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Arrange Marriage....
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Posted 6/22/11
Arranged marriages aren't always so beneficial or happy-like because it could not be the right person or the one you fall in love with.
Posted 6/22/11
it cracks me up how that could possibly still exist....is just insane....on the other hand....im deeply sorry for your situation....i mean if those are your family traditions than i guess it cant be helped so u shouldn't let it get to you and just try to move on.....eventually your mom cant really forced u for reals right? i hope she understands at the end of the day that will only bring u a lot of discomforts :P....anyways Good luck wit that girl!.......
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Posted 6/22/11
If he's rich I'll buy myself happiness.

So what if that's shallow? I blame the people who arranged it.

Posted 7/10/11
It's okay with me as long as it's with C.C.
Posted 7/10/11
An arranged marriage? Long as they aren't ugly or hard to get along with, I'm fine! Relationship is relationship, and long as there is a chance of us ending up liking each other, I'll milk it.


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Posted 7/10/11
These are my thoughts.

Through ignorance nothing can be learned nor gained.

Our path is our own, the choices ours alone to make.
Do not waiver, follow and believe in your heart.
It is this way, whether it be good or bad, that we can be true to one's self.

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Posted 7/10/11

ChiChi06 wrote:

So I don't know If there's already a topic on this but I would like to know what people think about arrange marriage...

I know some culture (mostly South Asia) believe that marriage is suppose to be pick and choose by ur parents, but come on now its 2011 let it go...

My mother right now is basically handing me photos of guys that she thinks will be compatible for me..... on top of that it's only our own kind (Cambodian/mix Chinese) which bugs me, well the whole thing bugs me. I'm totally against it, but my mother is still in that world thinking it's a parents job to find their daughter/Son a wife/husband and that you don't need to date or any type of courtship wut so eva...blah

Just to be an obedient daughter, i told my mother I would go see ONE, which eva guy she chooses... but I kno nothing is going to happen so.....ya

It just gets me mad...eh

So what's ur opinion on Arrange Marriage...?


i think its better to choose for your love... not others...

what about your freedom??
Posted 7/10/11

aoi_mori wrote:


i think its better to choose for your love... not others...

what about your freedom??


Ya, I deff feel the same way. Freedom? My mom gives me freedom, all she wanted was for me to do it just once.
I did. It went alright, but still not wut I want and my mom now understands and leaves me alone about it :D
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Posted 7/10/11

ChiChi06 wrote:


aoi_mori wrote:


i think its better to choose for your love... not others...

what about your freedom??


Ya, I deff feel the same way. Freedom? My mom gives me freedom, all she wanted was for me to do it just once.
I did. It went alright, but still not wut I want and my mom now understands and leaves me alone about it :D


oh... i'll still go for mutual attraction... but for now i'll just enjoy being single with my single friends
Posted 7/20/11
i think its out of date too. but in the end I respect my parents and they do know whats best for me.
but marrying a random fob would just be scary O.o
Posted 7/20/11
Not a fan of it.
Posted 7/20/11
Well whatever you were taught at a young age you seem to stick to it through thick and thin, which is the case for parents who still believe in arranged marriages, in a way. I say they want to relive the dream, of marriage,and partake in it, so it ends up like a fairy tale ending, to which they are satisfied with the result, casting aside their child's opinion on it on the way.
Posted 7/20/11 , edited 7/20/11
Well that's how my mother and father got together and he had 2 kids me and my brother and we all lived happily ever after.......Bull****
Posted 7/20/11
I prefer to marry whoever I want, but arranged marriages aren't always as bad as you think.
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Posted 7/21/11
not supporting arranged marriages. marriages should be for love
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