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Asian Girls and the White Guys Phenomenon
Posted 6/22/11 , edited 6/22/11
Okay okay, before someone jumps up, speaks Crunchyroll-troll and says "U EZ BEEING RAKIST", I will clarify now that this is not a racist question, nor was it intended to be one - it is a question merely formed from curiosity from seeing just how popular these couples are.

This question also includes several sub questions, and I'd like to hear comments from all sorts of people (any race, any gender, any age) on what they think on these topics.

-Why are so many Asian girls attracted to White guys? (And vice versa?)

-Is the appeal, do you think based on culture (assumed or true), or unique looks?

-Is it a fetish of some sort? (I've actually had a male friend of mine say that.)

-How do you feel about them being together as a male, or a female?

-Where does this popularity stem from, and where do you think it started? (Either from movies, books, foreign interest, overseas travels, wars, etc.)

-Where does the appeal come in for Asian girls? Do they like European looks, assumed personality/jobs/etc., stereotypes in general?

-Do white guys expect a modern Madame Butterfly or some sort? (Again, I have heard comments from white guys saying they love the submissive type/demure type - though the Dragon Lady type is appealing as well.)

-What do Asian girls think of Asian guys?


**I myself, am not "white" nor male; and though I am Caucasian, I will usually go under the category of being Eurasian though, in case anyone wants to know who posted this. >3>

Once again I ask that you please do not take offense.


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Posted 6/22/11
o.O
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o_o Asian is seen as exotic and it could be a fetish. I had two white gf's. But man it was so much harder for an Asian guy to get a white gf than vice versa.
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Posted 6/22/11 , edited 6/22/11
Asian girls are attracted to white guys simply because they appeal to them. I've seen Asian girls only go after black guys as well, but they were raised in a black environment so it made sense. To most Asians, whites are appealing. For some people it is a fetish, some not, it's on the person. I hate to say this, but this is the honest truth. Looks are important, no matter how shallow that sounds, there has to be a physical connection for there to be a relationship. Sometimes, factors aren't weighed as heavily vs other things. (Once again it's on the person. Ex. Weight. Body build, exc. For everyone, what factors they consider beauty all plays a role in what they consider attractive. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.) Other elements like how they were raised, there environments, exc all play a factor as well. There is no one correct answer, there are multiple considerations.

Speaking for the majority, yes whites are extremely attractive to Asians--both male and female. I don't believe this started anywhere, as cultures mingled, Asians saw whites, and simply found them appealing, they simply like European looks.

Asian girls will always find Asian guys attractive because they are the same race and grew up like this.

I am half Asian/half European. I also find half Asian/half white the most attractive race. (However it's all about the personality when it comes down to it for me as well. Looks only go so far, but keep in mind, I am a "mature" guy, most don't start realizing looks aren't everything until 21-25. based on the maturity of the person. And some never figure this out until 40 when there looks officially fade.)
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Posted 6/22/11
I haven't noticed this "phenomenon". But I've noticed Asian girls with Black guys since the late 90's. lol

Of course people can decide whoever they wanna be with regardless of race. =)
Posted 6/22/11 , edited 6/22/11
Everyone has there own opinions.
And I am Asian and dont like white guys.
People that are nice iz awesome.
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Posted 6/22/11
rakist?
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Posted 6/22/11
Madame Butterfly? what's that
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karina7 wrote:

Madame Butterfly? what's that


^___^

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mMHVncVMEzU

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Posted 6/22/11
This subject has been kicked around since the 80's.

Several university studies have been run and the simple answer is...

The girls have noticed that a majority of white males treat their girls better.

When I was in Seoul, Korea I asked a few friends enrolled in the university the same question
and came up with the same answer.
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I wouldn't really think it's a fetish in most cases although some guys are attracted to certain rumours about asian girls most of which turn out to be not true. It's all a grass is greener on the otherside type of thing and wanting what you don't have (the same as lots of westerners wanting to live in Japan or Korea or whatever then they do it and realise it's not the Utopia they imagined) But back on topic. As fas as asian girls go it's because white foriegners are different. Everyone in asian countries has dark hair and dark eyes so when they see a foreigner with exotic blue or green eyes and light hair it's appealing because its new and different. Though it's not in all cases i know plenty of asian girls who only date asian guys and aren't interested in dating a foreigner.

As far as guys go in the west asian girls are a cultural alternative they come from places that are still very much male dominated so they take care of their bf/husband more and asian girls on the other hand enjoy more freedoms in a relationship with a westerner than they would with an asian man so the trade off can produce good relationships. On the other hand i see less western girls with asian men for the same reason. Often relationships are short because western women expect more freedoms than asian women.

The other reason asian women from places like Japan or Korea date foreigners is because it's fashionable. Young girls will often date a foriegner and show off to their friends much like getting a fashionable pair of jeans. It's rare to see relationships with foreigners in these countries end in marriage there is a lot of racial discrimination for mixed race married couples to a point where people will refuse to sell a house to them even if they can afford it because the people in the neighbourhood don't want to live near them.
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Posted 6/22/11
this is some weirdd thread o.o
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Posted 6/22/11
em....sometimes different is good? ........
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Posted 6/22/11
mmmm....
i'm an asian and i think this is not a racist question
maybe it's because i'm a carefree person?? LOL

i used to like a white man, but not anymore
i saw a man through his eyes, black or white or maybe asian i don't care~

hope my answer help you ^^
Posted 6/22/11
Heh, a phenomenon, really?

I've not noticed it.

The real question is: does it REALLY matter if Asian girls like white guys or black guys and vice versa?
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