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Why allow people to bully you around...
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Posted 1/23/13 , edited 1/23/13
In my case when i was in middle school it wasn't really just 1 person, it was multiple. And teachers never did anything if you said shit back or if they hit you. I always tried to pretty much stay out of trouble at that point in time.
I ended up quitting school and finally had to go to court and they told me i had to go back or id be arrested. I refused and ended up getting changed to a different school. The new school's education system sucked and i found myself bored but there was less bullying(only 2-3 people this time) I ended up quitting school again at the point of about 9th or 10th grade.( i still hadn't really had a growth spurt at this time)
Went to another school with zero bullying (largely because some kid started a rumor about how the quiet ones are the scary ones)but the education again was boring. It felt like i was 5 grades lower then i was. I'd sleep all day and just take the tests and score around 98% all the time but that wasn't enough to pass. So i ended up quitting and just taking my GED. Which was ridiculously easy and i should have done 5years sooner if it was available.
During all these school swaps and such i definitely contemplated going back and hurting all these people seriously.
I've been out of school for about 8 years now and have done nothing with my life and have zero social skills. Pretty much a NEET / Hikikomori type situation. Have been diagnosed with various mental disorders.

Even though id do nothing now...
If i was the me i am now and could go back in place of the me then i'd probably pick up a chair and smash all their heads in.
I've been suicidal pretty much this entire time just latching onto minor things. A good pet really helps. Don't know what you do when the pet dies though.
The only good thing i can say that came out of it is that i can definitely take punches.

I guess i can watch anime all day now? is that positive?
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i would never ever bully someone it goes against every fiber in my being....although being bullied from time to time really gets my blood pumping.
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i was never really bullied.... except in the 4th grade, it ended quickly when i punch her in the gut though >.> but in my school now people dont really bully, if they do i just ignore them, i personally don't care what other people think about me, i think if you have friends thats support you or you have something that you enjoy it doesn't really matter. (if you have no friends well then that kinda sucks)
Posted 2/18/13
This is the solution:
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Sometimes you can't help it. I used to get bullied by this pack of 5 rednecks in Ohio because I was from Florida and wore checkerboard vans. Everyday on the walk home they would take turns walking over and punching me in the face. My response was to keep on walking like it didn't hurt a bit. After awhile they stopped. But this was a long time ago. I can't comment on cyber bullying but it seems to me that anyone who would cyber bully doesn't have the balls to do it to your face. Basically if you act like it doesn't bother you then you take away their thrill and thus their power. If all else fails make friends with some big dudes, black and white and I bet they won't fuck with you anymore. Most bullies are just giant pussies anyway....
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For me: I had to use the legal system once for harassment. Because I was insulted physically and verbally by being called a "Wetback Jap" by a five-man gang of "cholos"(used to live in a ghetto before moving), that was an even bigger reason to move.
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It has always confounded me that the bullied kids allow it to continue with impunity. When bullying is addressed widely it's the in the wake of tragedy, pathetic tragedy. Do they perceive themselves as weak and powerless, or do they refuse to lower themselves to covert action of sweet, sweet revenge? The only worse cases of bullying I experienced was in elementary school and ever since I've always chosen the latter by getting vindication on the any individuals that have accosted or tried subjecting me to bullying. When I did get bullied I acted complacent and apathetic, biding my time to gather information, I admit that I resorted to malicious means and vandalism of property directed toward the bullies and their affiliates, it was justified.
Posted 2/18/13
If you like to be a doormat, then you are one.
Posted 2/18/13 , edited 2/18/13

moneygrip3030 wrote:

Sometimes you can't help it. I used to get bullied by this pack of 5 rednecks in Ohio because I was from Florida and wore checkerboard vans. Everyday on the walk home they would take turns walking over and punching me in the face. My response was to keep on walking like it didn't hurt a bit. After awhile they stopped. But this was a long time ago. I can't comment on cyber bullying but it seems to me that anyone who would cyber bully doesn't have the balls to do it to your face. Basically if you act like it doesn't bother you then you take away their thrill and thus their power. If all else fails make friends with some big dudes, black and white and I bet they won't fuck with you anymore. Most bullies are just giant pussies anyway....


To be honest, I really don't see "cyber bulleying", I don't see how people calling other faggots and retards and all that, unless that isn't cyber bulleying and I am missing something. Lol.



Also I barley got bulleyed in school, I didn't do much thought. but I don't care what the assholes think on the internet and on games.
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butthurtking wrote:


moneygrip3030 wrote:

Sometimes you can't help it. I used to get bullied by this pack of 5 rednecks in Ohio because I was from Florida and wore checkerboard vans. Everyday on the walk home they would take turns walking over and punching me in the face. My response was to keep on walking like it didn't hurt a bit. After awhile they stopped. But this was a long time ago. I can't comment on cyber bullying but it seems to me that anyone who would cyber bully doesn't have the balls to do it to your face. Basically if you act like it doesn't bother you then you take away their thrill and thus their power. If all else fails make friends with some big dudes, black and white and I bet they won't fuck with you anymore. Most bullies are just giant pussies anyway....


To be honest, I really don't see "cyber bulleying", I don't see how people calling other faggots and retards and all that, unless that isn't cyber bulleying and I am missing something. Lol.



Also I barley got bulleyed in school, I didn't do much thought. but I don't care what the assholes think on the internet and on games.


All know about cyber bullying is all the stories of these young girls committing suicide because some clique-ish bitches harassed them on Facebook or something. It's seems sad, but kids need thicker skin. I hope that didn't sound insensitive but that just my opinion.
Posted 2/18/13

moneygrip3030 wrote:


butthurtking wrote:


moneygrip3030 wrote:

Sometimes you can't help it. I used to get bullied by this pack of 5 rednecks in Ohio because I was from Florida and wore checkerboard vans. Everyday on the walk home they would take turns walking over and punching me in the face. My response was to keep on walking like it didn't hurt a bit. After awhile they stopped. But this was a long time ago. I can't comment on cyber bullying but it seems to me that anyone who would cyber bully doesn't have the balls to do it to your face. Basically if you act like it doesn't bother you then you take away their thrill and thus their power. If all else fails make friends with some big dudes, black and white and I bet they won't fuck with you anymore. Most bullies are just giant pussies anyway....


To be honest, I really don't see "cyber bulleying", I don't see how people calling other faggots and retards and all that, unless that isn't cyber bulleying and I am missing something. Lol.



Also I barley got bulleyed in school, I didn't do much thought. but I don't care what the assholes think on the internet and on games.


All know about cyber bullying is all the stories of these young girls committing suicide because some clique-ish bitches harassed them on Facebook or something. It's seems sad, but kids need thicker skin. I hope that didn't sound insensitive but that just my opinion.


Lol I had a guy message me on some forum and call me an ugly prick and I. Laughed it off but I am not a young girl
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Posted 2/18/13
Remember what Ol' Dirty said!!
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Posted 2/18/13
I don`t have it in me to bully anyone, guess I am too noble and calm.
If I remember correctly, I was bully in 5th Grade for most of that school year (not physically) until I finally got pissed enough too do something about it. I won`t` say it didn`t hurt but I was the one standing at the end (Having 3 bothers to practice fighting with help a lot).
After that up to Sophomore in High School I was only teased by girls (weak with girls), more like they harass me (grabbing my ass,etc ). Most of that probably because I did so good at school that the teacher would have me write the tests for the whole class which didnt make me too popular based on how many people failed. Even though I gave the answers to the people around my seat.

My advise to anyone out there would be to no be afraid of pain and no giving up without trying first, Hope it helps.......
Posted 2/19/13
I would whip out my happy bucket, and tell him/her to stop taking my happiness because you'll need more than that grab to fill up that hole in your happiness bucket!
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Posted 2/19/13

Tairuke wrote:

why allow someone to bully u?
is it that u are scared?
weak?
or dont know how to defend yourself?
or afraid if u defend yourself you will get in trouble by elders....

i personally will smack someone if they try to bully me around..i always have this attitude..if u are surrounded by people who want to bully you, and they all want to beat you up.. you take down one person who is from that group and you really beat that person good no matter what happening around you

i never experience bulling..but i know some people who did
so be free to discuss...


you ever been surrounded by 7 guys trying to kick the shit out of you? You think the guys around will just let you bum rush the guy in front and just idly stand by?

You never experienced bullying so you would understand how it feels
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