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*For Girls* Is it "gay" for guys to dress nice?
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Posted 4/4/11
the term "gay" seems to have a broader spectrum everyday.


dressing nicely is one aspect of growing up.
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Would you prefer to dress like a dirty douchebag? How is looking nice gay? Does that make me a lesbian? I'm surprised those females even made it into college.
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No, it's just sexy. I mean, suits are pretty nice, but it's not like every man who wears a suit is gay. OP must be American; Here, homosexuality is like black and white, and any little thing can automatically make you a homosexual.

I wonder when "gay" because such an empty word?


mt4gt wrote:

^wwe: Ohh now that you mention it, I was in fact wearing bright colors (pink), and it was a buttoned up shirt. But I still feel insulted that my friends thought I was gay. :(


In my humble opinion, it takes some real balls to walk out with a pink shirt x)! Pink is so manly, and for once I'm not being sarcastic.
Posted 4/4/11
I dont think its weird at all I think its perfectly fine
Posted 4/4/11
Depends where you live. Here, its considered good if you do dress as yourself. Don't take it into too much consideration, flaunt your awesome clothes
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Posted 4/4/11
People say gay to anything these days where I live. They dont actually mean that your gay, usually.
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I guess some people aren't used to seeing guys dressed a certain way, so they jump to conclusions..
You shouldn't take anything out of it though......It's not something to worry about.....If anything, you've opened their eyes to a different sort of person.......Maybe they'll be a bit more open minded next time..
I've been mistaken for being gay by a couple of gay guys for the way I dressed...So yeah...haha..

And dude, "I love doing stuff with girls"...Really...haha...You used that in your defence....Sorry, I find it funny..
Posted 4/4/11
I don't generalize and IMO being impeccably dressed and hygienic means you take pride in yourself and doesn't have anything to do with your sexual orientation. I prefer guys who know how to dress.
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Posted 4/5/11
whoah..LOL....Well I just love men who dress nicely..It gives an elegant vibe like guys in animes..LOL...But well if you do wear bright colours maybe they considered it a bit weird..Just explain it to them..
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I do not think all men, who are into fashion is gay. Sometimes in my art classes, happen to have people who are gay, so I am starting to think most men are gay in art classes. Although I know not all men are gay, men should able to be into fashion without others thinking they are gay.

I do not think guys who dress nicely are not gay, although usually sometimes the voice of guys sounds like may be gay.
Posted 4/5/11
Being a guy I do look in my cupboard and see what'll be aesthetically appealing to wear. A heterosexual man isn't defined by a lack of enthusiasm when deciding what to wear. You'd be a bum if you just slapped on anything without you feeling it looks good.
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No.
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Posted 4/5/11
Unless you're wearing drag, spandex, a shirt with "Yes, I'm gay" on it, or that thing Borat/Bruno wears as everyday clothing, it's safe to assume that you aren't dressing "gay."

To the TS, it's hard to imagine that your friends would think that you're gay simply based on your clothing. It probably has more to do with the way you "appear" to people in the way you act.

Or it's the fact that you don't have a girlfriend. Or that when there's a hot girl in a mini skirt bending over right in front of you, you're picking your nose singing,

"It’s Friday, Friday
Gotta get down on Friday
Everybody’s lookin’ forward to the weekend, weekend
Friday, Friday
Gettin’ down on Friday
Everybody’s lookin’ forward to the weekend."
Posted 4/5/11
WHAT? seriously... i think guys who dress nicely are tidy and neat?
who doens't like that :L LOL, maybe it's cause you dress nicely and have a pretty face? ><""
no offenses intended O_O||
Posted 4/5/11
No. Not really, let them dress how they wanna dress.
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