What should i do?
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Posted 5/29/11
Ok so i just gave myself a new hairstyle for summer. The problem is there'e this girl at school that i kinda know. and she has the same hairstyle. to make it more awkard and/or worse,she's in 6 outta 7 of my classes!(so i confront her all day!) i'm self-concious and pay too close attention to what people think of me. I'm afraid she'll think i'm trying 2 copy her style. Or that her friends will think that.BUT I'M REALLY NOT!

So what should i do? How should i feel?


THIS IS KINDA HOW THE STYLE LOOKS


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Posted 5/29/11
Maybe you should try and not care what people think and be yourself Don't let other people run your life, but I think it is normal to be concious on how you look I was when I was younger.
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Posted 5/29/11
put bubblegum in her hair 'by accident' ;)
then she'll have to get it cut again.......and it'll look different.

*insane long sinister laugh *
Posted 5/29/11
You shouldn't care what other people think! It's not like you ripped the style off her head and glued it to your's.
Posted 5/29/11
Superficial. You shouldn't really care about what others think, it's not like your worth as a human being is based on others' perception of you. But if that REALLY bothers you to the point where you couldn't show yourself without feeling bad, then all you can do is change your hair style.
Posted 5/29/11

shureyuuki wrote:

Superficial. You shouldn't really care about what others think, it's not like your worth as a human being is based on others' perception of you. But if that REALLY bothers you to the point where you couldn't show yourself without feeling bad, then all you can do is change your hair style.


I second this.
Posted 5/29/11 , edited 5/29/11
Kill her. But beware of Edogawa Conan.
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I say keep the hairstyle if you are happy with it and just explain the reason why you picked that style if it is ever brought up. If the problem is just you think she thinks you are copying her you could try talking to her to lay that fear to rest, or confirm it. Or maybe you can wear accessories in your hair during school, you only have a couple more weeks until summer break right? It's a nice hairstyle btw.
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Posted 5/29/11

Sushianimegeisha94 wrote:

Ok so i just gave myself a new hairstyle for summer. The problem is there'e this girl at school that i kinda know. and she has the same hairstyle. to make it more awkard and/or worse,she's in 6 outta 7 of my classes!(so i confront her all day!) i'm self-concious and pay too close attention to what people think of me. I'm afraid she'll think i'm trying 2 copy her style. Or that her friends will think that.BUT I'M REALLY NOT!

So what should i do? How should i feel?


THIS IS KINDA HOW THE STYLE LOOKS




Accessorize it. Add a pin or something to give it a different look until you get around to changing the style completely.

Also if you both have the same hair color, consider changing yours.

BTW I consider this a personal thread, so...

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