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What do you do if you like someone who is/thinks is in love with someone else?
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I like this guy we talk about EVERYTHING and now i always never like his girl friend and she is such a fake and she kind of knows i like him and so she tried to break up our friendship and i was mad at him too but i fit it that our freindship is ok now but it open some feelings for me do you tell him you like him and risk a very GOOD friendship or keep mouth shut about how fake his girl is and they are on the outs too but he stills "sees" her.....what to do and is any one else in this Dilemma ?? hit me back !!!

i hope this question wasnt been raised before to get locked??
Posted 6/7/07
Isn't this thread just the same as this:

What do you do when you're in love with someone you can never have?
http://www.crunchyroll.com/showforumtopic?id=2548

Hmm.. maybe.

To stay on topic. I would keep quiet about your feelings to be honest. One of my friends went through something exactly the same as the one you're in except she told her friend that she liked him and disliked his girlfriend. The guy just resented my friend for trying to end the relationship he had and their friendship deterioated..meh maybe they weren't that close anyway.

Oh and please don't use capitals in the headline. They're just ugly to read.
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if they are already on the outs, then I don't give his relationship much hope. Be patient. When they fall apart, you will still be there...ready to catch him on the first bounce...(jkz) Seriously, a good friendship is way too valuable to waste on a fake skank (I've never written that word before, did I get it right?) who will probably be gone in a few months. Yeah, I know, easy for me to say...I'll tell ya, tho', I've been there, and when all is said and done, I treasure the friendship far more than the relationship.
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Posted 6/7/07

kimmm6 wrote:

if they are already on the outs, then I don't give his relationship much hope. Be patient. When they fall apart, you will still be there...ready to catch him on the first bounce...(jkz) Seriously, a good friendship is way too valuable to waste on a fake skank (I've never written that word before, did I get it right?) who will probably be gone in a few months. Yeah, I know, easy for me to say...I'll tell ya, tho', I've been there, and when all is said and done, I treasure the friendship far more than the relationship.


thanks i do love they way we are with each ...... friends are hard to find but so is a GOOD man you know
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Posted 6/7/07
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Posted 6/7/07
Just some advice:

Whatever action you take (be it to reveal your feelings to him or not), you have to live with it for the rest of your life. So think about the possible positive & negative consequenes and whether you think you can accept the outcome before doing something.

Also, don't bad mouth his gf to him (even if she is really that bad) because it makes you look bad.
Posted 6/7/07
you wait till he dumps her ass and you make your move
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animoo_x wrote:

Isn't this thread just the same as this:

What do you do when you're in love with someone you can never have?
http://www.crunchyroll.com/showforumtopic?id=2548



I was gonna say the same thing


but yeah, as for the topic....
i would say try to show him her true side. her fake side. you know, like do something that will bring out her inner-self, and he will see her for who she really is.
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Posted 6/7/07
i had that feelin b4 and i know how u feel. i used to like this guy whos in my math class but he only like me as friend. nothin than that.
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Posted 6/7/07

animoo_x wrote:

Isn't this thread just the same as this:

What do you do when you're in love with someone you can never have?
http://www.crunchyroll.com/showforumtopic?id=2548


Yes it is.....um maybe not =/ *unlocks for now
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I've kinda had the feeling as well...I still really like him..maybe even a littlel more than like, I'm not sure..
Except, instead of having a girlfriend, his parents didn't really want him to have any relationships..They're the very studious types of parents..
It hurt so bad...
It still does hurt.
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Posted 6/7/07
...the question is.... how far are you wllling to go? why no instead of bein disruptive to the relationship in negative way...try to be positive and push them to have good time to together.... and keep pushing.. not to harde though.... and eventually he wil either like her and they may stay together...or someones gona break and burst a steamvalve..
Posted 6/7/07

mauz15 wrote:


animoo_x wrote:

Isn't this thread just the same as this:

What do you do when you're in love with someone you can never have?
http://www.crunchyroll.com/showforumtopic?id=2548


Yes it is.....um maybe not =/ *unlocks for now



i say this: this thread is different from the other one cause she can have this guy but she wants to know how to get him its just that for the time being she cant have him cause his girlfriend's a bitch.
Posted 6/7/07
Due to the utterly illogical and entirely unreliable nature of love, anonymous advice can come across as an act of desperation on your part. We all wish life was like Densha Otoko and you'd get your answer here, but I'm not so convinced it'll happen. All I'm going to give you are crumbs that I've found to be true:

1. We accept the love we think that we deserve.
2. Love is blind. Or at least it blinds you.
3. Love is two way; even if you do everything right on your end, the responsibility of love is shared.

If your friend is blinded by love to the faults of his girl, or he thinks that he deserves someone of her value, your own love is doomed. Explaining in words what his eyes do not see won't score you any points in his book. Your dilemma is a two part hat-trick: slay the dragon and steal the prince. Unless you do both, your odds aren't so great.
Posted 6/7/07
Firstly, if he is with this girl, he clearly likes her or even loves her. Badmouthing her to him would NOT be a good idea. It would only backfire on you and he'd end up resenting you. Also, she might be a heinous bitch to you or others but she might actually be very nice to HIM. I've seen this kind of split personality in a lot of girls. Hell, he might even like it that she is a bit of a bitch.

Secondly, you shouldn't be so overly friendly w/ him to the point where his GF can easily tell that you like him and resents you for it. She may not be a super nice person but you need to respect their relationship and the feelings they have for each other. She may be "fake" but I doubt her feelings for him are. You don't know what their relationship is like behind closed doors. Even if you do "talk", I can gaurantee you that you don't talk about or know everything.

Thirdly, if this guy's a friend and you really care about him you wouldn't put him in a situation where he'd have to choose between a friend and the girl he likes/loves. This would only cause him mental distress and will ruin whatever relationship you have with him now, or will have with him in the future.

You might not like it, but right now you need to just be his FRIEND. You can only wait.

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