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How come guys always seem to apologize to girls
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Posted 10/26/11

edsamac wrote:

Because for some guys, it's easier to say "I'm sorry" than it is to actually understand the reason why the girl got angry at you in the first place. To a guy, "I'm sorry" is the end-all-be-all - but to a girl, it's just delaying an inevitable revisit of the same problem that caused you two to fight in the first place.

For some of them, it's extremely hard to make heads and tails of what's right and wrong around girls. For them, the girls got angry at them for no apparent reason, and, with some girls, this is very much the case.
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Because for some guys, it's easier to say "I'm sorry" than it is to actually understand the reason why the girl got angry at you in the first place. To a guy, "I'm sorry" is the end-all-be-all - but to a girl, it's just delaying an inevitable revisit of the same problem that caused you two to fight in the first place.

For some of them, it's extremely hard to make heads and tails of what's right and wrong around girls. For them, the girls got angry at them for no apparent reason, and, with some girls, this is very much the case.


Oh that's sounds like a fight.

Anyways, the fun part about it is... we know that we're right like the OP said, it's much easier for us to just let them actually find out that we're right. They might be crawling back to us (if you're lucky ) and you'll able to say "I told you so", plus next time that stuff came up they might not argue about it. It's a 50/50 chance but I'm willing to gamble for that.

And for me I know still gonna give up... cause I know in the end she's still gonna get what she wants .

EDIT:

Oh it is a fight. then I am wrong. I'm confused.
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Posted 10/26/11
it's simple.Guys don't like dramas so we just say sorry even thro we know we are right and move on.
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Posted 10/26/11
right, agreed , we boys dont like dramas and everything so we say sorry before we explode
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Posted 10/26/11
Agreed with the posters above me..

We hate dramas so we tend to end it before it goes out of control (by taking all the responsibilities like a man).. Besides if I want to force that I'm right, there wouldn't be a need to apologize as it will end there and then..
Posted 10/26/11
What drama? Sometimes the guys start the issue and then never solve it because they can't handle it = ='
Posted 12/23/11
this q is bs cuz i apologize waaaaaay more than my bf does. >,>
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Posted 12/23/11
Seriously what guys have you been hanging around with? Im usually the one who appologizes for bumping into a guy whe it wasnt my fault and clearly his.
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Posted 12/23/11

BlaculaKuchuki wrote:

There's a really good lesson that can be learned just by looking at some of the responses on this thread...

Guys...please notice...psychologically balanced girls do exist. Actually, there are plenty of them all over the place. Some of them just posted in this thread.

IF you find yourself apologizing all the time, when you really didn't do anything wrong, seriously...strongly consider moving to a relationship with someone a little less manipulative and a little more emotionally secure. You are reinforcing a pattern that will only get worse in the future.

You shouldn't be made to feel like you've done something wrong when you are really, honestly certain that you did no such thing. This is true for women, too -- some guys make women feel this general, constant sense of guilt, and they seem to enjoy making their girlfriends feel 'off-balance' mentally. That isn't cool either, and it won't get better.

In any relationship, one person is allowed the occasional moment of being a mental mess once in a while -- it can be diet, hormones, or bad things happening in their lives, so being understanding and even taking a little B.S. for the sake of the other person can be reasonable if that person is really having a hell of a day. But if it's a pattern, if you are always apologizing...get out of that mess.


Spot on.

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Posted 12/23/11
Guys are destined to say sorry for the rest of their lives. xD
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21 / M / Somewhat in Asia.
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Posted 12/23/11
We are destined to be slaves to our own lovers. Period.
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18 / M / boys locker room
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Posted 12/23/11
Not all guys do that, no need to mash me in with the rest of you heterosexual pussies.
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26 / M / Sheffield
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Posted 12/23/11
because i am inferior and i need putting in my place
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Posted 12/23/11
LOL, this thread made me remember this article

http://jezebel.com/5867378/i-am-so-not-sorry-about-my-vagina-and-other-apologies-we-should-retract
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Posted 12/23/11
LOLOL.
I'm the one who says sorry over like the dumbest shit.
"You're mumbling Dx lol." -Eric
"Sorry!!! (>~<)" -Me.
Lolololol.
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