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If a guy wears a tight shirt it doesn't matter. you are right.

But if he wears a speedo then he can be called a slut.
Posted 6/8/11

JWHv2 wrote:


Franikey wrote:


FieryNic wrote:

Society is enamored with the "Madonna-Whore" dichotomy. It's perfectly acceptable to sleep around if you are a man, because your nature is to sew your oats, spread your seed. Women are supposed to bear children and tend house. Men are always interested to sleep with the "whore" but he won't marry her. He wants to marry the wholesome, pure "Madonna". A girl he can bring home to mum and the family.
I think the solution lies only in withdrawing the power of the word, "slut". If a confident woman decides she wants to dress provocatively or enjoy sex frequently, and some wish to call her a "slut", then the only thing to do is wear the label proudly. Words have no power if we change the interpretation. I am a slut. I am proud to be one. I enjoy sex. I am not ashamed. Sex is as natural as eating.
As far as men's interpretation of the word goes, the one's who use the label "slut" (in my experience) are the first one's to jump in bed and sleep with one. Therefore, are you not a "slut" by association? Ah, the confounding nature of humans.




You do not know how much that picture made me laugh


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Posted 6/9/11
Am I a slut if I enjoy walking outside with no shirt on in my speedos?
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Posted 6/9/11


It's simple.
Can a average guy have sex with 75% of the chicks he sees? Not even 5%.
Can a girl have sex with 75% of the guys she sees? Definately.

Lets put it into GUN TERMS
A sniper (Guy) can take out a girl one at a time.
A Uzi (Girl) can take out everyone in the room.

Which one is considered the serial killer?
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Posted 6/9/11
Society is f'ed up. That's the reality.
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Posted 7/15/11
you're so right
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Posted 7/15/11
I'm about to say something that most of you will disagree.

In my belief, a woman's body is divine thing.I know that I'm in no position to say what a woman should do with her body, it is her body and she can do what ever she wants with it.

I will say that if a woman have sex and lost her virginity before the age of 18, or having sex with a different man besides her husband is consider to be a slut, with the exception of rape. Well, if the world really works the way I said, then almost everyone (most likely 99%) in the world would be consider to be a slut.
(You can't really call a man a slut, really. It would sound so weird)

But that still didn't answer why a woman is called a slut for having sex with many man while a man doesn't. As I have stated earlier that I believe that a woman's body is a divine thing, and a woman should take priority into taking care of her body. A woman's body is more valuable than a man's body.

So when a woman misuse her body by having sex early or having sex with a different man besides her husband, it is a bigger crime compare to the body of a man. So that's what I think why a lot of people call the woman a slut and a man a player.

Well that's just what I think, I can't tell you girls what to do with your body, it is your property after all and you may use it to your liking, but I just hope that you will take care of your body, and don't misuse it just for the sake of sex.

I can't stress enough how a female's body is very important and that you should be more careful with it. I tried to talk to girls in my school about it, but they just let it pass by their ears, and doesn't have a care in the world if something should happen to their body.
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Posted 7/15/11

FieryNic wrote:

Society is enamored with the "Madonna-Whore" dichotomy. It's perfectly acceptable to sleep around if you are a man, because your nature is to sew your oats, spread your seed. Women are supposed to bear children and tend house. Men are always interested to sleep with the "whore" but he won't marry her. He wants to marry the wholesome, pure "Madonna". A girl he can bring home to mum and the family.
I think the solution lies only in withdrawing the power of the word, "slut". If a confident woman decides she wants to dress provocatively or enjoy sex frequently, and some wish to call her a "slut", then the only thing to do is wear the label proudly. Words have no power if we change the interpretation. I am a slut. I am proud to be one. I enjoy sex. I am not ashamed. Sex is as natural as eating.
As far as men's interpretation of the word goes, the one's who use the label "slut" (in my experience) are the first one's to jump in bed and sleep with one. Therefore, are you not a "slut" by association? Ah, the confounding nature of humans.


I like this slut.

–noun
1. a dirty, slovenly woman.
2. an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute.

I think your wrong about the sex thing.
Females : Able to sleep with almost any guy.
Males: Able to sleep with girls that let them.
= Women have the power. Therefore if you abuse that power your considered immoral.
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looking at the age of the posters I see that not much has changed in the last 20-30 years since I and my (then) fellow teens and twenty somethings asked the same questions. Are a probably several answers.

1) Sexism still exits, and it exists more broadly than we like to admit. (too be fair the slut question is only one facet of sexism and not all sexist attitudes are held by men nor against women... but I digress)

2) if we imagine sex as an object, a commodity even, it is easy to describe the dynamics of sexual courtship as something girls have and guys want. under that dynamic, a guy getting lots of what he wants may be looked on with envy for his success or contempt for his methods but at worst will still be viewed grudgingly as a 'success'. Conversely, a girl who gives up what she has too easily or too often, devalues her 'commodity' and get's viewed as 'cheap'.

3) I think 'slut' is an easy put down for envy or sour grapes. If another women is smarter, or more aggressive, or more talented than you AS well as being prettier. It's easy to console yourself/hurt her by attributing her accomplishments to Slutting or Whoring rather than merit. Players i'm sure like to objectify their prizes as sluts and bitches because it allows said players to avoid confronting any guilt about the lies, manipulation and outright coercion they use to get what they want. Similarly if a man can't get a girl to sleep with her. I'm sure 'slut' is one of the first put downs that comes to his mind.

As to the solution. you've heard a few here. Deny the word it's power.
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Posted 7/15/11

randygal wrote:


FieryNic wrote:

Society is enamored with the "Madonna-Whore" dichotomy. It's perfectly acceptable to sleep around if you are a man, because your nature is to sew your oats, spread your seed. Women are supposed to bear children and tend house. Men are always interested to sleep with the "whore" but he won't marry her. He wants to marry the wholesome, pure "Madonna". A girl he can bring home to mum and the family.
I think the solution lies only in withdrawing the power of the word, "slut". If a confident woman decides she wants to dress provocatively or enjoy sex frequently, and some wish to call her a "slut", then the only thing to do is wear the label proudly. Words have no power if we change the interpretation. I am a slut. I am proud to be one. I enjoy sex. I am not ashamed. Sex is as natural as eating.
As far as men's interpretation of the word goes, the one's who use the label "slut" (in my experience) are the first one's to jump in bed and sleep with one. Therefore, are you not a "slut" by association? Ah, the confounding nature of humans.


I like this slut.

–noun
1. a dirty, slovenly woman.
2. an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute.

I think your wrong about the sex thing.
Females : Able to sleep with almost any guy.
Males: Able to sleep with girls that let them.
= Women have the power. Therefore if you abuse that power your considered immoral.


;) Abuse of power is human nature. Morality is subjective. I like simple pleasures. Sex is as simple as we make it.
Posted 7/15/11
If she embraces herself as a slut without shame, it is better than putting her self down as a slut with shame.
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Posted 7/15/11
sexist.
Posted 7/15/11
it cant B helped all we can do is not take it personal ....

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Posted 7/15/11 , edited 7/15/11
Wouldn't a guy showing off his body to attract women be called a pervert? Unless he was unbelievably hot to the point no one cared, it seems to be the case.
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Posted 7/15/11
sounds like OP is jelly (jealous) of ripped guys lol. go to the gym OP
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