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How can you detect a cheater?
Posted 9/6/11
In that there spoiler is a story that 90% true, it is still unknown rather or not the person in question really did something they shouldn't have, I will know tomorrow,



How can you tell if someone cheated? Have you ever caught a cheater? How did you? I'd love to know the answers.

And it'd put an end to this mystery.... The real question...

What's a sure fire way to tell if someone cheated?
Posted 9/6/11
Sounds like someone needs slapped down for stupidity and a lack of fidelity.

What's a sure fire way to tell if someone cheated?

Dunno. A lot of 'obvious' signs could actually be mistaken for independent living, or vice versa. A woman is allowed to hang out with a man, but unless you're following them I don't think you'd know for sure. The above story has several examples.

- A lack of confidant.
- Unwarranted hostility / a sudden refrain from affectation.
- Actively lying despite the other end knowing better.

In hindsight, I don't think you can detect a cheater unless you put them into a situation where they trip over their own lies. Which I have to admit, the story above does a round about way doing it.

Catching a cheater isn't all that hard long as you have empath skills, and manage to read subtle body language. A paranoia and fear of being cheated on can happen, though in all honesty most of the time I think men and women are warranted to these.

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When he calls you baby.
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Lauriet wrote:

Sounds like someone needs slapped down for stupidity and a lack of fidelity.

What's a sure fire way to tell if someone cheated?

Dunno. A lot of 'obvious' signs could actually be mistaken for independent living, or vice versa. A woman is allowed to hang out with a man, but unless you're following them I don't think you'd know for sure. The above story has several examples.

- A lack of confidant.
- Unwarranted hostility / a sudden refrain from affectation.
- Actively lying despite the other end knowing better.

In hindsight, I don't think you can detect a cheater unless you put them into a situation where they trip over their own lies. Which I have to admit, the story above does a round about way doing it.

Catching a cheater isn't all that hard long as you have empath skills, and manage to read subtle body language. A paranoia and fear of being cheated on can happen, though in all honesty most of the time I think men and women are warranted to these.



Huh, not all that personal, I mean sure I know the gal, but I don't know the gal... Get it?

I don't wanna make false accusations so I need all the help I can get, I'll confront her tomorrow....

*Inception Music*
Posted 9/6/11 , edited 9/7/11

Aero-Mach wrote:

Huh, not all that personal, I mean sure I know the gal, but I don't know the gal... Get it?

I don't wanna make false accusations so I need all the help I can get, I'll confront her tomorrow....

*Inception Music*


Unless you can get word from witnesses that have seen her with the other guy, I don't see much of a case against her. Neutrally aligned would be best so it wouldn't really seem biased in any way. Like helping out a friend, slandering her, et cetera.

I don't see much way around this. been thinking about it for a solid thirty minutes, I'd personally would ask around and see if that wouldn't make a difference. Though that's me and if you only have until tomorrow, I doubt you'd have much time to go that way.

Sorry, Aero. Not much help.
Posted 9/6/11 , edited 9/7/11

Lauriet wrote:


Unless you can get word from witnesses that have seen her with the other guy, I don't see much of a case against her. Neutrally aligned would be best so it wouldn't really seem biased in any way. Like helping out a friend, slandering her, et cetera.

I don't see much way around this. been thinking about it for a solid thirty minutes, I'd personally would ask around and see if that wouldn't make a difference. Though that's me and if you only have until tomorrow, I doubt you'd have much time to go that way.

Sorry, Aero. Not much help.


You don't see a case against her? Hmm, I see, her boyfriend doesn't either, but he has his suspicions, I was thinking about being aggressive and asking for her phone, or seeing it without her knowing.

But chances are the info is probably long gone,

I was really hoping getting some hindsight on this, but it looks like its completely hopeless, he asked me what I think, and I said I'd confront her after I find some "ammunition" and he said. "Go ahead, this relationship is doomed either way."

Thanks for your help, I'll figure out something by tomorrow, maybe someone else will post with some more helpful information.


I might as well bite the bullet tomorrow whenever they both come over and ask her and him straight out, because I don't have any hard knowledge of what exactly transpired.

Posted 9/6/11 , edited 9/7/11


Don't mean to be pessimistic, but I don't see much of the desired effect even if you manage your time and sleuth around. She's liable to blatantly lie to you either way, and I think asking might actually get a response from her that isn't suspicious or sounds like denial. I'd ask for a description of the guy, but I don't think it'd matter even if you painted me or anyone else a picture.

Good luck.
Posted 9/7/11
When you see them having sex with another person.
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Posted 9/7/11
There is no need to quote each other like that, and certainly not making chain quotes (against the forum rules).

I've cleaned up the unnecessary quotes, don't make it happen again.
Posted 9/7/11
When he's bought you a thong but you really can't recall that gift or why its on his floor.

Posted 9/7/11
When they start saying something and try to avoid ur eyez.....

Something fishy is up...
Posted 9/7/11

But you hear someone of the opposite sex in their room, you hear some sound that sounds like the phone is being taken by someone else, it goes silent for a bit, you hear tons of shuffling and they talk again. "I gotta go!" You hear them laughing very hard with the mystery person in their room.

By now it's pretty obvious.
Posted 9/7/11
You check if the chasity belt is tampered with
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Posted 9/7/11
When you realize you can't give them everything and something missing you'll know he/she is cheating on you to get that something to make them complete.. Also.. The usual other suspicious things and signs they show..
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Posted 9/7/11
When you go a couple days without seeing them in person.

The reason this makes sense is that they don't want to face you with the guilt they have.
Ultimately they distance themselves from you.
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