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Posted 5/24/11
in late middle school and the first year of high school i had a few of my classmates bully and pick on me. i was small, not all that muscular. but about a week before school let out for the summer i was fed up when one kid decided to push me into a trash can. i'll say i did a number on him, broken nose and bruised ribs. i didn't get onto trouble and people left me alone some even held a grudge to kicking to crap out of their friend, but he deserved it and more yet.

now that i'm in college i am left alone, mainly for having head phones in just about all the time. i do know how to fight better now and use less effort, thank you awesome martial arts friend for a few techniques. people at work tend to be rude and say crap about me and put me down, since i am something like a janitor, but little do they know i know how to do their job, i did it before and stopped because i hated it.
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Posted 5/24/11 , edited 5/24/11
I used to get bullied a lot. What made it worse was that the teachers would never take my side. So then I just became an angry person. Eventually I punched someone in the face rearranging their nose...who knew he was a panzy. Took anger management but I swear to you its a complete joke(Actually it made me so angry at how dumb it was I just didnt finish it.) Judge dismissed it thank god...still on my record though---makes getting a job kinda eehh so I guess ill just not put it on my apps. I was only in jail for 1 day totally sucked though. Going to be the 2 year so Im hoping i can get it removed from my record. People really dont care what the circumstances were they will judge you. They assume you are not a good employee if you've been arrested once. It freaking happens to everyone. At some point in your life you will prolly be arrested once.

I hate today's society so much makes my blood boil. People sue you for this and that. People will call the cops on you for something they made happen and you are the one that gets arrested. Such a freaking joke. In my experience most people are generally dingbats.

so thats like 1.5 k out of my pocket for a lawyer.

Also cops can be the biggest dingbats. In elementary school my friend got arrested for beating up his bully. They took him without telling his parents or anything. Yes they cuffed him even though he was only 11 or so. Back then im sure they should've contacted the local news outlet at least.
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Posted 5/25/11

camrcam2 wrote:

I was bullied everyday till 12 getting beat up about 4 times a week. my life was hell until one day i just snapped during the middle of one of our usual fights ( there not supposed to be usual ) andd well the other guys around us just looked like they'd seen death after that fight, since i kinda went on a rampage broke the guy's nose, 3 ribs, and his arm which i snaped on my knee... well all in all they never fucked with me after that, but then again for yall who havnt been bullied and just say that u would beat them up its not that simple. when ppl are bullied like i was its usauly mutiple ppl ( for me around 30, 17 i can recal by name, ) not saying that many just 3 or more ppl can really mess someones life up. you dont even think about all the social discrimination about it like in my case they were the only ones in my nieghborhood, but i digres. for ppl who are bullied to the extent i was and even less for those who cant stand it can mean real dangers for everyone around them. If i didnt have a diffrent mind set when i was younger i could have ruined my life because hell i was a pyro in the actual terms i built bombs, dynomite, flash powder, ect... and i had enough supplies to well level some homes. And if i could find out that information years ago without so much new technology just imagine what a kid in that situation with the wrong mind set would find and do. So really ppl dont take bullying lightly its serious, i know i sound like some bullying panflet but it is important. In the end im now 6ft 7in 255lb muslce and no one messes with me lol.


i mean i have never been bullied but i believe there are ways to get out of bulling u just have to have that kind of thinking...it always great when u can be a very sly and clever person...
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Posted 5/25/11

moratorium wrote:

I used to get bullied a lot. What made it worse was that the teachers would never take my side. So then I just became an angry person. Eventually I punched someone in the face rearranging their nose...who knew he was a panzy. Took anger management but I swear to you its a complete joke(Actually it made me so angry at how dumb it was I just didnt finish it.) Judge dismissed it thank god...still on my record though---makes getting a job kinda eehh so I guess ill just not put it on my apps. I was only in jail for 1 day totally sucked though. Going to be the 2 year so Im hoping i can get it removed from my record. People really dont care what the circumstances were they will judge you. They assume you are not a good employee if you've been arrested once. It freaking happens to everyone. At some point in your life you will prolly be arrested once.

I hate today's society so much makes my blood boil. People sue you for this and that. People will call the cops on you for something they made happen and you are the one that gets arrested. Such a freaking joke. In my experience most people are generally dingbats.

so thats like 1.5 k out of my pocket for a lawyer.

Also cops can be the biggest dingbats. In elementary school my friend got arrested for beating up his bully. They took him without telling his parents or anything. Yes they cuffed him even though he was only 11 or so. Back then im sure they should've contacted the local news outlet at least.


nope a person don't have to necessarily get arrested in their life time...there are people older than u and never got arrested..but i understand what u mean by defending yourself and getting into trouble it sucks big time
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Posted 5/25/11

Rina-San wrote:

I know this one guy who got bullied at school for months about 6 years back, they came into the classroom when only he was there and started pushing him around one day, so he just grabbed a chair and smashed the ring-leader in the face It was amazing and we all congratulated him on standing up for himself, he didn't get suspended because he finally gave the bullies a taste of their own medicine and said that the ringleader fell on his face when he tried attacking him because he had been beating him for months and telling lies about him . So happy for him that day on top of that, he got all his self confidence back and lost a lot of weight since, he looks amazing!

and THAT is how you turn your life around and suck it to them. Play the game and wait for the right time to strike. The bullies never went near him again, I hope that fucker who was mean to him still has that squint in his nose from the chair.



that ass felt reaaaallly dumb when he got that chair in his face lol! sucker serves him right
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Posted 5/25/11
I was afraid to get hurt or suspended from school. It wasn't until my sophmore year of high school when I was like "Fuck this shit" when I decided to fight back by talking shit on people and fighting myself.
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Posted 5/25/11 , edited 5/25/11


for dumb stuff is what I meant nothing huge or anything, public intoxication yadda yadda
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Posted 5/25/11

moratorium wrote:



for dumb stuff is what I meant nothing huge or anything, public intoxication yadda yadda


i hear u lol...but the system tends to be really messed up sometimes..if not all the time

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Posted 5/25/11
i never leave the house so there isn't a thing i can do.
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Posted 5/25/11
I like to think of bullies as being a lot like hyenas. They mostly run in packs and cackle like idiots when they spot an easy target. But every now and then they happen upon a lion that's more than willing to tear them a new one.
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Posted 5/25/11
i was bullied a lot too ~ mostly for being a foreigner. I came to this country when i was 5 years old (UK)
because of my dads job we were always moving, i think i've been to around 8 schools in my life as i was growing up
so i was always the new kid, and always bullied up till about year 6, then i went to comprehensive and it stopped, i met some
of the most amazing people that are still my friends today, i went through my faces tho: the quite type, the book type, the consistently
chatty type, the rock/MCR fan, the surfer hippie ~ yee lol XD

anyway i found that when you hit college over here people grow up a bit ~ depending where you go and who you know ofc
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Posted 5/25/11
._. Well it's not a matter of allowing them, I think people just can't.
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Posted 5/25/11 , edited 5/25/11
I used to just get made fun of every day in junior high school by one kid.

Pretty much every day I ignored him while he taunted me.

One day out of the blue his friends who laughed at me with him stopped hanging out with him thought I was a cool and the toughest guy in school. They all became my friends and I became the school bad ass.

I just ignore them(the bullies).
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Posted 5/25/11 , edited 5/25/11
I was bullied mentally, by my classmates and teachers my entire school life. I wasn't bullied severely, but I was bullied. No one liked me either except for girls who thought I was cute. But near the end, they eventually started hating me, too.
Anyways, the reason I would always let others bully me was because, I was always afraid to hit someone or say something that would hurt them. And that eventually turned into a fear of getting hurt. So in short, It was actually because, I felt sorry for them. (I said something once that made a girl cry and ever since I've always thought, before I talked, about what I would say that would hurt someone.)
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Posted 5/25/11 , edited 5/25/11
Didn't really get bullied but people tried to punk me, I have a long patience so I don't trip when people are being punks and as long as their not touching me or anything that belongs to me but when somebody freaking touches me that's when they get smacked down. I remember somebody put ink on my backpack without any hesitation at all I punched that guy in the face. The dude had about 5 inch on me and about 40 more pounds but that's what happens to lil punks, we fought and he didn't even land a punch >.>...I remembered from that day on he wouldn't even look at me.
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