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I honestly don't care how a girl decides to dress; completely covered with a burkah or barely in anything. However, the only thing is that you shouldn't complain about how you're treated based on your appearance.

If I see a girl wearing almost nothing with a visible tramp-stamp, I'll pretty much treat you like a tramp and try to get into your pants. If not, then I'll assume you have a shred of self respect and treat you in such a manner.
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I live in the south, you have no idea how much rage this causes me because people do take it seriously. Moving on I could/can care less how many sex partners a woman has had in her life nor will i call her slut for doing so. The only time I have ever called a woman whore/slut is because of her actions. this is a bit personal but i know a girl from my high school years to this day that still loves to sleep around, that's fine. what pisses me off is that she uses the guys to get what she wants "money, cars etc" then eventually dumps them after she is done using them, she did the same thing to my idiot brother as well. Yes this is way off topic but you have no idea how much hatred i have for her.
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Hmm, well there are many different reasons or opinions to be taken into account on this. Me personally, I work out and try to look good physically not only to be in shape/healthy but to feel good about myself and impress my wife. If I werent with her, to impress other females for sure. If I get the chance I will show it off, not because Im a tool but because I used to look not so nice lol. (I normally wear jeans and a long sleeve button up not a smediam though) If I see a girl wearing some revealing clother I dont think she's a slut. The human body is amazing, especially a womens, and if she can pull it off please do wear it. Now on the other hand you can tell which dude's are total tools and which girls might be sluts by their body language. There is a difference between confidence or pride and a gratuitous display of yourself.

Ive got some guy friends who are tools. Some have been with 20, 30, and 50 girls or more. Me Ive only been with my wife, since we were 16, and im proud of that. I know girls who are the same and yes I think of them as sluts. Sex is one of the few things we can give another person thats from our bodies and should be treated a little more importantly. Not saying you need to get married or whatever but that it should be more then just getting off. Thats what masturbation is for lol.

Women, and men, should be proud of their sexuality. Its not something that anyone should be embarrassed of, its natural and its great. But society and us shouldnt put it on a glorified display for all to see and act like it is perfectly reasonable. Just my opinions of course, if you are perfectly fine with being promiscuous and are not bothered by it in the slightest then thats fine too, I can be close to a prude and you can be close to a slut.

(BTW I kinda feel like a tool because of my avatar. Its 3 years old, I look better now, but am to lazy to change it lol...)

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Uhh...
As it was stated in previous posts, the term "Slut" is considered a double standard. (At least in my book). I just could not understand why it was such highly used term for women who dressed promiscuously or had multiple sex partners; however, if the tables have turned and it was the male he was seen as "The man", "Pimp", "etc."

This is just me wondering out loud, but I wonder if:

1) Women who dress revealing is seeking attention rather than being comfortable about their body and sexuality? Sure, it's okay to dress the way you want to (Who am I to say otherwise), but let's say if you're at your little siblings birthday party with a bikini top and a short mini skirt. (Is that a woman really being comfortable, or seeking attention?)

2) I also wonder if men or women have multiple sex partners have a certain disorder (see satyriasis and nymphomania), or have a deeper underline issue that they can not cope with unless they have sex? (Like feeling wanted or accepted).

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Posted 6/7/11
This'll probably get me flamed but multiple partners is kind of like swapping out your old car for a new one. That "oh!" factor. :P

No, not everyone is like that and some prefer to keep what they have for a long time. Others trade out often. To each their own.
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Well todayz society is just a big toilet full of shit, and i expect no more than shit to come out of it. shitty shitty shitty.
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Han_Solo wrote:

How come girls who wear short skirts and show off their legs get called sluts, but a guy who works out all day in a gym getting all ripped and decides to wear a tight t-shirt all the time doesn't? I know for sure some men do it just to attract women (I see it all the time in night clubs) but then they aren't called anything.

I know there are some girls wear short skirts and low cut tops soley for the purpose of impressing boys, but I swear there are some girls who just like wearing these clothes because they genuinely like it and don't have the intent to buy it just to be a "slut"

Plus, I remember when in school, a girl I knew lost her virginity earlier than others. She wasn't the type of person to sleep around, but then she got called a slut because she lost it early. I know kids these days are losing it early but how come the girl has to be called a slut and suffer yet a boy is congratulated or just not called anything. I think the same goes to adults aswell, if a women has had a lot of sex she's a slut, but if it's a guy he's a player.

Think about it, James Bond sleeps with every chick, but it's okay, everyone loves Bond. If it was a woman protagonist sleeping with all the men, trust me she'd be called a whore.

This is more of a question than a rant because I'm a bit confused. I'm just asking for your opinion on what I said.

Sorry if what I said sounds stupid.


What to call a guy wen he works out all day, wears tight shirts, and has multi-girlfriends?
I thnk the word ur looking for is a douche XD
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ah...envy is a silly little thing, isn't it ?
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i was never called a slut cause i always wear loose shirts and clothes that I'm comfortable with...
but i always hear women say "she's such a slut" at some girl who just so happens to look sexy and appealing
personally, i would never call a girl a slut, unless i already know she really is one.
my point is if girls calling someone slut is a form of jealousy cause the boys all look at her, why not dress like like one, see what it feels to be called a slut just because you want to look good...
ugh. society nowadays, make me feel sick just being a part of it.
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hellfire1630 wrote:


Cecilthedarkknight234 wrote:


Deep153 wrote:

A key that opens many locks is a master key, a lock that's opened by many keys is a bad lock.

Just something I read


i have read that myself on a certain chan board, then again taking them seriously is like taking fox news seriously.


people take fox news seriously?



People take the mainstream media seriously?
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Franikey wrote:


FieryNic wrote:

Society is enamored with the "Madonna-Whore" dichotomy. It's perfectly acceptable to sleep around if you are a man, because your nature is to sew your oats, spread your seed. Women are supposed to bear children and tend house. Men are always interested to sleep with the "whore" but he won't marry her. He wants to marry the wholesome, pure "Madonna". A girl he can bring home to mum and the family.
I think the solution lies only in withdrawing the power of the word, "slut". If a confident woman decides she wants to dress provocatively or enjoy sex frequently, and some wish to call her a "slut", then the only thing to do is wear the label proudly. Words have no power if we change the interpretation. I am a slut. I am proud to be one. I enjoy sex. I am not ashamed. Sex is as natural as eating.
As far as men's interpretation of the word goes, the one's who use the label "slut" (in my experience) are the first one's to jump in bed and sleep with one. Therefore, are you not a "slut" by association? Ah, the confounding nature of humans.




You do not know how much that picture made me laugh
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i somewhat agree!!!
its kinda like where girls can say other girls are hot but when a guy calls another guy hot its considered gay. its just culture.
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Basically this answer can be answered by traditions, science and whatnot.

As you have probably learned before, men and women were not treated equally in the old days. Men were considered a "higher being" than women, that was why women worked in houses and tended to their children and animals. Also, in some places women were being called temptation for men to commit sin. Equality has been slowly being given to us, but in some countries such as Japan, India and Abu Dhabi, women are still not treated equally. So, basically traditions have kept them from sleeping with a lot of men. I mean, in the old days [around until the late 90s] if you weren't a virgin, you couldn't find a husband willing to marry you anymore. That's what the mentality of others were before. Very conservative.

In science however, it's basic knowledge that men produce hundreds, thousand or so sperms a day, however women only produce VERY little. Men need to ejaculate because of that reason, that is why it's socially accepted for them to go fucking others.
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No, you're thinking this the wrong way. All guys ARE slut. Getting laid is all they're thinking. LOL The society pretty much adapted to it so that's why they can't call smokin' hot topless guys sluts. We just went with it, that all guys are like that. Plus they like to show off so maybe we got tired of not accepting it. Girls, on the other hand, are delicate beings. I can think of two reasons though, one is people haven't fully accepted the "young slut" image yet. Remember the old times? When women used to wear long sleeves and long skirts? Right. Two, jealousy. You look hot in slutty clothes, they don't. You dress slutty, the boring people call you names. I don't know really but that's how i see it.



Posted 6/7/11
I only think you're a slut if you bang for money. If anyone gratifies anyone for money, you are a slut/prostitute/whore what have you.

Also if you don't tell the other person what your intentions are and lead them to think you are serious about them meanwhile you are banging everything that tickles your fancy I consider you the same, man or woman. Actually I would consider you a whole lot worse if you f- with someones emotions.

But the way you dress and doing what you want without lying to someone, I wouldn't consider that person a slut.

Just my opinion/view.

But ladies if you dress provocatively and get offended when guys, even the ones you don't find attractive stare at your bits and thinking of doing nasty things to you, that is your own fault.
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