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I got bullied at school and as a result I stopped paying attention to it. Starting to ignore them as well as myself and the rest of the world. I just put up a ''whatever mask'' on. Then it triggered me. Yeah emotional chaos. This is a common problem. Some people have to pick on others because they're not really better themselves. Putting themselves and the victim in more pain and useless problems. Hello and welcome to life.
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ill let them get away with it the first time but i make sure they understand dont mistake my kindness for weakness cuz i will fuck you up if you try me
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I have been bullied in middle school and at some point in high school. it wasn't because I wasn't able to defend myself, but more that people wanted to belittle me and try to break me apart. In middle school it was different because I was the new kid. I didn't speak much just spoke with my grades, which not everyone liked that I was really smart. This one girl didn't like that all the attention was going towards me, even if it was bad attention. Either way my entire grade ended up hating me due to that one girl and bullied me to the point where I couldn't take it anymore and I almost fought the girl, but being in a catholic school the principal stopped me. ^^

in high school it was a bit different I wasn't bullied at all. but of course boy drama, that a lot of girls cant avoid. Anyways lets just put it simple a pregnant girl pushed me against a locker because I was the main topic of her boyfriend, then, whenever he talked to her. Bullying is something that people can avoid. If it happens ignore it like the dude up there said Striferu.

Simple as that. if they see that you don't care they will simply leave you alone. the most irritating feeling is when you cant get to someone. But if they continue to bully you then there is no harm in having aid from anyone. if you cant stop it perhaps someone else can. but violence is never the answer, to me that just makes you an even bigger bully. but if they do start hitting you then by all means defend yourself. now I will shutup cuz I can go on and on. . . . .
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Simple you beat the living shit out of them. Don't let them get back up. Don't let them beg for mercy. You make them your servant.
Posted 6/29/13
I would beat the bully down and make him feel small.
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Posted 6/29/13
for bullies, not skinheads or gangsters
bullies have usually inferiority complex

1. Stare fixedly at someone in a hostile manner. Generally used to convey anger or disdain, can be a signal that a fight is about to happen. - Urban Dictionary

2. He recognizes your willingness to cause him physical harm.

possibility a. He backs off
possibility b. He's provoked

one solution for b) Set a place and time for a fight (win or lose you're no longer an easy target), repeat
Posted 7/22/13
The only time I was bullied was in kindergarten and 1st grade. I just let them bully cause my mom told me too O.O
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Posted 7/22/13
masochist....
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Posted 7/22/13
My experience with bullies was never a big deal to me. I was the fat nerdy kid in school, so between my awkwardness, lack of strength or willpower, and effortless As, I made a pretty good target, so I was bullied. At first I was annoyed, but once I approached it from a problem-solving perspective, it didn't turn out to be too difficult to deal with. I basically just started waving them off condescendingly when they started bullying me, and treating them normally when they didn't. Reinforcement, B.F. Skinner-style, to encourage good behaviour. The tactic didn't work right away, of course, but eventually, it became more effort than it was worth to make a target out of me, and I actually ended up getting along with them fairly well.

You just need to keep your cool and look at the situation objectively as a problem to be solved rather than a grudge match. If you retaliate and treat them badly all the time too, then they won't learn that they'll be treated better for being better people.
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Posted 7/22/13
Never experienced bullying towards me
But i saw some kid getting bullied and put a stop to it
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Posted 7/22/13
We dont have the whole middle school and high school system here. Here it's 1st grade to 9th grade in one school, and very few have 10th. Then theres the college, university and so on, 1-9th grade is the same as middle and high school i think.

But all the way throughout 1-9th grade i was bullied, it started out with one person then one more and then bullying suddenly became popular so i was bullied by my whole class for 9 years, it was the older students too. At some point in time i couldnt take it anymore since i was bullied while my teacher was watching and he ignored it, so i transfered school to another school. I gor bullied at my new school too but that was more light bullying, it was in 7th grade, it was only a couple of guys from my class doing it though, i'd become friends with most of my class and the other class in my uear, i did sports with some of the seniors and i had my best friend in the grade above me. It fades out in the end of 7th grade though.
On our school we had this rule that when it snowed there would be a snowball fight in the sports field, so if you walk out on the field youre asking to be let in the "war"!
I remember the senior boys grapping me from my class and carrying me out onto the sports field and ganging up on me and covering me with snow, and at that time i'd had it with bullies and being forced i to that shit, so i started kicking and hitting everywhere and i apperantly kicked one guy in the face and gave him a bloody nose, and i hit another guy in the face giving him a black eye. Thats what they get for dragging me out in my tshirt -.-

We also have this tradition here for the 9th graders finishing school.
The last day before their exams they dress up carry water guns and candy on them, so they run through the hallways throwing candy to 800-1000 students (1-9th grade), and then we gather at the sports field to watch football students vs teachers, and then out of the blue they attack the student body with water guns and balloons. The year those snowball seniors had to graduate from school they'd made a small pool with water in it and then they'd fill it with water and glitter. All of the people from the snow incident caught me, threw me in the glitter water, gave me a bag of candy each and a hug telling me to take care of myself.

So no grudges held from either side. But that was when i was 14, im almost 22, so thats 8 years ago.
But i havent been bullied since ... But the days of being bullied, i still remember them and also who bullied me, even to the point of beating me up in school, i wont ever forget or forgive them. It was the worst years of my life.
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Posted 7/22/13
In school I was never bullied, but if I had been I would have just told on them lol yay for the tattle-tells
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Posted 7/22/13
the majority of peeps throughout the world are all pussies.
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Posted 7/22/13
People attempted to bully me when I was in school, I laughed at them. This infuriated them to act tough and challenge me. 90% of them never did it again. Those who took the next step found out I'm not easily bullied nor beaten.....ohh that poor sap with the bloody nose. Hahaha
Posted 7/22/13
yes i get bullied around but i will stand up for myself and say BITCH GET OF MY CASE AND PAY ATTENTION TO YOURS if things get violent i would win but i dont want to be a person that people fear so i just talk back
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