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Should Women Get Back In The Kitchen
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n_n303 wrote:

*hisses at magnus*
its unfair that woman have to do everything, would it kill for a husband to be a semi-house wife here and there?


no.
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Your_Typical_Friend wrote:

u know why u get paid more?? u sleep with ur bosses, u use ur weapons


thats not true and you know it. we use our brains and our talents to get that job...its when you men at home dont satisfy us that we are forced to use our weapons AFTER we get the job..


hahaha good one!! you tell em!!
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ya..it is unfair for woman to do lots of stuff and their husband comes home and go like" Im tired " and woman work more than guys because they have to take care of their childrens for like 24/7 .. and men just like works for like .. 5 hrs or 6 hrs..


I will have to disagree with you on this one, my mom doesn't work her children 24/7 and my dad works 14 hours a day and gets home and does the things around the house.
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ppl r free 2 do wat they want 2 do.makes sense 2 me..~
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i'm sorry, i just can't get over the title of the thread
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My dad cooks..actually he taught my mom how to cook. I'm more of a baker. But I can hold my own in the kitchen. I feel that its both the responsibility of parents to share the household chores to relive the stress off of each other. It takes two as a team, so whats the big deal with guys doing household chores? It won't make them any less of a man, it just means that he is marriage material. Shoot, my husband better be secure with himself, mentally and emotionally. Physically, it doesn't matter. The good Lord made men all different shapes and sizes.
The issue with women work is necessary thing. If the guy lost his job, the wife has to make up the difference.


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chocuqueen wrote:

ya..it is unfair for woman to do lots of stuff and their husband comes home and go like" Im tired " and woman work more than guys because they have to take care of their childrens for like 24/7 .. and men just like works for like .. 5 hrs or 6 hrs..


I will have to disagree with you on this one, my mom doesn't work her children 24/7 and my dad works 14 hours a day and gets home and does the things around the house.


then who took care of you when you're little..O_O?
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chocuqueen wrote:


siththomas wrote:


chocuqueen wrote:

ya..it is unfair for woman to do lots of stuff and their husband comes home and go like" Im tired " and woman work more than guys because they have to take care of their childrens for like 24/7 .. and men just like works for like .. 5 hrs or 6 hrs..


I will have to disagree with you on this one, my mom doesn't work her children 24/7 and my dad works 14 hours a day and gets home and does the things around the house.


then who took care of you when you're little..O_O?


Grandparents and I went to school.
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siththomas wrote:


chocuqueen wrote:


siththomas wrote:


chocuqueen wrote:

ya..it is unfair for woman to do lots of stuff and their husband comes home and go like" Im tired " and woman work more than guys because they have to take care of their childrens for like 24/7 .. and men just like works for like .. 5 hrs or 6 hrs..


I will have to disagree with you on this one, my mom doesn't work her children 24/7 and my dad works 14 hours a day and gets home and does the things around the house.


then who took care of you when you're little..O_O?


Grandparents and I went to school.


oh i see =]
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I'm pretty sure it's not that hard to split the job between the husband and the wife in a household. Even in a conservative type of household, men can still give time to take care of it even if they're working and the women taking on the job as a typical housewife. There are other households where the men take on the role of the traditional housewife while the women work. As far as I'm concerned, there is no need for a "return". Of course different cultures play a role in the the "duties" expected of members in a household whuch can have very different views.
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whats on the kitchen?!
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CrashAriMP5N2O wrote:

I'm pretty sure it's not that hard to split the job between the husband and the wife in a household. Even in a conservative type of household, men can still give time to take care of it even if they're working and the women taking on the job as a typical housewife. There are other households where the men take on the role of the traditional housewife while the women work. As far as I'm concerned, there is no need for a "return". Of course different cultures play a role in the the "duties" expected of members in a household whuch can have very different views.



I agree. Times change, we have to change with it.
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n_n303 wrote:


Your_Typical_Friend wrote:

u know why u get paid more?? u sleep with ur bosses, u use ur weapons


thats not true and you know it. we use our brains and our talents to get that job...its when you men at home dont satisfy us that we are forced to use our weapons AFTER we get the job..


I find this rather amusing so I'm going to put in something as well. I advice the men that "satisfaction" is not limited to sex. I've read a few more responses from n_n303 and with regards to those, if men can't play even a little bit of the "housewife role" you won't get around much. Not to mention she can deny you your desires. There will also be times when the women can't be present to take care of the household due to some circumstance and so that leaves the men to fill in the gap and without any kind of experience on simple "housewife" tasks, you guys are toast.
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haha, I've heard this one argued before... I work in news, and one day in the news room a reporter was having this debate with this guy. the guy said something.. and the women responded "Don't even go there.. dont' say it! Do I hear any man comign along going I'll take care of you, you don't have to work I'll give you all my money, no, the fact is no one's like that.. Who the hell wants to freakin work.. I don't want to freakin work, but I don't see any prince charming coming along taking care of all that....

I think it's true, nowadays if both parents airn't working then the faimly ain't happening... but food for thought.. most women are probabley thinkign like her.. "I don't want to freakin work...no prince charming coming along taking care of it all"

But my mom's one of those.. she's a hard worker and a good mom.. so men just quit bitching, and be grateful that women's got the hardest part taken care of, and that's delievering the baby..
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Your friend is just lazy... Household chores are way to easy than you think it is...
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if they want to they would they shouldnt have to do anything
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FUCK YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!......they should serve like the bitch that they are.
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Despite what is being said in this thread, I know that most girls that live in Asia (Korea at least) will end up doing most of the house chores and cooking. It's not a submissive thing but more of a tradition and norm. I'm positive that most girls in their 20s want to cook something for their future/current husbands and take care of them. And they want their husband to be a masculine guy who works hard to take care of the family. Women will work nowadays but, realistically, most Asian girls seem to entertain the idea as an ideal, loving marriage.

Plus, even among many animals, the female stays and protects/nurtures the offspring while the male hunter goes out to bring substinence back. <- I only mention this as scientific/historical data. Not my opinion on what women should do.
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