another forum question bout sex too and saw all these advices on stuff bout condom, pills, etc. i feel like i already learned all this stuff from school. had like half a class of sex ed and was never taught again. media provides the rest of my knowledge.


Well yes. :)
The pill is very effective in keeping you from getting pregnant. And it has added benefits, like period management and stuff. But it wont protect you from decease.
Condoms, always a solid choice. As they are very effective as far as preventing pregnancy and transmitting deceases. Not 100% though, as the condom might might break or the guy might fail to use it correctly. ^^

It's all very safe, so it sounds a lot scarier than it is.



Let me say this though... Pulling out, doesn't work! Do not let any sneaky guy tell you otherwise.
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