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Weakness lies in the heart. I'm far too nice to fight back. Instead ill smile.
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Masochist.
I'll let it slide so far but inside im secretly plotting the best course of attack should it continue. I'm ruthless when you piss me off which is why no one does it.
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this is a main reason some people chose not to fight bullies.

Every bully has a brother or a cousin that wants to fight you if you beat their relative.

Nowadays people my age fight wildy and just through random punches and when one of them hits everybodys says'' oh shit that was a good punch''. Those are the kind of punches that make bullies and their relatives come to get revenge.

If you are going to fight a bully, be as mean as you can. Every bully throws a sucker punch and this is how you know their going to do it.
They put one foot forward while close to you, they keep the hand they punch with behind their back and when they are ready they usually look behind them slowly and look back real fast while throwing a wild hook for your head. If you get hit by one of those ,even from a small guy, you are going down. when they throw, youve got to imediatly duck.
From there there is 2 things i would recommend.

dont just punch them in the face because it is not mean enough to keep their relatives from wanting to fight you. punch them in the When you duck their punch swing your fist as fast as you can into their liver( right under their ribcage, on the side of their body.

Second thing could possibly land you in jail but it will stop the fight immediatly without fail. When you duck, keep your palm flat, arm straight and break their windpipe. I would not try to punch it because it takes a lot of reflexes.

always stay really close because its hard for them to throw wild punches if you are right there in their face.

Am I not the only one that finds fights nowadays pitiful?
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Posted 12/9/12
When i was a kid i used to be teased or picked..
I moved away from home.
Right now, i have an aura that no one can harm me.
No one can approach me easily.
My revenge will happen later on in life when they don't see it coming.


so right now i'll just stay quiet.
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I've had bullies pretty much my entire life. I got picked on for how tall I was, my breast size as I got older, my hair, my nose, my skin, weight, etc. Kids can be cruel, but the best piece of advise I've ever gotten was "In order for someone to insult you, or make you feel inadequate, you first have to value their opinion. If you know who you are, you can't help that they're ignorant to that." So I just ran with that, of course I did get into an occasional fight, but most of my bullies quit after they realized they didn't exist to me any longer.
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Jdaimond wrote:

this is a main reason some people chose not to fight bullies.

Every bully has a brother or a cousin that wants to fight you if you beat their relative.

Nowadays people my age fight wildy and just through random punches and when one of them hits everybodys says'' oh shit that was a good punch''. Those are the kind of punches that make bullies and their relatives come to get revenge.

If you are going to fight a bully, be as mean as you can. Every bully throws a sucker punch and this is how you know their going to do it.
They put one foot forward while close to you, they keep the hand they punch with behind their back and when they are ready they usually look behind them slowly and look back real fast while throwing a wild hook for your head. If you get hit by one of those ,even from a small guy, you are going down. when they throw, youve got to imediatly duck.
From there there is 2 things i would recommend.

dont just punch them in the face because it is not mean enough to keep their relatives from wanting to fight you. punch them in the When you duck their punch swing your fist as fast as you can into their liver( right under their ribcage, on the side of their body.

Second thing could possibly land you in jail but it will stop the fight immediatly without fail. When you duck, keep your palm flat, arm straight and break their windpipe. I would not try to punch it because it takes a lot of reflexes.

always stay really close because its hard for them to throw wild punches if you are right there in their face.

Am I not the only one that finds fights nowadays pitiful?


Fights nowadays? What fights are you comparing them to? I say go wild when you're young. Once you get older, the prospect of a fight becomes less and less appealing.

As for bullies I don't know. I was a dork in school, but I also had five brothers so I grew up fighting and wrestling. I wasn't afraid to fight, and people pick up on that. Never had to actually fight, though I did get in some minor scuffles due to my big mouth.
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Posted 12/9/12

kinga750 wrote:


Jdaimond wrote:

this is a main reason some people chose not to fight bullies.

Every bully has a brother or a cousin that wants to fight you if you beat their relative.

Nowadays people my age fight wildy and just through random punches and when one of them hits everybodys says'' oh shit that was a good punch''. Those are the kind of punches that make bullies and their relatives come to get revenge.

If you are going to fight a bully, be as mean as you can. Every bully throws a sucker punch and this is how you know their going to do it.
They put one foot forward while close to you, they keep the hand they punch with behind their back and when they are ready they usually look behind them slowly and look back real fast while throwing a wild hook for your head. If you get hit by one of those ,even from a small guy, you are going down. when they throw, youve got to imediatly duck.
From there there is 2 things i would recommend.

dont just punch them in the face because it is not mean enough to keep their relatives from wanting to fight you. punch them in the When you duck their punch swing your fist as fast as you can into their liver( right under their ribcage, on the side of their body.

Second thing could possibly land you in jail but it will stop the fight immediatly without fail. When you duck, keep your palm flat, arm straight and break their windpipe. I would not try to punch it because it takes a lot of reflexes.

always stay really close because its hard for them to throw wild punches if you are right there in their face.

Am I not the only one that finds fights nowadays pitiful?


Fights nowadays? What fights are you comparing them to? I say go wild when you're young. Once you get older, the prospect of a fight becomes less and less appealing.

As for bullies I don't know. I was a dork in school, but I also had five brothers so I grew up fighting and wrestling. I wasn't afraid to fight, and people pick up on that. Never had to actually fight, though I did get in some minor scuffles due to my big mouth.


I actaully dont like the way people my age fight because sometimes one of them will embarres themselves and might pull out a switch blade in an attempt to look cool again in front of their friends.

My moms a nurse so she comes back from work telling us about all the kids that get stabbed in the head or gut from knifes.

Still, nowadays is better than the old, old days because back then you could legally shoot the man who wronged you in a duel.

I have 2 brothers myself and we engoy wrestling too.
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Jdaimond wrote:

I actaully dont like the way people my age fight because sometimes one of them will embarres themselves and might pull out a switch blade in an attempt to look cool again in front of their friends.

My moms a nurse so she comes back from work telling us about all the kids that get stabbed in the head or gut from knifes.

Still, nowadays is better than the old, old days because back then you could legally shoot the man who wronged you in a duel.

I have 2 brothers myself and we engoy wrestling too.


Wow North Dakota must be a rough place.
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Posted 12/9/12

kinga750 wrote:


Jdaimond wrote:

I actaully dont like the way people my age fight because sometimes one of them will embarres themselves and might pull out a switch blade in an attempt to look cool again in front of their friends.

My moms a nurse so she comes back from work telling us about all the kids that get stabbed in the head or gut from knifes.

Still, nowadays is better than the old, old days because back then you could legally shoot the man who wronged you in a duel.

I have 2 brothers myself and we engoy wrestling too.


Wow North Dakota must be a rough place.


Was that a joke? If you are serious than ill just tell you that it isnt that tough. I grew up close to the ghetto in georgia. im actaully in the middle of a long move and the place im moving to has a bunch of farmers and such. Peacfull, If you get into a fight with someone you can bring them a package of deer meat and they will swear youre the nicest person in the world.

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I was bullied once..He was out of school for a week when he came back he still bore the marks. After that no one really tried it again. Even better as he initiated in front of a class full of witnesses there was no punishment for me.
Posted 12/9/12

Shrapnel893 wrote:


eos wrote:

I'm afraid. Simply, I'm a weak person who cannot win.


Use your pepper spray on them.


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The only time I got bullied was in middle school on the bus, and I basically clawed his face off while he pulled my hair. It was fun. ^^ Afterwards, I dunno. I got along with mostly everyone during high school. Even my bullies. But I think this is because my school was new, and it only had my grade and the grade above us attending. For the next four years, we just grew to respect each other. Some of the people that bullied me in middle school I now consider good friends.

Then again, maybe I wasn't bullied a lot, because I already scare people away. When I volunteered for a school haunted house, my teacher told me most of the people that went inside said the only frightening thing about the house was me. Afterwards, I just used that to my advantage. If someone is pissing me off, I give them this weird look, and then they immediately become uncomfortable. :)


So what you're saying is, your rape-face is so unnerving that it makes people think twice about anything they do around you? Does your orgasm face do that too? Wait, I'm sorry, that was wrong of me. I apologize.


You know me so well. And no. My weird look tends to be just me shooting a long dark glare at someone. But my rape face is just as hauntingly beautiful and intimidating, if I say so myself.~
Posted 12/10/12
I was never bullied when I was young. I always kept a strong front and if I needed to fight then I will fight.
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This is what I think: Bullying is not an individual problem, it's a social problem. You can't stop a bully from bullying you by doing something by yourself. Fighting back may discourage the bully, but it won't stop the bully.
Bullying is more psychological than physical. It happens because bullies get two things from being bullies: self esteem and a sense of power. Most victims of bullying are picked because they are easy targets - most don't have a good base of support, i.e. little to no friends, aren't viewed in a positive way by adults, poor communication skills, etc.
There are very few good ways to stop bullying and many bad ones. The best way to stop a bully is to build your support base. Bullies pick on people in order to gain power, which comes in various forms: fear, respect and popularity (the cool factor). Fighting back helps, but only if you do it in such a way that causes others to lose respect or fear of the bully.
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I took advice from my uncle who was in prison and that bully never got near me again. 3 words.


THREATEN TO RAPE.


just kidding
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