Aero-Mach wrote:

Well ya see, I have this dilemma. I have this friend, who use to be all happy and giddy. He use to be the most fun anyone had seen in quite sometime. His sheer will was amazing, he was an amazing person, only second to me obviously.

Anyway. Here is something you heard plenty of times before happening too a human, but there's a little spin on this one.

This guy I mentioned above has had his heart shattered one too many times that I actually think he's on the brink of suicide, he had starting acting unlike himself, he hates being single, so he's usually in a relationship, cause he's weird and actually want's a girlfriend(Why would you want a liability?). Every time he'd get a girlfriend. He'd tell me stuff like.

"She's probably cheating right now, she has to be, if she ain't in front of the mirror, she's probably at another rodeo." And breaks up with her the FIRST thought he gets of her cheating. Generalizing so bad saying. "If all cheaters disappeared, females would be extinct." I have no reference to give him of a faithful girl. I had 5 girlfriends and sadly they ended the same way his did, only I never actually trust girls to begin with so it hardly matters, he's the retard who actually EXPECTS a girl to be faithful. He never really listens to me.

Me: "You'll never find a girl that won't cheat on you, stop looking, it's a waste of energy and time, do you actually think they want just ONE guy? They probably want as many guys as they need tampons, in other words... more then one."

Him: "You can't be serious... :(."

And he doesn't listen anyway.

Now I can't post the whole story because you already had a hard time reading up til this point.

THE REAL QUESTION HERE!

Can you regain trust? One girl I know is actually trying to regain his trust in love again, but he's too scared to trust her. Can you really believe in love again after 7 consecutive relationships ending because of cheating?

I really just wanna crush his hope of ever finding any (good)girl because It just can't happen...

But share your thoughts! :D(And experiences if needed). I'll say it again to clear up all the text.

How can you get someone to regain their trust in relationships?