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Posted 5/4/08
I guess, yes...sometime ago, My friends and I had a really close relationship, we were inseparable, but we found out that the boy had mutual feelings with her, so we supported her...Now every time to hang out in the mall, my other friends and I distance myself from them cauze, it's like they have a different world>.^ I'm not saying it's bad, maybe it just I'm not used to it>.<
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Posted 5/7/08
well,sometimes......
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Posted 5/11/08
Oh wow..
you know i have a problem with guys too since i also hang out with them often..
theyre cool u know.. the way they talk about girls and then ur a girl and you're talking about girls too.. hahah.. (although sometimes STUPID.. u know what i mean..XD)
but anyway.. everyone always think the guy likes me whenever we talk often..
why cant we have freedom to whom we talk to?!
well.. the funny thing though they tend to like me too..0_o
guys are soo weird.. dont u think?
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Posted 5/17/08
if she is your best friend, she should trust you and what you're doing.

but..

Try to control also yourself not to fall for that guy, it'll make matters worst.
You already knew that your bestfriend is the jealous type, so keep a little distance from the guy. You both can be friends in some extent.

Also tell the guy to explain himself. It is not a reason to hate him, try explaining yourself once more, if your best friend doesn't listen to you, then what are being best friends for when you don't trust each other.
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Posted 7/1/08
i sometimes gets mad with my friends about boys because i've had friends that are crazy about boys that they have ton of boyfriends and i havn't had one yet and when they want to talk about boyfriends i get alittle mad because i've never had oneT^Tand that's all they want to talk>.<so i sometimes have little fights with my friends^ - ^but we get over it after awhile^ - ^
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Posted 7/14/08
In the 2nd grade...I had a guy I liked....but another guy liked me. I told him flat out that I didn't like him, and told the other guy, "I like you." In front of the ohter guy's face....sometime after that...the guy I liked and I went out (kinda)


The other guy threatended to kill the guy I liked....he was sent home for a week, and he couldn't come to school.
2nd grade was about to end....and a few days before...I never saw the guy I liked again...In the 4th grade, I ran by his father while my mom was doing work...we didn't speak much...I just told him to tell the guy I liked 'Hi'.

I don't think he did though....I have horrible luck with guys....

Anyways...I can't really help with you're problem....but I really want to wish you luck.

Friends or Boyfriends

I'd chose my friends. Maybe you should set up a plan between you and that guy saying this while she migth be listening:

You: You're going out with (insert name here), right?
Him: Yeah, she's (insert amazing features here)
You: Yeah, you've got a point about that!
Him: But lately (insert problem here)

and try to go on from there...I can't be of much use, since I've never been in that kind of situation....try you're best to regain you're friendship!
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Posted 7/17/08
nope, we have our little circle of friends and our circle has never broken once!
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Posted 7/19/08
not really...
some how is my friends who ruin it...
she lie to him about i having another guy outside... then he believe her and didn't believe me... so we broke up..
just after 2 days of breaking up i saw them [[ me and my ex boyfriend ]] holding hand together...but i just walk away... during that time i cried for 3 days....
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Posted 7/19/08
haha i remember ive liked this one guy for like 6 years xD
and i guess he liked me bak as well ( but we were young so gf/bf were not allowed)
he was my childhood friend ;D
but later on i found out tha tmy best girl friend also like him and she was only friends with me to get with him..
she got jealous of me cuz i was around him a lot. ( but i couldnt help it HE WAS MY NEIGHBOR AND HE WAS IN MY CLASS!!)
so later on she told him taht i liked sum otehr guy and he moved on and liked HER instead :[
so i ended up losing my friend and the guy i like...
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Posted 7/19/08
well my friends don't usually freak out when i talk to their boyfriends unless it's just me and one of them... then they tend to misunderstand and blow up but i think ur friend will get over it eventually
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Posted 7/21/08
yeah i don't think boy friend can ruin my friend ship
Posted 7/29/08
my best fren ditched my for a guy nd he is a pervert nd cheated on her too! i really hated her nd him!!~ >.<
Posted 7/29/08 , edited 7/29/08
well i jus got out of class n dese popular boys started flirtin wf me den later on 1 of da boy's gf had a go at me sayin i flirted wf her bf too much n now he likes me n not her! i mean like, hello woman its ur bf flirtin wf me y dont u hav a go at him instead of puttin ur anger on me! i really dunno y girls like da popular l boys, yeh i would like a good lookin bf too..bt not those who r too full of themselves
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Posted 8/3/08
oh yea this dude ruined my friendship with my bff but hopefully not all guys are lik him so yea n the dude then broke my friend's heart like a few weeks later
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