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If everyone deserves a 2nd chance, does it mean that we also have the freedom to waste the 1st one?
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Posted 9/13/11
if ev'ryone deserves a 2nd chance,does it mean that we also have the freedom to waste 1st one?
just wanna know what you guys think of it... because i think a bastard does not deserve any 2nd chances,.. once an asshole will always be an asshole.. hehehe no offense meant but i was just wondering... im a bitch and too proud of myself but why do i feel sorry for hurting someone who hurt me first? does he deserve 2nd chance? my friend keep telling me that everyone deserves 2nd chance, does it apply in relationships too?


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Posted 9/13/11 , edited 9/13/11
Not really, it all depends on the severity of what they do... Like for instance Osama and Hitler
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TheModernDayZombie wrote:

Not really, it all depends on the severity of what they do... Like for instance Osama and Hitler


I agree. Some things are so serious that no second chance should ever be given. You can't claim ignorance of the law for stuff like murder, rape, kidnapping, or other violence. Even if the perpetrator was abused, has mental problems, there are mitigating curcumstances, or whatever.
Posted 9/13/11
So can I kill someone and have my second chance pretty please?
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Yeah you can, as long as i get to pick who you kill
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We never know if we have a second chance, so why in hell would you be dumb enough at the start?
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Well...it depends on what type of second chance that you are talking bout......Specially when it comes to relationships.....It depends on how that person have hurt you....And if that person meant it when they hurt you.If you really love someone then it's always hard to give a 2nd chance as the amount you get hurt is even worst.But then again it's easy to forgive also cos you Love that person.But if they have cheated on you it's the worst thing to forgive.....I Love that saying "ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER" So then don't care & just forget & never look at that person back again....
But if it's a friend who has lied to you for a small reason or if they hurt you for something then it's ok to forgive & to give a second chance....But everyone does not deserve a 2nd chance.......
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I don't think a second chance will help. Maybe it does sometimes, but a person doesn't change just like that. They'd probably make the same mistake again.
Posted 9/13/11
Well Things happen for a reason.
Depends how bad it is.
You're talking about relationships...
Yes some people do deserve a second chance (If you know your mistakes)
If you keep making it, then its not a mistakes--Its a choice.
Just because he hurt you first, doesn't mean you can hurt him back.
If he hurts you, Ignore him. Act like you don't care.
Since you consider yourself a "Bitch", then you shouldn't even care because you're too proud of yourself.
Posted 9/13/11 , edited 9/13/11
A bitch is an evil and vile woman. Why would you want to call yourself that?

No, not all people deserve a second chance, since some offenses are just unforgivable.
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Second chances are for the weak.

Giving second chances in a relationship is a joke, for many reasons. Like, if it happens once, it will happen again, and it's far easier for someone to wear a mask than to change.. Also, odds are, there's almost a 100% chance of finding a better partner, there's a lot of people, not just in the world, but around you as well.
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Second chances can only be given by the one who was hurt. If the person is dead then......no. But those who commit vile crimes must be punished.
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I guess so. But it actually depends on what the cause was. Like if it was relationship-wise then of course... unless the person is an idiot, then I have no idea. For the people who killed many and has hurt others... then no. =/
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-SpiritedAway wrote:

We never know if we have a second chance, so why in hell would you be dumb enough at the start?


sometimes we make mistakes and the only way to make things right is to admit you've been wrong...
that's the time we needed the second chance.. to prove that we can change and be a better person.
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shiine_3000 wrote:

if ev'ryone deserves a 2nd chance,does it mean that we also have the freedom to waste 1st one?
just wanna know what you guys think of it... because i think a bastard does not deserve any 2nd chances,.. once an asshole will always be an asshole.. hehehe no offense meant but i was just wondering... im a bitch and too proud of myself but why do i feel sorry for hurting someone who hurt me first? does he deserve 2nd chance? my friend keep telling me that everyone deserves 2nd chance, does it apply in relationships too?


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Well whoever this guy is, sounds like your average typical AAA+ Asshole and as such better off finding someone else rather than giving them a second chance. Anyway if you do give them a second chance, what's to say it'll end up like it was before and before you know it, you enter in to something that is commonly called a "vicious circle."

Do yourself a favour and forget them, put it down to a bad experience, learn from it and find someone else. Also why feel sorry when as you put it "they hurt you first"?

Anyway as something that I've learned a very long time a go "giving someone a second chance is a total waste of time, not like they would ever learn from there mistakes first time around and would just repeat that mistake all over again."
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