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Posted 3/30/11 , edited 3/30/11
I have this guy friend who my best friend for about 2 years now. Were not really bf/gf mostly b/c he not ready to have a gf at this time b/c he going thew some family issues right now and dont have time for having a gf. Well mostly this past year having feeling for him.

Anyway my other friends who are about 2 years older then me are kinda pushing me in to having one night stand with someone else and they said I should at lest try it and that I am not my best friends gf yet we are just friends and he wont care if I get laid The reason they want this is b/c they already done one night stands before and to them Sex is the biggest thing to them and they want me to know it on my 18th birthday


The thing is even that i am not gf/bf with my best friend i care a lot for him and he acts like he cares a lot for me and i dont want to do anything that will ruin are friendship and i rather wait for now and see if some time when he gets past his family issues that we might be bf/gf and if i ever do sleep with someone i want it to be with him.

But my other friends keep saying i should not have to wait and should see what its like now and its not big deal if i do it only once .


What should i do? Are they right and its not big deal? or should i at lest talk to my best friend 1st and see how he feels about this? What would you do?
Posted 3/30/11
This is not the right place to ask for this type of advice.
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You have to decide what you want to do. If you don't want to sleep with some random guy, then don't. If your friends are just going out sleeping with every random guy they can, they are going to just end up either pregnant or with some STD. Just let them know how you feel about it and let them know you don't want to be put under that type of pressure.

And if hes told you that hes not ready for a gf. I don't think it would be right to pressure him by saying that you might go sleep with someone else. When hes ready and your the one he wants to be with, I'm sure he will let you know.

But in the end, its your decision. Don't take it lightly. Think hard about what it is that YOU want, and then decide.
Posted 3/30/11
If you don't want to have sex, don't do it. They're not really your friends if they keep doing that. I mean, really, would you keep pushing your friend to have sex even though you know they shouldn't? You're 17. You should wait
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Posted 3/30/11

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You have to decide what you want to do. If you don't want to sleep with some random guy, then don't. If your friends are just going out sleeping with every random guy they can, they are going to just end up either pregnant or with some STD. Just let them know how you feel about it and let them know you don't want to be put under that type of pressure.

And if hes told you that hes not ready for a gf. I don't think it would be right to pressure him by saying that you might go sleep with someone else. When hes ready and your the one he wants to be with, I'm sure he will let you know.

But in the end, its your decision. Don't take it lightly. Think hard about what it is that YOU want, and then decide.


I agree with you sex should not be big deal and there not good friends who are pressuring for sex best thing is just wait and do whats best. If care for each other then can wait and not go sleeping with other randomly ppl


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Posted 3/30/11 , edited 3/30/11
No personal threads....


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You're friend's super duper gay. Forget about him.
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Personal Threads are not allowed.

Need help, try the Thread below:

Personal Adivce
http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-1099/personal-advice

Some advice: Don't do it! Follow your heart! Also, you're 17, well, that's what your Age says and it's ALL common sense.

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http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-1099

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