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Alright, im 19 yo and my gf is 15 yo, for some of you this might be a huge difference in age. For some of you i might seem like a pedophile or some one who can't get someone my own age, but that is not the case at all. I love this girl so much. so today this morning around 3 she calls me. so what i do is go over . I haven't seen her in a while since she moved schools and such. So i go over and she comes out. I hold her and kiss her , and talk of course . So the thing is that her parents don't know she is dating me and they dont know who i am. So what happens is that her dad comes home from work and catches us. she hides but he saw me with her holding her. i walked off and she went in. As she went in her dad followed her him. Since then she hasnt called me. So i got a few options im thinking about and give me some of your point of
views. if this is comfusing just tell me and ill try to clarify as much as i can. Thanks. no i havent done anything sexual with her. She is a minor and respect that, I will wait for her to turn 18

So im thinking that i should go and talk to her parents , or do you think they might call cops on me?

or Wait till she calles me?
Posted 4/24/11 , edited 4/24/11
Hmm, maybe you could show up in your best attire and apologize to them, explain the situation, and respectfully request to continue seeing their daughter, and explain that you have not and will not do anything disrespectful or sexual with their daughter.

Me: I would call her or sneak over. But that's just me, I'm too passionate and such.
Posted 4/24/11 , edited 4/24/11
Teen-to-teen. Not pedo. When you hit 20, ditch her.

There you have it.
Posted 4/24/11
It's only pedophilia when the other person has not reached puberty yet. This relationship will not end well.
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I'd say talk to her parents, they got to know sooner or later anyways.. so you guys won't be hiding it

and good luck to ya *salute*
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Well you guys are from different generations really...
You will be, or is already, in college (or working) and she is only starting high school.
If that part of reality doesn't affect the relationship in any negative way, then go for it.
Call her first, ask what her parents have said about you and/or the relationship.
Then prepare the best speech you can come up with, practice it and get ready for evil stares.
I know that her parents will be very very very protective, since you're 19... and she's only a child.
If she is Asian... well I wish you a lot of good luck, because you WILL need it. Asian parents are psycho when it comes to dating before you're at least in your twenties.

I think if you tell her parents how much you love and treasure their daughter... and of course, respect her...
then you might just have a chance :)
But of course get your girlfriend's opinion first. Ask how she feels about all of this.
It is quite embarrassing, in my opinion, to have my boyfriend (not that I have one) talk to my parents about our relationship.
I think she needs some time to prepare.

Good Luck!
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Posted 4/24/11
i hope there isn't something u forgot to mention like for example "she just turned 15 " lol jk

dunno what to tell u....but don't be upset with what the dad decides--- sorry dude
Posted 4/24/11 , edited 4/24/11
From the untainted heart dude. Speak to everyone else's heart. Assuming her parents aren't vampires. 'We want to suck your blood.'

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Posted 4/24/11
15 is a really young age, huge chance that she'll side with her parents.
I am offended with the people who think age is such a big thing though,
I am 5 years older than my girl*friend.
Posted 4/24/11
I don't think they will call the cops because as long as your not doing anything illegal then ur good.. but they might possible file a restraining order though ...Let the situation die down a little (wait for a week) and then u could talk to her parents about ur relationship with her
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Thanks guys for your support. Yeah i will apologize, she only 1/3th asain. Yeah i do love her and im just like really confused. We been dating about a year. Our anniversary is on the 13th of june. So you think if i talk to them and be honest with them that they will let me date their daughter? I do really apreciate your suggestions thank you tons!
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go to her house and explain to her parents why dating someone older is better. good luck dude.
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angel2next wrote:

Thanks guys for your support. Yeah i will apologize, she only 1/3th asain. Yeah i do love her and im just like really confused. We been dating about a year. Our anniversary is on the 13th of june. So you think if i talk to them and be honest with them that they will let me date their daughter? I do really apreciate your suggestions thank you tons!


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My advice to you:
Wait until she calls you. See if you can speak with the parents as well, unless they're real strict. If they're real strict, just lay low. Hopefully things will turn out fine. As for your age, I see nothing wrong with it. When I was 14, I used to date 19 year olds.

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