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Is he interested or not?
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Posted 9/4/11
-He has a girlfriend, yet, everytime we're in the same classroom, he looks at me more thanat his friend.
-He completely grabbed my hand just to write something on it.
-He asked me if i wanted to be his girlfriend but, after i told him i knew he had a girlfriend, he said he was kidding and did to his friend too ~I know, sometimes it really is just kidding, but again, its SOMETIMES~

So tell me, whats up with him?
IF anybody and figure it out
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Posted 9/4/11 , edited 9/4/11
well sounds like the guy in question is looking for someone new. His relationship is probably on the rocks and he thinks that he can do better.
the grabbing your hand to write on it most likely just means that he's testing the waters with if your comfortable having him being in control.
With the asking if you would be his girlfriend he was looking to dump his current one if you would have said yes which you basically did.

Chances are that if you or any other girl were to go out with this person after saying yes to his question the same thing would happen to the next girl. whenever he would start to get bored of the girl he would start asking other people the would you be my girlfriend question and eventually if he got a bite would dump his current girlfriend for a new one.

so there are probably 1 of 2 things that are happening here.
1: he's wanting to become sexually active but the current girl isn't at the point he wants to be at and is looking for someone who might possibly be.
2: he's essentially bored with the current girl he's with and is trying to find a replacement without having a break in between.

either way the way that he's going about finding a new person is wrong and will most likely happen to the new girl when that person no longer interests him.
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Posted 9/4/11 , edited 9/4/11
In my humble opinion, you cannot trust him.

That said, lots of guys will flirt with anyone they find attractive. Don't think he is fishing just for you.
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Yeah I am so lost in what are guys thinking about. Although I don't think this guy is taking you seriously, he would already broke up with his gf then ask you out. I agree with what darament wrote, because guys are range with hormones. I like my classmate and he had a gf, and recently broke up with his gf. I still haven't tell him, because I don't want to rush things. I am unsure if he likes me or not. Most of the time, he is sweet to me, and other times he could be kind of mean. He would drive me home, if I need him to. Although He is nice to every one, I am lost about what to do.
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Posted 9/4/11

marticus42 wrote:

In my humble opinion, you cannot trust him.

That said, lots of guys will flirt with anyone they find attractive. Don't think he is fishing just for you.


haha not only guys, even some girls that I know are fishing around.
Posted 9/4/11 , edited 9/4/11
Walking hard-on, walking down that street lol... But seriously he probably wants to break up with his girlfriend soon and date someone else, but he wants to have a sure-fire plan so he still can get some... Meaning if you say yes to being his girlfriend in one of those "joking around" scenario then he would break up with his gf and start dating you.... But looking at this guy, once he gets bored with you you can expect to him to do the same with another girl.... If he was serious in wanting a relationship with you, he would break up with his gf and then try to hit on you... If not tell him to grow some balls and stop flirting
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Posted 9/4/11
He might be playing with you I know some guys and girls that are assholes and do stuff similar to that.
Posted 9/4/11
I like what Darament wrote. Beyond me just referring to him, I've nothing to say since what I wanted to say was summed up well by both him and Autumn_Dreamsicle.

It isn't much, but I hope this works out and makes everybody happy.
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23 / F / you will never know
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Posted 9/4/11
don't trust him just yet....
Posted 9/5/11
Put him through the test,

Ask him how many girls he talks too,

Ask him how committed he is to you,

Tell him you don't play games, and the you don't give 2nd chances, that will shake him enough to where he can't think straight....

YET!
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Posted 9/5/11
Go out with him just to obsess over every little action he does. It does wonders.
Posted 9/5/11
your overlooking it. or maybe its your gut telling you to just tell him how you really feel.
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24 / F / Under your skin.
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Posted 9/5/11
Is he hot?
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28 / F / kittens ♥
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Posted 9/5/11
no he is not, but you should have sex with him
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