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Asian Girls and the White Guys Phenomenon
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Posted 6/22/11

kennk5 wrote:

The girls have noticed that a majority of white males treat their girls better.


Word. This is the same reason I see a lot of white women with Indian men, because they treat them better than their white or east asian counterparts would have.

Population distribution is another reason. Even though I live in a diverse city, it's still very segregated. In my area, the good part of town, up until the end of high school, the amount of white men tends to outnumber the amount of coloured men. But within the same area, as they hit University, where in that particular age group dating isn't just some joke anymore, the amount of white men drops off steeply, resulting in a lot of interracial couples. This is just an example though, it has everything and nothing to do with this thread.
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Posted 6/22/11
Because white boys are hot and totally bishounen. Plus, they're different.
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Posted 6/22/11
They're tall.

They have nice eyes.

I like their hair.

Posted 6/22/11
maybe they are attracted to the whole western feminism accepted by white boys.....idk
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Asian guys are hott. White guys are much better looking, here's proof.
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Posted 6/22/11
Not in my area lol, all asians are with asians.
Posted 6/22/11
Fetish is purely sexual you know this right? Yeah I really like Asians but it's a cultural appeal and not a sexual one. You can get laid anywhere.

And yeah I have noticed the asians checking out white guy thing. Whenever I go to my local smoothie bar where lots of asian girls like to hang out, they always have their eyes glued to me as I walk in. The first time I went and my mom was waiting for me, she told me how they just kept staring at me : /
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Not being an asian or a girl I'm just going to guess, so if I'm totally off please feel free to ignore. I think you need to divide this into two different relationship categories, one being of women in asia and women of asian ancestry in western countries. For the former, I'd attribute the interest in white to reasons similar to those mentioned in previous posts that white males are different from what they're accustomed to. A possible factor in this could be the exportation of western media to those countries; for example a person in S.Korea is more likely to see a Hollywood blockbuster than an American seeing a Korean one. http://www.cnn.com/2011/WORLD/asiapcf/05/19/korea.beauty/index.html I believe this article is indicative of that influence. Or this one for men: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=120340646

For couples where the woman is of asian ancestry in a western nation the reason may be that white men are the majority so the odds are higher that she'd pick one. At the end of the day I'd like to think that personal preference and chemistry between two people's personalities play the biggest role. My last housemate was a white woman who's engaged to a half-korean man, so it goes both ways.

Since I'm a blue eyed white male (not trying to sell myself, just giving background) that's moving to Japan soon I'll let you know if it comes up or not.
Posted 6/22/11
hmm well I'm a bit of a nerd so I'm gonna go with genetic diversity speel. Being attracted to another race opens up a whole new gene pool.
Resulting in super exotic biracial babies like moi

Its probably cause of a factor of things, diversity, breaking social norms, appreciative of different cultures and course being attracted to someone based on their looks. But there is always gonna be good looking people on both sides, what'll keep a couple together is how they get along and whatever connects them.

Personally I never go for an Iranian or Indian guy (I'm half Iranian and Indian), I've always looked for someone that is different from me.
I have to admit that it is also partly due to not wanting to further integrate into my communities as their suffocating enough as it is.









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KittyClaws wrote:

I haven't noticed this "phenomenon". But I've noticed Asian girls with Black guys since the late 90's. lol

Of course people can decide whoever they wanna be with regardless of race. =)






I think the same as you. I don't think white guys intentionally like jst hunt down asian women to be with and vice versa. But hey, some people do just like certain people and do just go after a certain race. But that's what floats their boat and if that is what they choose than it is what it is.

I agree with you though, and the many other people on this topic who restated what you stated.
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I think its purely personal preference. I'm not sure about the whole "treat them better" reason because i have seen asian girls get with white guys and a lot end up with the asian girls getting dumped/hurt/torn. I don't know if that just happens in my area or in other places too. Looks count a lot too, again the diversity gives so much more possibilities that they want to try it out. Im an asian guy and i have seen both genders go the interracial way.

One thing i don't like about this is that a lot of boys in my high school are COMPLETE douchebags and treat girls like toys yet the get the best girls and leave us asian guys with just our otaku-selves. One day, i would like to see an asian girl prefer a not-that-good-looking asian guy than a douchebag-hot-white guy. But considering im talking about high school, it could never happen
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I gotta agree with this. Race actually does affect your appearance, so it is safe to say white boys are sexier than Asian boys.
Posted 6/22/11
dragon lady lololol
Posted 6/23/11
LOL. I'm Asian and I'm dating someone who's white.
I think you're a little too focused on the outside perspective here.
I forget our ethnicity and two-year age difference even exists like 99.9% of the time.
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sabzki wrote:

hmm well I'm a bit of a nerd so I'm gonna go with genetic diversity speel. Being attracted to another race opens up a whole new gene pool.


Well, diversifying the gene pool might be a legit factor.

I'm talking from a purely physical attraction standpoint here. And speaking as a white male, who finds Asian women very attractive.
There is no accounting for personal taste. As in, why do some people love skinny, chubby, blond, brunette, red haired, pale, tan, black.
Might be random, might be associating a specific trait with something from early in life.

Odd thing is, that it is generally accepted that like-attracts-like. In the sense that people are drawn towards people similar to themselves.
This would speak against interpersonal attraction between Caucasian and Asians.
But on the other hand, there seems to be (hence the post.) a portion of people who's nature seems to pull them in the opposite direction.

I live in a part of the world where the females are classically tall, blond and beautiful. And don't get me wrong, i find them attractive. But i have always been drawn more towards shorter females. You could then point towards skin color, yet, being tanned doesn't increase the attractiveness of the females here, to me. (And it is, to me. This is purely personal preference.)
My range even seems quite specific. It doesn't extend to an extra affinity for females of African ancestry. But does include other "tan" ethnic groups. Yet i don't think it's the skin color, but facial features that attract me.
One of the most beautiful girls i ever came across was half Colombian. And i seemed to find her disproportionately attractive to others in my circle.
There is nothing bigoted, or racist about finding some groups attractive, and some not. Like belief, attraction is involuntary.
I don't claim a female i am not attracted to, to have any less worth than one i am attracted to. If they fall outside my box of attraction, I'm sure a thousand other men are ready to jump in, call me a fool, and treat her like a queen.


I can't speak for the Asian women who fall in this category, but i could throw out a guess, that they are attracted to the more "rugged" look of Caucasian as opposed to Asian men. The, in general, more sturdy build and less effeminate facial features.
That they just happen to be attracted to features that doesn't show up as much in their local gene pool.


But fuck it, i might be completely off. Maybe it's a tiny sex demon in your brain. That upon birth, rolls a pair of dice, and determines what floats your boat later in life.
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