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Why allow people to bully you around...
Posted 5/22/11
Even if said bully is far more dangerous than me, I wait for an opportunity to strike.
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Posted 5/22/11 , edited 5/22/11
I remember getting into a few fights in high school because I was the quiet one that never stood up for myself. I'd just let anger build up, then I'd go mental on someone and not stop until I was fighting a group of kids instead of just one. After about the third time I went off, people stopped talking to me altogether, and even one of my teachers asked me not to kill him if I ever decided to come in with an automatic weapon. (I never thought of doing anything like that, which upset me quite a bit that I came off as that sort of person)

Even today that still happens. Some guy in Cleveland kept hounding me over stupid crap and I ended up going after him. I drug a couple guys who are a good foot taller than me and 50lb heavier about 50 feet trying to hit that guy in the face. (2am outside of a bar)

Letting people know you won't take their crap VERBALLY is a very important skill. If you know you'll back it up physically, don't be afraid to defend yourself verbally so you don't have to run and hope to avoid being arrested when you fly off the handle.
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Posted 5/23/11
Sometimes but just a friendly bully. Not a big idea but there's a real bully. Then yes, I'ma kick his ass. I don't let other bullys me around. I know how to fight or even kill someone. Haha.
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Posted 5/23/11
I never let anyone to bully me. anyone who'll bully will see what they should see XDD

I meant, I fight back. I won't tolerate them, haha.
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Posted 5/23/11 , edited 5/23/11
Bullies was just another thing I had to live with, when I was younger. Some of the people, who used to bully me, even resorting in stupid things like taking my pencil or eraser. Daily annoyances like yelling at me or pushing me was also a daily routine of my younger life. I can't believe a human being can be so pathetic, that they can laugh over something like that. Unfortunately for them, I started ignored everything as hard as i could. If they became too cocky, I could easily say my favorite line to them: "Small brains, small pleasures".
Now, if someone tries to bully me, I would happily make them suffer. No matter if it's a boy or a girl!
Posted 5/23/11

Tairuke wrote:

why allow someone to bully u?
is it that u are scared?
weak?
or dont know how to defend yourself?
or afraid if u defend yourself you will get in trouble by elders....

i personally will smack someone if they try to bully me around..i always have this attitude..if u are surrounded by people who want to bully you, and they all want to beat you up.. you take down one person who is from that group and you really beat that person good no matter what happening around you

i never experience bulling..but i know some people who did
so be free to discuss...


Ha, it's easy to say that when you've never been bullied.
I've been bullied, but it never was that bad, since they subsided very fast, or they suddenly became nice. Probably since I'm a pretty boring target, and I'm pretty nice I guess
Posted 5/23/11
I think some victims of bullies are psychologically damaged in time by the experience, like they start believing its their fault when it really is NOT. But thats what happens, you just need to stomp them down from the beginning, show you're not an easy target and that you don't give a shit, laugh it off. Probably the main reason why I never got bullied was because I am highly aggressive to people like that, and I'll just tell you to go fuck yourself straight away if you upset me. Stand up for yourself! Be the better person though and don't go further than you need to. There are SO many idiots out there yet to meet and they just wont be prepared for ya

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Posted 5/23/11 , edited 5/23/11
I'm a skinny pale kid with glasses, people tried to bully me all the time at school. I'd always follow the same pattern when it hapened.

Start out following my mums advice, ignore them, tell a teacher, etc, which always did... nothing. If anything it made it worse half the time. Then I'd follow my dads advice.

My dads advice tended to stop bullying but get me into crap. Mostly because my dads advice was to kick the living crap out of them, even if i was a skinny pale kid with glasses I knew how to fight, and they never really expected it. I was a dab hand with choke holds too.

Bullying stopped with me in secondary school though. The people dumb enough to carry on trying to bully me went to a different school, and I quickly built up a reputation of not feeling pain somehow. I think one of my classmates was pissing about, turned and I caught a full fist in the face, but where i'd been so used to getting whacked I just laughed it off.

One thing I learnt from school was that teachers are useless, and to take things into my own hands. I know people disagree and say "oh you shouldn't" my response to them is "were you ever bullied? no? Then shut the hell up" or something more polite than that.

I know for a fact if i ever have kids I WILL be teaching them some basic self defense, and I probably will go with the "tell your teacher" approach first, who knows they may actually have decent teachers. But i'll also be telling them if the teacher does nothing to smack them in the nose and take them down, then not let them back up. Far as i'm concerned the only way bullies will learn is with a solid beating.

I'm not saying kick them while they're down either though, if they aren't getting back up then back the hell off. I just mean if they started it make sure its finished before you walk away from it. I've had too many whacks to the back of the head because I let them get back up while I was walking away.



Hmm... This seems to have raised a rant. nvm.
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Posted 5/23/11
i only got bullied once, that was just after i transfered to another school in fifth grade, the first 2 day i ways like just let it go you don't wanna get a bad name for myself but the third day i snapped and smashed his head into the school board and broke his nose .
the next day he came with his father and gave me one hell of a kick , the next day i also brought my father(and he is strong ) and we beat the crap out of both of them before school(fatherXfather kidXkid ofcourse) after that never had any trouble again .
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Posted 5/23/11
bullies face the wrath of my water bottle
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18 / F / Canada
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Posted 5/23/11
well... I could always stand up for myself... even I think with just one of my scary looks, I could scare them away!!! hahahah... but I dont do that often... I usually think that if I hurt them or anything, two wrongs don't make a right...
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Posted 5/23/11
Bullies wouldn't do much but talk big. Unless they show some actions then it might depend on mood nor days really.
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Posted 5/23/11 , edited 5/23/11
I was never bullied. I'm not someone who'll just let people purposely hurt me, so if someone dares to bully me, I won't back down (I'm usually kind but I can be evil in more ways than one). When somebody tries to piss me off, I just ignore their existence first. But when they happen to make me snap, it wouldn't be a good sight. (just for the record, the last thing I'd do is physical violence)

One of the things I always tell my younger siblings and cousins: "Never start a fight, but if somebody bullies or quarrels you, never EVER back down. If you are on the right, then you don't have anything to worry about; don't let people hurt you for their own convenience."
Posted 5/23/11 , edited 5/23/11
I used to be bullied a lot in middle school....I was very shy and very sensetive that I couldn't stand up to them. It used to bother me so much for years.....It took me a long to fight for myself and learn not to give into them. I ignore what people say about me.
Posted 5/23/11

mystic17 wrote:

I was afraid of getting in trouble and most of the ones who bullied me were bigger or always had a group of people to protect them.


This is true. I had a few in junior high, and they hardly ever mess with you when they're alone unless they really think that low of you.

In high school, when there would be a fight, it was ALL ABOUT how many people you had with you. I would hear people saying that their 30 was fighting against their 14. Actual numbers. I always stayed away, but I saw one once or twice and it was as crazy as it sounds.
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