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Friends talking behind your back
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Posted 5/29/11
It's easy. Once you find out that someone is two faced, you stop hanging around them. It's that simple. You kids need to grow some balls and learn to kick people who hurt you out of your life. There's no point in torturing yourself. It doesn't even have to turn into a fight, just stop talking to them completely. Problem solved.
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it happens, regardless of whether you're a boy or a girl
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Posted 5/29/11
i'll just sit back and wait for karma to befall them...
or better... do it yourself..
backstabbers and 2 faced people aren't new nowadays...
Posted 5/29/11
Ditch-low standards you have, of what gets to be qualifies as 'friendship'.

To me a friend means someone you can agree with, and someone that'll disagree with you in a very mature way. A friend is someone that'll see eye-to-eye with you, but will live their own life. A friend is someone that's loyal and in their own way, respectful towards you.

Look for quality company, respect yourself by not letting yourself be downplayed and degraded in such a way. As for why people in general do it, I don't know and I don't care. 'Friendship' is a piss poor excuse for letting yourself be walked all over.
Posted 5/29/11 , edited 5/29/11

Lauriet wrote:

Ditch-low standards you have, of what gets to be qualifies as 'friendship'.

To me a friend means someone you can agree with, and someone that'll disagree with you in a very mature way. A friend is someone that'll see eye-to-eye with you, but will live their own life. A friend is someone that's loyal and in their own way, respectful towards you.

Look for quality company, respect yourself by not letting yourself be downplayed and degraded in such a way. As for why people in general do it, I don't know and I don't care. 'Friendship' is a piss poor excuse for letting yourself be walked all over.


It's mostly because of the human drive for competition among peers. Females tend to be subtly more fierce about it in 'casual' situations. Where as males often adapt competition as a form of enjoyment in life, females typically use it to degrade and belittle others in order to have more influence in a social group.

It's the equivalent to a monkey getting the first pick at it's mate because it was the best as slinging feces. An awkward pecking order, but until the average intelligence level increases drastically in society, it will be a sad fact and proof that humans have a long ways to go with evolution.

Edit: Oops didn't process it when you said you didn't care. Oh well lol.
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Posted 5/30/11
My friends do not backstabb me. i dunno.
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Posted 5/30/11
friends wont talk behind your back. If they have a problem with you they will tell you. a true friend anyway in my oppinion
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Posted 5/30/11
I can't help but think that this thread is a duplicate, even more so due to Kippu's post....


Posted 5/30/11
Girls are terrible for that, as soon as one is out of the room I hate bitching, I prefer to say it upfront. I'm quite respected in that sense.

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http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-648643/bad-friends-p

Eureka!

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