First  Prev  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  14  15  16  17  18  Next  Last
Post Reply Why allow people to bully you around...
Banned
33191 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
18 / M / Stoke, England
Offline
Posted 2/19/13 , edited 2/19/13

LolitaLicker wrote:


you ever been surrounded by 7 guys trying to kick the shit out of you? You think the guys around will just let you bum rush the guy in front and just idly stand by?

You never experienced bullying so you would understand how it feels


You have a point. Those who aren't bullied see all this unrealistic shit in movies and anime, where the "victim" goes ape shit and cooly defeats all of the bullies, even if there's like 10 of them, and think "aw yeah, if I was getting bullied, i'd kick their ass!"

IRL though, only their arse would be kicked, and not the bullies. You just have to take it like a man, and get beat up. Of course, you can still fight back if you want, I'd never completely back down.
8210 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25 / M
Offline
Posted 2/19/13
Mmm probably casue i didn't want my parents to worry, not becasue i was scare or weak. i still got into a fight with a big brazilian dude casue i reached my boiling point, but thats the only time i ever fought with anyone.
Posted 2/19/13 , edited 2/19/13

LolitaLicker wrote:


Tairuke wrote:

why allow someone to bully u?
is it that u are scared?
weak?
or dont know how to defend yourself?
or afraid if u defend yourself you will get in trouble by elders....

i personally will smack someone if they try to bully me around..i always have this attitude..if u are surrounded by people who want to bully you, and they all want to beat you up.. you take down one person who is from that group and you really beat that person good no matter what happening around you

i never experience bulling..but i know some people who did
so be free to discuss...


you ever been surrounded by 7 guys trying to kick the shit out of you? You think the guys around will just let you bum rush the guy in front and just idly stand by?

You never experienced bullying so you would understand how it feels


Oh god, that name.

CarboKill wrote:


LolitaLicker wrote:


you ever been surrounded by 7 guys trying to kick the shit out of you? You think the guys around will just let you bum rush the guy in front and just idly stand by?

You never experienced bullying so you would understand how it feels


You have a point. Those who aren't bullied see all this unrealistic shit in movies and anime, where the "victim" goes ape shit and cooly defeats all of the bullies, even if there's like 10 of them, and think "aw yeah, if I was getting bullied, i'd kick their ass!"

IRL though, only their arse would be kicked, and not the bullies. You just have to take it like a man, and get beat up. Of course, you can still fight back if you want, I'd never completely back down.



I don't see how you could get a hit in, they can easily hold you down, that happened to me once.
I got held down by some mexican dude and got my ass kicked. lol.
that was in 8th grade though.
18399 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
27 / M / with Ashy Larry r...
Offline
Posted 2/19/13
Some people are just really non-confrontational. Others could be afraid but can you blame them? People are out of their minds these days. I can defend myself well enough but even I dont want to get into a confrontation. My black ass would be going to jail in a heartbeat. LOL
2179 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
28 / M / NW England
Offline
Posted 2/19/13
I was bullied for the first half of secondary school, and the school didn't want to do anything because of their 'reputation'.
The best advice I ever got was from one of my teachers who kept me behind one day because he could see that something was wrong. After telling him what had been going on for over two years, and how the school wasn't helping me, he sighed, paused, then said, "Well... You need to hurt them".

The first fight I ended up losing quite badly, but I still remember the look of pure shock on their faces when I turned on them; this timid, fat kid who always took it and stared at the floor was going batshit crazy all of a sudden. It's actually quite funny when I look back on that, I can't imagine how I must have looked; a mixture of tears, rage and terror all in one

I got a lot of stick for having lost that fight, but the next time it happened, I launched myself at them again, and again the time after that. It took almost a month, one horrible, painful month of walking home with bust lips and bruises, with even more bullshit name-calling in our form room, but it eventually completely stopped. I proved to them all that I simply wasn't worth the trouble.

If any of you guys are being bullied, and you've exhausted the official channels of your parents and the school itself, draw the line right there. Know that bullying filth have no right to make you feel so horrible, nor do they have any right to hurt you. The odds will be stacked against you, and chances are no one will help you, but the very last thing little shits like that expect is for you to turn round and go start beating on them.

Don't wait for hope, and don't wait for someone else to fix it for you. Your life is exactly that: Yours. Sometimes we lose, but unless we try then it's impossible to win.
4233 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
15 / F / somewhere on mars
Offline
Posted 2/19/13 , edited 2/21/13
Some people TRIED to bully me but it never worked.
Banned
31576 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
33 / M / The Universal Con...
Offline
Posted 2/19/13
Oh, I would probably totally go nuts if someone tried to bully me in real life. I will react in three ways: Kick the guy's ass, ignore him, or kick the guys ass and then ignore him I would more likely ignore them though unless they really want a physical fight.
Banned
33191 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
18 / M / Stoke, England
Offline
Posted 2/19/13

-Vega- wrote:

Oh, I would probably totally go nuts if someone tried to bully me in real life. I will react in three ways: Kick the guy's ass, ignore him, or kick the guys ass and then ignore him I would more likely ignore them though unless they really want a physical fight.


With that frail, neet body of yours.
Banned
31576 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
33 / M / The Universal Con...
Offline
Posted 2/19/13 , edited 2/19/13

CarboKill wrote:


-Vega- wrote:

Oh, I would probably totally go nuts if someone tried to bully me in real life. I will react in three ways: Kick the guy's ass, ignore him, or kick the guys ass and then ignore him I would more likely ignore them though unless they really want a physical fight.


With that frail, neet body of yours.


What are you talking about? I'm in pretty good shape, man. I'm stronger than most people in the world. I lift weights, know how to fight, and have high endurance.
Banned
33191 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
18 / M / Stoke, England
Offline
Posted 2/19/13 , edited 2/19/13

-Vega- wrote:


What are you talking about? I'm in pretty good shape, man. I'm stronger than most people in the world. I lift weights, know how to fight, and have high endurance.


Hahahaha. Sit down, little boy.
Posted 2/19/13

animecrazy14 wrote:

Some people TRIED to bully me but it never worked. I suppose the best way to get rid of it is just to ignore it or tell someone.



That is the pussy way, and then they wll beat your ass even more for snitching.

Lisu 
13499 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
29 / F / Philadelphia, PA
Offline
Posted 2/19/13

butthurtking wrote:


animecrazy14 wrote:

Some people TRIED to bully me but it never worked. I suppose the best way to get rid of it is just to ignore it or tell someone.



That is the pussy way, and then they wll beat your ass even more for snitching.



I went to Catholic school...you told someone and the nuns went and beat the crap out of them. Was enough to minimize most bullies cause you were scared of being hit by the nuns. And they were allowed to back then if they got your parents to sign a permission form stating they could hit you. So I never saw that as a pussy way. xD
Posted 2/19/13

Lisu wrote:


butthurtking wrote:


animecrazy14 wrote:

Some people TRIED to bully me but it never worked. I suppose the best way to get rid of it is just to ignore it or tell someone.



That is the pussy way, and then they wll beat your ass even more for snitching.



I went to Catholic school...you told someone and the nuns went and beat the crap out of them. Was enough to minimize most bullies cause you were scared of being hit by the nuns. And they were allowed to back then if they got your parents to sign a permission form stating they could hit you. So I never saw that as a pussy way. xD


Well that explains it.
Banned
31576 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
33 / M / The Universal Con...
Offline
Posted 2/19/13 , edited 2/19/13

CarboKill wrote:


-Vega- wrote:


What are you talking about? I'm in pretty good shape, man. I'm stronger than most people in the world. I lift weights, know how to fight, and have high endurance.


Hahahaha. Sit down, little boy.


I know what you are trying to do. Sure, I'm short, but I can cause a lot of damage. I can kill you if I want. Are you going to try to get a rise out of me by mentioning my height again, Mr. Big Dick? Do you base you whole self around your dick? Hmm? You amuse me.

25286 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
17 / F
Offline
Posted 2/19/13 , edited 2/19/13
Height really doesn't matter, height does not automatically equal strength.
There are plenty of shorter people who can beat the shit out of you.
And there are plenty of weak taller people.

Honestly, I'm average height/a bit above average (5'6") and I can't beat anyone up, which is why I was such a pussy in middle school who got pushed around so much; I never used much force to fight back bullies because I was a weakling compared to them.
First  Prev  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  14  15  16  17  18  Next  Last
You must be logged in to post.