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Posted 4/18/11
It's called effeminate and not unusual. Look it up. In highschool you would have been referred to as a sissy.
Posted 4/18/11

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Havoc7 wrote:


4562558 wrote:

in other words that means ur gay hahaha , but with what i have heard about how a friend of mine was raised and turned out to be gay . when he was born his parents always give him girly stuff and have girly friends and 3 sisters lol so he went that way stead of the other way XD, but both ways idc, i have to choose my own way . i careless about others when i cant even chose my way of life ( not the way to go be gay or not just some other stuff i mean )



no it doesnt mean im gay, i have no feeling about guys, i adore girls i feel like i am just one of the girls just with a male body, but i still like, like girls. but from what u said about ur friend i grew up somewhat the same, but i had 2 brothers instead, but to each his own path to chose to follow and who knows what paths life will take us


They're either trolls or complete idiots, I recommend not responding to them either way Havoc.


Back on topic, I've always had female qualities-- or rather, being into what a woman would like. Like fashion, color schemes, heavily romantic anime/manga, etcetera. I've never been into masculine things like NASCAR or wrestling, because to me that equals smelly and chavaunism. Chavaunism is an outdated way of thinking, pride turned arrogance.

I'm more female then male, I think my neurological and thought procession has an important role in this. I don't believe (or rather, really believe) in souls and other spiritual riff-raff.

I'm a male, and I love fashion and cute things. I'm also a bodybuilder. What a combo, eh?


I have never really felt like I completely fit in with either gender, but I'd rather be feminine than masculine. I mostly hang out with guys, but I prefer girls (because of the honesty, openness, communication, limited sex talk, beauty, maturity, etc). However, you have a lot of the traits that normally I see more often in girls, and I really like that. No offense to males, I just don't particularly like a lot of "stereotypically male" qualities and interests.

I am glad to be of a female body and mind, and do not feel that my gender or sexuality are conflicting.
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Posted 4/18/11

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Does anyother guy feel like they are a female traped in a male body?

I guess i feel this way becuase how i was raised, i am middle kid of 3 brother but i never hung out with them, i normal hung out with my friends, who were all girls, i think i have only had about only 1 guy friend ever and the rest of myfriends tend to be girls. so i grew up like what they like cute things and such, when i moved away from my home town this casued an issue becuase i was just entering high school and i new one and i must have came off really gay bac then lol but i got bullied and teased alot at the new school. and then skipp ahead 4 years at the end of high school all my friends were girls.
although have plenty of girls as friends i have never had a girlfriend. i know i werid and a touch girly but im not gay,
I like to think of it on the terms of im just a lesbian traped in a male body.


Signs of transsexuality... they creep me out big time lol

Posted 4/19/11
For the people there who had doubts.

Its okay you're no alone. ahahahaha


JUST, don't ever forget that you're still male/female XD haha
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Posted 4/19/11




lol dude how it sounds you have it made, one you like girls, two you seem to make girls your friends easyier then most guys, and finally i wish i had my own harem, you are so lucky, who cares if you act girly i bet thousands of guy would love have a group of girls they could hangout with like you do
Posted 4/19/11

chao_sweetie wrote:

well.... I feel like a guy trapped in a girl's body sometimes... I find myself involuntarily adjusting my imaginary male part sometimes.. I think this is the first time in all my past lives I was a female... so I am still getting use to it..


awwww hugs you sorry to here
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Posted 5/17/11
i get what you're saying. i have a guy friend who is also like you. most of his friends are girls and he hangs out with girls a lot. people say he's gay but he's really not. people should stop saying that a guy is gay just because he hangs out a lot with girl friends.
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Posted 6/10/11
I get what you mean..i have the same "issue". I have a lot of guy friends and i feel like im not a girl sometimes (But I like guys) and i dont really have any Real girls friends, you know the friends you can actually talk to and hang out with just to have fun.

I dont really like girls because most of the ones i've encountered are manipulative, two faced, and will moslikely stabb me in the back when im not looking. It may seem stupid to generalize my sex by these encounters but its true for the most part. In elementary and middle school and even now in high school, i always get picked on by the girls because all my friends were guys, and now girls still talk about me calling me a hoe, lesbian and any other cramp they can think of. i just laugh and keep walking

The name calling doesnt bother me any more its immature , most of the time its jealousy, they think I have the guy they want. But in truth, of all my friends i have i only ever had actual feeling toward one of them. We went out for a while but it didnt last long. Hes one of my closest friends now.

I've always just felt like i clicked better with guys and there isnt anything wrong with it. You are who you are. im more manly than most guys but i still can have my choice of any guy for prom soo ;P and if people have a problem with it oh well!!
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Posted 6/10/11
We went over this in Sociology class this past spring semester, I know what you're talking about but we went over that in mid April, I think the lesson was like 9 or 10. I can't remember.


So what you're saying makes perfect sense for reasons that kinda don't click in my memory, but when I get around it, I'll post here.
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Posted 6/10/11
I can relate

I've been brought up by women. My (AMAZING) friends are girls as well. I do have descent guy friends too It's just that others tend to get too immature for me.
So people question my sexuality most of the time. I'm pretty sure I'm straight though .
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Posted 6/10/11
In answer to OP I don't feel that way but you do sound a little feminine. I'd say your circumstances sound a little unusual but hardly worth making any noise over. Usually a guy hangs out with girls to get to know one he's interested in(in my small town experience).
I wouldn't worry too much over it I think.
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Posted 6/10/11
This has always tripped me up. I cannot even begin to fathom how someone feels like they are the opposite sex, trapped in a different's body. Even though I act more masculine than feminine, I still consider and accept myself as a female. I'll admit there are times where I've wondered what it would have been like if I were a boy, but never have I once thought I was a boy trapped in a girl's body.
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Posted 6/10/11 , edited 6/10/11
I don't feel that way myself, but I have a few friends that feel that they belong in the body of another sex.

I'm looking over this thread and surprised how many don't know (or feign to not know) about transgenderism. I mean... please tell me you guys are faking it.
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Posted 6/10/11
i think your alright. its hard being like me white, but being otaku. I feel like an alien. You seem on the right track, you hang with any cute asian girls lol jkjk
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