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Life with pain over death with peace?
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Say you were with a person you dearly love, but they're begging you to end their misery because of a sickness that they have. Would you do it? Or would you let them live with the pain but there is a high percentage chance that they will die later on?

I would not end their lives, but just keep them company all the time and talk with them. I find myself unable to do anything bad to another person even if they're begging. And furthermore, it would be horrifying to wake up the next day realizing that I killed a person that I loved.

D: Your views?

( I searched forum topics, including the Thread Index, and found none like this. If I'm wrong, please accept my apology. )
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Yep, I searched thorough, I hope. ><

But say they were bedridden? You'd be letting a part of your memory die at the hands of yourself; would you say you could live with that on your conscience?

(I think I'm sounding a bit too accusing >< )

I think that also, thinking about the negative part of our lives are always impacting, and if we thought about other things it would turn for the better. Maybe reading a book, talking about your day, would help?
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life with pain....but i will try really hard to make them happy and cheer them up...i'll visit her every single day and make sure she wun feel sad...from the way i tink,god will take ones life when its fated and its not up to me to decide her death..therefore,as long as god want her to be alive...i'll be right beside her to cheer her up^^
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life with pain....but i will try really hard to make them happy and cheer them up...i'll visit her every single day and make sure she wun feel sad...from the way i tink,god will take ones life when its fated and its not up to me to decide her death..therefore,as long as god want her to be alive...i'll be right beside her to cheer her up^^


That's the happiest response I've ever seen/heard...but with only one fatal flaw : what if God didn't exist? I find that hard to prove right or wrong, but then again, everyone has their own thoughts. :3 Thanks for your opinion..
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It's nice to see someone actually search through the index and use forum search...

I'm a sissy when it comes to death... but when it comes to it, not everyone wants a miserable death... Where they cough up blood to death... I'd be really scared to kill them, but I'd do it before that happens.... I'll probably.. have to "kill" them before they die such a horrible death...

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HokiePokie wrote:

It's nice to see someone actually search through the index and use forum search...

I'm a sissy when it comes to death... but when it comes to it, not everyone wants a miserable death... Where they cough up blood to death... I'd be really scared to kill them, but I'd do it before that happens.... I'll probably.. have to "kill" them before they die such a horrible death...



Could your conscience handle it? Killing someone that you love. And would you kill them when they're awake to see you or when they're sleeping?

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PAIN! cause if ive lived a good life the pain has to come in somehow. i rather die of pain having lived a good life
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PAIN! cause if ive lived a good life the pain has to come in somehow. i rather die of pain having lived a good life


Oh? But this is about another person that you love; a girlfriend, mother, father, sibling, family member, childhood friend? I don't think everyone would have the same approach as you with such vigor. D:
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HokiePokie wrote:

It's nice to see someone actually search through the index and use forum search...

I'm a sissy when it comes to death... but when it comes to it, not everyone wants a miserable death... Where they cough up blood to death... I'd be really scared to kill them, but I'd do it before that happens.... I'll probably.. have to "kill" them before they die such a horrible death...



Could your conscience handle it? Killing someone that you love. And would you kill them when they're awake to see you or when they're sleeping?



I'm not sure if I could take it. But I don't want to see them cough up blood to their death, and see them in pain. And if they wanted to I'll kill them when they're awake.. but I'm not sure if I could kill my lover, that I obviously love a fuck load of a lot... I'd probably go insane if I did. LIVE WITH PAIN FOR YOU!
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Hiyu-kuun wrote:


welook wrote:

PAIN! cause if ive lived a good life the pain has to come in somehow. i rather die of pain having lived a good life


Oh? But this is about another person that you love; a girlfriend, mother, father, sibling, family member, childhood friend? I don't think everyone would have the same approach as you with such vigor. D:

o lol i feel dumb. well i probally let them go with peace. dying in pain is a bad image to keep in ur head. especially if it is a loved one

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No one has the right to force another person to live through that kind of pain if they wish to die. I think that i you wish to end your life you deserve to be able to do so unless you are clearly insane but there are situations where I might choose to die. Having an illness making life a living hell is one of them.


So I guess you meant, you'd obey what the person said? And as you said; they also might be insane... which we can't really tell if they're good at acting.
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welook wrote:


Hiyu-kuun wrote:


welook wrote:

PAIN! cause if ive lived a good life the pain has to come in somehow. i rather die of pain having lived a good life


Oh? But this is about another person that you love; a girlfriend, mother, father, sibling, family member, childhood friend? I don't think everyone would have the same approach as you with such vigor. D:

o lol i feel dumb. well i probally let them go with peace. dying in pain is a bad image to keep in ur head. especially if it is a loved one



Yes, I think so too. Especially with me having my conscience so much stronger than any part of my mind. (If the conscience is part of your mind. o_O )



HokiePokie wrote:


Hiyu-kuun wrote:


HokiePokie wrote:

It's nice to see someone actually search through the index and use forum search...

I'm a sissy when it comes to death... but when it comes to it, not everyone wants a miserable death... Where they cough up blood to death... I'd be really scared to kill them, but I'd do it before that happens.... I'll probably.. have to "kill" them before they die such a horrible death...



Could your conscience handle it? Killing someone that you love. And would you kill them when they're awake to see you or when they're sleeping?



I'm not sure if I could take it. But I don't want to see them cough up blood to their death, and see them in pain. And if they wanted to I'll kill them when they're awake.. but I'm not sure if I could kill my lover, that I obviously love a fuck load of a lot... I'd probably go insane if I did. LIVE WITH PAIN FOR YOU!


Haha, kind of like a modernized Romeo and Juliet?
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Death with peace. I've watched someone live in agony. She wanted to die more than anything, but her family refused to take action. And she was in so much fuckin pain toward the end that she could barely function. There was certaintly nothing we could do to cheer her up or anything like that. On her last days she was just screamin for someone, anyone to end it. But nobody did anything! Her family just sat there on their asses cryin and watchin her, and just kept saying over and over we can't do that it would be to hard on us. They didn't give HER pain a thought, they didn't think about how she was feeling at all! And then she was gone, still screaming from the pain. It was horrible. I will never stand by and let someone I love be tortured like that again.
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magnus102 wrote:


Hiyu-kuun wrote:


magnus102 wrote:

No one has the right to force another person to live through that kind of pain if they wish to die. I think that i you wish to end your life you deserve to be able to do so unless you are clearly insane but there are situations where I might choose to die. Having an illness making life a living hell is one of them.


So I guess you meant, you'd obey what the person said? And as you said; they also might be insane... which we can't really tell if they're good at acting.


Yeah I edited my post before you posted this to say I would do it. Honestly if someone is dangerously insane it is difficult to hide it. If you go to an insane asylum you will see what I mean by insane.


Nope, I've never done so. I find those places kind of... well, obviously frightening. Could you describe..? Not explicitly please ><
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Death with peace. I've watched someone live in agony. She wanted to die more than anything, but her family refused to take action. And she was in so much fuckin pain toward the end that she could barely function. There was certaintly nothing we could do to cheer her up or anything like that. On her last days she was just screamin for someone, anyone to end it. It was horrible. I will never stand by and let someone I love be tortured like that again.


Do you think it would have changed if she was a really bright person? Or maybe she is, but the pain was too much to bear. Think of a really happy and always cheerful person, what do you think their reaction to the pain would be?

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