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Asian Girls and the White Guys Phenomenon
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Posted 6/23/11
If it's attraction to say Asians only for looks and the person spends all their Porn Time™ on Asian Porn then it could very well be a fetish.
Some guys just naturally have yellow fever...

Me I can't control myself around Gingers...
Posted 6/23/11



Well, diversifying the gene pool might be a legit factor.

I'm talking from a purely physical attraction standpoint here. And speaking as a white male, who finds Asian women very attractive.
There is no accounting for personal taste. As in, why do some people love skinny, chubby, blond, brunette, red haired, pale, tan, black.
Might be random, might be associating a specific trait with something from early in life.

Odd thing is, that it is generally accepted that like-attracts-like. In the sense that people are drawn towards people similar to themselves.
This would speak against interpersonal attraction between Caucasian and Asians.
But on the other hand, there seems to be (hence the post.) a portion of people who's nature seems to pull them in the opposite direction.

I live in a part of the world where the females are classically tall, blond and beautiful. And don't get me wrong, i find them attractive. But i have always been drawn more towards shorter females. You could then point towards skin color, yet, being tanned doesn't increase the attractiveness of the females here, to me. (And it is, to me. This is purely personal preference.)
My range even seems quite specific. It doesn't extend to an extra affinity for females of African ancestry. But does include other "tan" ethnic groups. Yet i don't think it's the skin color, but facial features that attract me.
One of the most beautiful girls i ever came across was half Colombian. And i seemed to find her disproportionately attractive to others in my circle.
There is nothing bigoted, or racist about finding some groups attractive, and some not. Like belief, attraction is involuntary.
I don't claim a female i am not attracted to, to have any less worth than one i am attracted to. If they fall outside my box of attraction, I'm sure a thousand other men are ready to jump in, call me a fool, and treat her like a queen.


I can't speak for the Asian women who fall in this category, but i could throw out a guess, that they are attracted to the more "rugged" look of Caucasian as opposed to Asian men. The, in general, more sturdy build and less effeminate facial features.
That they just happen to be attracted to features that doesn't show up as much in their local gene pool.


But fuck it, i might be completely off. Maybe it's a tiny sex demon in your brain. That upon birth, rolls a pair of dice, and determines what floats your boat later in life.


I definitely agree with this answer. It's really multiple traits a person might possess added to your own personal preference, and not so much their ethnic background. Saying you like a certain ethnicity is a lazy and less thought-out generalization of it.
Posted 6/24/11
Very well put, I like your answer a lot.
Posted 6/24/11
Oh yeah. Another reason is because I like the bikini shave.
Posted 6/24/11

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sabzki wrote:

hmm well I'm a bit of a nerd so I'm gonna go with genetic diversity speel. Being attracted to another race opens up a whole new gene pool.


I can't speak for the Asian women who fall in this category, but i could throw out a guess, that they are attracted to the more "rugged" look of Caucasian as opposed to Asian men. The, in general, more sturdy build and less effeminate facial features.
That they just happen to be attracted to features that doesn't show up as much in their local gene pool.

But fuck it, i might be completely off. Maybe it's a tiny sex demon in your brain. That upon birth, rolls a pair of dice, and determines what floats your boat later in life.


Asian women in pop culture typically bask in the fangirlism of femanine looking skinny guys who have been through a photoshop session or two. But that's not how it's always been...

Granted the picture of the oldschool guys may be a bit too ruggish. But I just about vomit when I see the girls to the right.

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Posted 6/24/11
U can go ask the Asian girl/White guy couples for ur answer. Im an Asian girl n i never ever dated white guys before and i do see a lot of couple that like that. TBH, I see a lot of cute white guys date ugly ass asian girls (no offense to anyone LOL).
Posted 6/24/11
Same as why white guys want Asian girl ass: exotic fun for the whole family.
Posted 6/24/11 , edited 6/24/11

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U can go ask the Asian girl/White guy couples for ur answer. Im an Asian girl n i never ever dated white guys before and i do see a lot of couple that like that. TBH, I see a lot of cute white guys date ugly ass asian girls (no offense to anyone LOL).


ROFL, not gonna lie, I've seen it too. But I'm definitely not against that at all.
To each their own.
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Posted 6/24/11
honestly i can't really explain it because i have dated every race except asian, but for some reason i find them more attractive. i have tried but most asian girls i have been around in school and around the world tend to stick in asian clicks which a white guy (this guy lol) can't get into.
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Posted 6/24/11
Phenomenon? sounds like someones jelly...
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Posted 6/24/11
I just wanted to say I agree with you. The irony in this is that I also in fact like a Caucasian male and I am an Asian female and that my cousin married a Caucasian man too.
I think its just something different from our culture and how they are different from what we usually see. I mean this is all from a personal view so please don't take any offense. Growing up in a generation with customs completely different from what your parents believed in does have an impact on it all too. Maybe liking them is a way to conform to a society that's different from home? I do generally find Caucasian men more attractive overall.
This comment is in no way to offend anyone as I mentioned previously and if it does I do apologize greatly. (I just get paranoid about how people react to my comments sometimes)
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Phenomenon? I don't think so, but mixed (Asian/Caucasian) children sure seem to have a fun life with the mixture of culture ;]

Back on topic, I for one am an asian female, and when I think of a white guy usually a tall handsome buff firefighter pops in my head, but I know it will be pretty awkward for my parents if I dated a white guy, so I stick with the asian fellas.
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Posted 6/24/11
well im half asian half mexican and i get hit on by white girls more then any other race then 2nd is asian..now that im thinking about it.lol but idk?i have some friends who always want to be with a asian but i have some who dont guess it depends on the person?
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Posted 6/25/11


Don't think there could be an answer that makes more sense than this one. I've heard guys talk about how since Asian men tend to have smaller penises so that Asian women have tighter vagina. I don't think this to be true because some those Asian babies come out like 15-20 pounds.

As for myself I'm a bit picky. Not too picky on looks anymore. As long as she is about my height. not terribly skinny, and maybe have cute bangs I'd be more than happy. Shit I'd be a lucky S.O.B. no one gets what they actually want.
Posted 7/23/11
Well my sister's currently going out with a white guy. I don't mind it.
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