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30 / M / Australia
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Posted 6/29/11
Cheating is cheating.

It doesn't matter if it is a girl or a guy.
There is clearly a lack of commitment if there is girl on girl action (a lot of guys are just idiots)

Now days there are so many gays, lesbians, bi-sexuals and straights that the excuse 'oh I was only experimenting' or 'It was just for fun' is complete hogwash.

But hey... if the guy doesn't care then good for the girl... I just hope the girl doesn't bounce back at the guy if they ever done the same thing back at them. (even if it is with another girl)... but we all know what girls are like and the guy will lose in the end lol
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if that happened to me i would dump the girl just the same. i don't like bisexual girls or lesbians or any homosexual thing. and cheating is cheating.
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I don't think it counts. In fact, I might join in.
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19 / F / Houston,Texas,U.S.A
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KleinerSkollexxx wrote:

I never understand why lesbians are so much more accepted than gays either, but that's just one of life's injustices.


I have never agreed with anyone more.
Let me ask you this, if you saw two girls holding hands, would you think that they were friends or lovers? Most likely friends. Now what if it was two guys?
Honestly, as a girl, if I ever did cheat on my boyfriend with a girl I would consider it cheating. And it would make sense if my boyfriend broke up with me. Why is it though, that lesbians are more accepted. How many times do you here people making fun of lesbians? Not much.
(I also want to say if my boyfriend cheated on me with a guy I would probably break up with him but as a yaoi fan I would still imagine what happend... )
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KleinerSkollexxx wrote:



I don't hate you :3


That's good to kno... All this time thought u hated my guts.

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Cheating is cheating no matter who it's done with. You should only be doing those things with someone who you're in a relationship with. I wouldn't think much of anyone who thought it was hot because their other half was cheating on them with someone of the same gender.
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No, I like messing though.
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But i would forgive him....as long as he could come up with a reasonable explanation...very TURN OFF at that moment thou

-Uhm ...but buut.....how come u had to keep your curiosities secret u jerk!!! .....when we are in bed i need to know is me u are thinkin of....k? lets assume u might be bi......so do u like girls or boys the most......is it just lust or u truly feel like u have a female heart ?UGHHH!!!....(crap is probably my fault 2 for only going out wit girly boys )

Is hard to put it in simple terms i guess....


at the same time i do have a crush on Michel Urie from Ugly Betty .....he happens to be gay i guess
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Chained_Angel wrote:

Scenario for girls:

You're in a relationship with a guy, and you kiss or sleep with a girl. Have you cheated in this case? Because guys seem to think girl on girl is "hot" and it doesn't really matter and are more likely to forgive you. However, if your man cheated on you with another man you'd be really shocked by it and probably dump him unless you're into Yaoi. Why is it more acceptable for girls to cheat with the same sex than guys?






Lol imo its really simple and

The girl your dating is hot and watching your hot girl making out with another hot girl = 2x the hottness. And of course possible chance of chance of doing two hot girls. I mean ... a lot of guys wouldn't pass up a perfectly good chance of having a threesome. :D

And I think its in genetics, that the man would forgive her because .. well the lady wouldn't get pregnant off another lady
Posted 6/29/11
to be honest I wouldnt be mad at all, if he cheats with a guy =P as long as I get to watch its all good this may sound strange but I just cant feel threatened by "another man" =P however if he cheats with another women his balls and dick are going on my wall as a trophie in my living room when Im done with him
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It's still cheating, doesn't matter if it's a man or woman.
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Juji_chan wrote:

to be honest I wouldnt be mad at all, if he cheats with a guy =P as long as I get to watch its all good this may sound strange but I just cant feel threatened by "another man" =P however if he cheats with another women his balls and dick are going on my wall as a trophie in my living room when Im done with him


Can you explain the difference in cheating for the man to get his balls cut off if it was a woman?
Lets just say it is safe sex with the woman as well (as a smart guy would head towards safe sex after all)

And you woulnd't be threatened? If you think a bi man won't leave a woman for another man... then you may need to get out doors a bit more.
Gay men usually try a lot harder to win someone over then a straight woman.
Feelings aren't always one sided to a certain sex, it is more of a personaility thing per person.

And on top of that.. an STI can be caught from males or females.
In the end if your partner is sleeping around, you may end up with a sexually transmitted desease.


Posted 6/29/11

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Juji_chan wrote:

to be honest I wouldnt be mad at all, if he cheats with a guy =P as long as I get to watch its all good this may sound strange but I just cant feel threatened by "another man" =P however if he cheats with another women his balls and dick are going on my wall as a trophie in my living room when Im done with him


Can you explain the difference in cheating for the man to get his balls cut off if it was a woman?
Lets just say it is safe sex with the woman as well (as a smart guy would head towards safe sex after all)

And you woulnd't be threatened? If you think a bi man won't leave a woman for another man... then you may need to get out doors a bit more.
Gay men usually try a lot harder to win someone over then a straight woman.
Feelings aren't always one sided to a certain sex, it is more of a personaility thing per person.

And on top of that.. an STI can be caught from males or females.
In the end if your partner is sleeping around, you may end up with a sexually transmitted desease.




if he were to leave me for the other man then I wont be as mad(yeah, I'd be hurt but not mad enough to almost hate) =P I dont know why but thats why way I feel.

for instance why dont I ever hear guys say they'd be mad if there girlfriend was kissing another girl? I ask alot of my guy friends how they'd feel and they all said the same thing, they wouldnt feel mad if it was another girl but if its another guy there will be problems =P for me its the same thing, I have never heard any guy say they'd feel jealous, insecure, or threatened by another female
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if he were to leave me for the other man then I wont be as mad(yeah, I'd be hurt but not mad enough to almost hate) =P I dont know why but thats why way I feel.

for instance why dont I ever hear guys say they'd be mad if there girlfriend was kissing another girl? I ask alot of my guy friends how they'd feel and they all said the same thing, they wouldnt feel mad if it was another girl but if its another guy there will be problems =P for me its the same thing, I have never heard any guy say they'd feel jealous, insecure, or threatened by another female


That's because most men haven't been dumped by a girl for another girl. They don't think it will happen to them, and they also think they might be able to score a 3some (which is unlikely for most men).
It is just plain dump ignorance that comes from guys.
If it was an open relationship then sweet that is fine as both parties are cool with it, but if it isn't then there is no difference in cheating.
If your boyfriend ever cheated on you with another guy, it would mean his feelings aren't that strong for you, and he doesn't have the commitment to hold your relationship together. It is the exact same if it was a girl.

In say all this though, the world is fucked, and everyone in it is as well.... so have fun but play safe... lol
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Cheating is cheating, but it's your personal choice to even regard what 'cheating' is to you. Like I dated a guy, who cheated on me with girls. I was way more pissed off than if he had cheated on me with another guy. Maybe it's just because I don't like women, in general. I barely like them sexual, and that's only if I ignore most personalities. I guess I'm bi because I have been with girls, but it wasn't a 'healthy relationship' lol
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