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Men who pause
Posted 4/29/11
lol Men who pause...menopause XD

Hey they are thinking about what they're gonna say so they don't say something stupid. Whats the problem?
Posted 4/29/11

AdamIdris101 wrote:

You're sharing a conversation with someone or having a continuous flow of debate thrown back and forth. Do you get bothered by women or men who pause right smack in the middle. Or even a simple question and they fail to answer.

My grandma's faster then them. Yet these dudes feel they don't have to slip in any words.

'I'm talking to you hello, anyone there?' No response. You know what I mean. I'm talking about people who think it's okay to cut off a response. I have a friend who does that a lot with almost everything.

To what questions have your friends or anyone you know do this annoying pause at. Maybe I'm just impatient and moody.










Either I do this to ignore somebody, or I do it because the statement or question wasn't worth responding to for me. I don't particularly like 'small talk' unless the person is worth it. By worth I mean whoever I feel like considering so.

Honesty can be a bitch.
Posted 4/29/11

otaku_125 wrote:

lol Men who pause...menopause XD

Hey they are thinking about what they're gonna say so they don't say something stupid. Whats the problem?


How can you be sure they aren't simply giving themselves a mental face palm at whatever the other person said. If there jaw is left open for more than 3 seconds, rest assured they are disappointed at what you said.
Posted 4/29/11

varnlestoff wrote:


otaku_125 wrote:

lol Men who pause...menopause XD

Hey they are thinking about what they're gonna say so they don't say something stupid. Whats the problem?


How can you be sure they aren't simply giving themselves a mental face palm at whatever the other person said. If there jaw is left open for more than 3 seconds, rest assured they are disappointed at what you said.


Lol yeah that is another possibility XD
Posted 4/30/11
Well, I'd rather talk to those people who made a "pause" than of those who just say whatever comes their mind.
I swear, they were far more irritating when they gave you stupid response.

This thread reminds me of this certain line:
I hope people would listen as much as they talk. I wonder why.
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Posted 4/30/11
lol I thought this was a play on words, and it was a topic about "menopause" but anyways, I'm not bothered by it, I think you actually should do that so you can think about it more. Before I respond to anything; a question, or maybe I'm about to do something, I think about it for at least 3 seconds.
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Posted 4/30/11
Well, I'm a guy. I tend to not respond if I don't have anything to say. Or, I'll ponder a question if it's particularly 'vexing'. I didn't know it even bothered people that we (actually) sometimes think about what we say lol.
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Posted 4/30/11
I think most of the time some1 pauses its either cuz they r about2 LIE , or in certain cases they may not want2 hurt ur feelings (4 example: does this outfit make me look fat?) a pause gives em time2 think of a way2 soften the blow! Or in my husbands case it could be cuz they r just NOT listening2 u! Other than that my guess is they r just plain old STUPID!!! LOL!!
Posted 9/3/11
If it's boring I'm likely to start thinking about something else and eventually come to a full stop rather than a mere pause.
Posted 9/3/11
They're just slow. Or don't know what to say. Or are astonished at what just came out of your mouth
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I just say what I think, if someone is asking me to repeat something I would most likely pause to think if's it's worth repeating.

but I'm not a guy so yea....
Posted 9/3/11
Sometimes I won't even give you a proper response. I would just stand there and smile back at you.
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Posted 9/3/11
yeah sometimes my friends pause but thats probably because they happen to be a little on the downs-side that day.
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Posted 9/3/11
I stop answering back all together if I don't like the question or the tone on which it was asked.
I pause when I have to really think about it, for about 5 seconds.
Posted 12/22/11

Sakura_Weller wrote:

I stop answering back all together if I don't like the question or the tone on which it was asked.
I pause when I have to really think about it, for about 5 seconds.


Menopause.
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