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Posted 9/17/11
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Posted 9/18/11
Um okay how do I put this...

I recently broke up with someone and now I'm with someone else who I'm actually happier with. And weird thing is, ever since me and him started going out, my ex has been getting along better with the both of us. And just a week ago, my friend said that my ex still likes me, but I want us just to be friends. What am I supposed to do?
Posted 9/24/11

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Um okay how do I put this...

I recently broke up with someone and now I'm with someone else who I'm actually happier with. And weird thing is, ever since me and him started going out, my ex has been getting along better with the both of us. And just a week ago, my friend said that my ex still likes me, but I want us just to be friends. What am I supposed to do?


ooh, sounds tough. Maybe your friend misunderstood. I think you should wait until he shows obvious signs of liking you, and then confront him. Ex: you could tell him how much your friendship means to you, and hope he'll get the hint.
If he keeps it up:
Ignore it.
Act like one of those completely oblivious heroines in manga who can't tell when someone is crushing on them.
Talk about how much you love/like your boyfriend when he's nearby. (subtle is key, don't just bring up the subject everytime he's near.)
If your boyfriend gives you something on valentines day, show it to the ex. Ex:: Omg, he got me flowers! How romantic is that?

good luck!
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Posted 9/30/11

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Musicwolf16 wrote:

Um okay how do I put this...

I recently broke up with someone and now I'm with someone else who I'm actually happier with. And weird thing is, ever since me and him started going out, my ex has been getting along better with the both of us. And just a week ago, my friend said that my ex still likes me, but I want us just to be friends. What am I supposed to do?


ooh, sounds tough. Maybe your friend misunderstood. I think you should wait until he shows obvious signs of liking you, and then confront him. Ex: you could tell him how much your friendship means to you, and hope he'll get the hint.
If he keeps it up:
Ignore it.
Act like one of those completely oblivious heroines in manga who can't tell when someone is crushing on them.
Talk about how much you love/like your boyfriend when he's nearby. (subtle is key, don't just bring up the subject everytime he's near.)
If your boyfriend gives you something on valentines day, show it to the ex. Ex:: Omg, he got me flowers! How romantic is that?

good luck!
please invite all your friends as payment.


All right, thanks. You're an awesome friend :3 inviting my friends right now
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Posted 10/1/11
Ok so mine is a long story but I'll try to make it short . . . . I really need some help!

So there's this guy in my homeroom named Ben. We have been "friends" since last year and talk almost everyday. I try and try and TRY to give a hint a like him and for him to ask me out. The thing is I'm pretty sure he likes me and all, but you know... Not ONE HUNDERED percent sure. For example: He's sat next to me multiple times when he could have chosen to be with his friends and he always walks with me down to lunch so... I don't know what to do . . .
Posted 10/1/11

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Ok so mine is a long story but I'll try to make it short . . . . I really need some help!

So there's this guy in my homeroom named Ben. We have been "friends" since last year and talk almost everyday. I try and try and TRY to give a hint a like him and for him to ask me out. The thing is I'm pretty sure he likes me and all, but you know... Not ONE HUNDERED percent sure. For example: He's sat next to me multiple times when he could have chosen to be with his friends and he always walks with me down to lunch so... I don't know what to do . . .


Time will tell, young grasshopper. Be patient, and you will find out.

Oh, what the heck! I can't be patient at all! Okay, maybe you should get a friend to ask if he likes anyone. (It has to be a guy, or he might think the friend likes him.)
If this continues:
Ask him out to something friends would do., even if it's a date in your mind. (variation: ask him out on something friends would do, then make a convenient "accident" turn it into a date. Ex: Tell him you have tickets to the new comedy blockbuster, and when you get there.... Oh no! You accidentally got tickets to the new chick flick! Or, if Chick Flicks aren't your style, Tell him you and a bunch of friends are going to the mall, but don't invite the friends. Oh no! They couldn't make it!)
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Posted 10/1/11

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clueless-203 wrote:

Ok so mine is a long story but I'll try to make it short . . . . I really need some help!

So there's this guy in my homeroom named Ben. We have been "friends" since last year and talk almost everyday. I try and try and TRY to give a hint a like him and for him to ask me out. The thing is I'm pretty sure he likes me and all, but you know... Not ONE HUNDERED percent sure. For example: He's sat next to me multiple times when he could have chosen to be with his friends and he always walks with me down to lunch so... I don't know what to do . . .


Time will tell, young grasshopper. Be patient, and you will find out.

Oh, what the heck! I can't be patient at all! Okay, maybe you should get a friend to ask if he likes anyone. (It has to be a guy, or he might think the friend likes him.)
If this continues:
Ask him out to something friends would do., even if it's a date in your mind. (variation: ask him out on something friends would do, then make a convenient "accident" turn it into a date. Ex: Tell him you have tickets to the new comedy blockbuster, and when you get there.... Oh no! You accidentally got tickets to the new chick flick! Or, if Chick Flicks aren't your style, Tell him you and a bunch of friends are going to the mall, but don't invite the friends. Oh no! They couldn't make it!)


Haha lol ok ok i will try it... thanks so much
Posted 10/1/11

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ew82076 wrote:


clueless-203 wrote:

Ok so mine is a long story but I'll try to make it short . . . . I really need some help!

So there's this guy in my homeroom named Ben. We have been "friends" since last year and talk almost everyday. I try and try and TRY to give a hint a like him and for him to ask me out. The thing is I'm pretty sure he likes me and all, but you know... Not ONE HUNDERED percent sure. For example: He's sat next to me multiple times when he could have chosen to be with his friends and he always walks with me down to lunch so... I don't know what to do . . .


Time will tell, young grasshopper. Be patient, and you will find out.

Oh, what the heck! I can't be patient at all! Okay, maybe you should get a friend to ask if he likes anyone. (It has to be a guy, or he might think the friend likes him.)
If this continues:
Ask him out to something friends would do., even if it's a date in your mind. (variation: ask him out on something friends would do, then make a convenient "accident" turn it into a date. Ex: Tell him you have tickets to the new comedy blockbuster, and when you get there.... Oh no! You accidentally got tickets to the new chick flick! Or, if Chick Flicks aren't your style, Tell him you and a bunch of friends are going to the mall, but don't invite the friends. Oh no! They couldn't make it!)


Haha lol ok ok i will try it... thanks so much :)


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Posted 10/1/11
ok mine is soo complicated :sigh: how do i put this in the most simplest way....
ok i started a friendship with this dude i met.... his super clumsy, stubborn and persistant... but he always lends me a hand when i need it and such. we go to the same summer camp and clubs, but we both leave really far like we only see each other at camp or talk through the phone. so now it has been 4 years since ive known him (he hasnt changed at all) and my cabin partner told me that he has a crush on me! she bluffs and lies and messes with people alot so i didnt pay any attention, then she said she was going to prove it. people say his been acting wierd around me and everybody else agrees with her.. id notice it! idont notice if he acts wierd or not. now i feel like that emotionless character in mangas that dont realize someone has a crush on them :(... and im starting to have feelings for him but since he lives like really far and we dont see each other every other summer im not sure about starting a relationship... ahhh im soo confused and have no idea what to do!!! help
Posted 10/1/11

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ok mine is soo complicated :sigh: how do i put this in the most simplest way....
ok i started a friendship with this dude i met.... his super clumsy, stubborn and persistant... but he always lends me a hand when i need it and such. we go to the same summer camp and clubs, but we both leave really far like we only see each other at camp or talk through the phone. so now it has been 4 years since ive known him (he hasnt changed at all) and my cabin partner told me that he has a crush on me! she bluffs and lies and messes with people alot so i didnt pay any attention, then she said she was going to prove it. people say his been acting wierd around me and everybody else agrees with her.. id notice it! idont notice if he acts wierd or not. now i feel like that emotionless character in mangas that dont realize someone has a crush on them :(... and im starting to have feelings for him but since he lives like really far and we dont see each other every other summer im not sure about starting a relationship... ahhh im soo confused and have no idea what to do!!! help


You're lucky.... to at least have a chance to see the one you like/love, to know exactly when you can see him again.

Okay, take this chance. You cannot let this go to waste, since there are so many bad things that could happen in this situation. When do you go to camp again? How far away does he live?
First of all....
Ignore what the joking friend said. The only thing that matters is your feelings(because if you show up all hyper like "Is it true that you like me?!", you may be mistaken and run into embarrassment.) Tell him you like him, THEN worry about whether he likes you back.
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Posted 10/1/11

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iheartinuyasha wrote:

ok mine is soo complicated :sigh: how do i put this in the most simplest way....
ok i started a friendship with this dude i met.... his super clumsy, stubborn and persistant... but he always lends me a hand when i need it and such. we go to the same summer camp and clubs, but we both leave really far like we only see each other at camp or talk through the phone. so now it has been 4 years since ive known him (he hasnt changed at all) and my cabin partner told me that he has a crush on me! she bluffs and lies and messes with people alot so i didnt pay any attention, then she said she was going to prove it. people say his been acting wierd around me and everybody else agrees with her.. id notice it! idont notice if he acts wierd or not. now i feel like that emotionless character in mangas that dont realize someone has a crush on them :(... and im starting to have feelings for him but since he lives like really far and we dont see each other every other summer im not sure about starting a relationship... ahhh im soo confused and have no idea what to do!!! help


You're lucky.... to at least have a chance to see the one you like/love, to know exactly when you can see him again.

Okay, take this chance. You cannot let this go to waste, since there are so many bad things that could happen in this situation. When do you go to camp again? How far away does he live?
First of all....
Ignore what the joking friend said. The only thing that matters is your feelings(because if you show up all hyper like "Is it true that you like me?!", you may be mistaken and run into embarrassment.) Tell him you like him, THEN worry about whether he likes you back.


YEAH I WOULDNT DO THAT TO HIM HE WOULD FREAK OUT IF I TOLD HIM THAT...... AND YEAH I WILL IGNORE HER... UMMM TALK TO HIM ONLINE ALL THE TIME, WE TALK ON THE PHONE, I GO TO CAMP ON SUMMERS AND SOON IN WINTER BREAK ALSO WE PLAN TO SEE EACH OTHER LIKE GO TO THE MOVIES ON SPRING BREAK OR SOOO BUT......I HAVENT TOLD HIME YET....... ALL THIS PLANS I THINK HE STILL THINKS ARE AS A FRIEND AND SUCH.... SO I HAVE NO IDEA HOW IM GOING TO TELL HIM... AND I DONT WANT TO TELL HIM THROUGH THE PHONE OR SUCH I THINK THIS THINGS ARE FOR PERSON TO PERSON YOU KNOW AND THANKS BY THE WAY
Posted 10/1/11

iheartinuyasha wrote:


ew82076 wrote:


iheartinuyasha wrote:

ok mine is soo complicated :sigh: how do i put this in the most simplest way....
ok i started a friendship with this dude i met.... his super clumsy, stubborn and persistant... but he always lends me a hand when i need it and such. we go to the same summer camp and clubs, but we both leave really far like we only see each other at camp or talk through the phone. so now it has been 4 years since ive known him (he hasnt changed at all) and my cabin partner told me that he has a crush on me! she bluffs and lies and messes with people alot so i didnt pay any attention, then she said she was going to prove it. people say his been acting wierd around me and everybody else agrees with her.. id notice it! idont notice if he acts wierd or not. now i feel like that emotionless character in mangas that dont realize someone has a crush on them :(... and im starting to have feelings for him but since he lives like really far and we dont see each other every other summer im not sure about starting a relationship... ahhh im soo confused and have no idea what to do!!! help


You're lucky.... to at least have a chance to see the one you like/love, to know exactly when you can see him again.

Okay, take this chance. You cannot let this go to waste, since there are so many bad things that could happen in this situation. When do you go to camp again? How far away does he live?
First of all....
Ignore what the joking friend said. The only thing that matters is your feelings(because if you show up all hyper like "Is it true that you like me?!", you may be mistaken and run into embarrassment.) Tell him you like him, THEN worry about whether he likes you back.


YEAH I WOULDNT DO THAT TO HIM HE WOULD FREAK OUT IF I TOLD HIM THAT...... AND YEAH I WILL IGNORE HER... UMMM TALK TO HIM ONLINE ALL THE TIME, WE TALK ON THE PHONE, I GO TO CAMP ON SUMMERS AND SOON IN WINTER BREAK ALSO WE PLAN TO SEE EACH OTHER LIKE GO TO THE MOVIES ON SPRING BREAK OR SOOO BUT......I HAVENT TOLD HIME YET....... ALL THIS PLANS I THINK HE STILL THINKS ARE AS A FRIEND AND SUCH.... SO I HAVE NO IDEA HOW IM GOING TO TELL HIM... AND I DONT WANT TO TELL HIM THROUGH THE PHONE OR SUCH I THINK THIS THINGS ARE FOR PERSON TO PERSON YOU KNOW AND THANKS BY THE WAY


Well, there's no other way. Of course he's going to freak out. The thing is, you have just the right span of time between meetings so if it fails, it won't be awkward cuz time will heal it. If it works, he'll remember because it won't be that long. Just go for it!

Oh, and please don't use caps lock next time you right back. IT MAKES IT SEEM LIKE YOU'RE ANGRY AT ME. (you aren't, right?)
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Posted 10/2/11

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iheartinuyasha wrote:


ew82076 wrote:


iheartinuyasha wrote:

ok mine is soo complicated :sigh: how do i put this in the most simplest way....
ok i started a friendship with this dude i met.... his super clumsy, stubborn and persistant... but he always lends me a hand when i need it and such. we go to the same summer camp and clubs, but we both leave really far like we only see each other at camp or talk through the phone. so now it has been 4 years since ive known him (he hasnt changed at all) and my cabin partner told me that he has a crush on me! she bluffs and lies and messes with people alot so i didnt pay any attention, then she said she was going to prove it. people say his been acting wierd around me and everybody else agrees with her.. id notice it! idont notice if he acts wierd or not. now i feel like that emotionless character in mangas that dont realize someone has a crush on them :(... and im starting to have feelings for him but since he lives like really far and we dont see each other every other summer im not sure about starting a relationship... ahhh im soo confused and have no idea what to do!!! help


You're lucky.... to at least have a chance to see the one you like/love, to know exactly when you can see him again.

Okay, take this chance. You cannot let this go to waste, since there are so many bad things that could happen in this situation. When do you go to camp again? How far away does he live?
First of all....
Ignore what the joking friend said. The only thing that matters is your feelings(because if you show up all hyper like "Is it true that you like me?!", you may be mistaken and run into embarrassment.) Tell him you like him, THEN worry about whether he likes you back.


YEAH I WOULDNT DO THAT TO HIM HE WOULD FREAK OUT IF I TOLD HIM THAT...... AND YEAH I WILL IGNORE HER... UMMM TALK TO HIM ONLINE ALL THE TIME, WE TALK ON THE PHONE, I GO TO CAMP ON SUMMERS AND SOON IN WINTER BREAK ALSO WE PLAN TO SEE EACH OTHER LIKE GO TO THE MOVIES ON SPRING BREAK OR SOOO BUT......I HAVENT TOLD HIME YET....... ALL THIS PLANS I THINK HE STILL THINKS ARE AS A FRIEND AND SUCH.... SO I HAVE NO IDEA HOW IM GOING TO TELL HIM... AND I DONT WANT TO TELL HIM THROUGH THE PHONE OR SUCH I THINK THIS THINGS ARE FOR PERSON TO PERSON YOU KNOW AND THANKS BY THE WAY


Well, there's no other way. Of course he's going to freak out. The thing is, you have just the right span of time between meetings so if it fails, it won't be awkward cuz time will heal it. If it works, he'll remember because it won't be that long. Just go for it!

Oh, and please don't use caps lock next time you right back. IT MAKES IT SEEM LIKE YOU'RE ANGRY AT ME. (you aren't, right?)


oh no!!!!! i couldnt possibly be mad at the person thats helping me!!!!!! its just the way i write you see now i feel akward writting in lower case and yeah that makes sense... well ill give it a try thanks
Posted 10/2/11

iheartinuyasha wrote:


ew82076 wrote:


iheartinuyasha wrote:


ew82076 wrote:


iheartinuyasha wrote:

ok mine is soo complicated :sigh: how do i put this in the most simplest way....
ok i started a friendship with this dude i met.... his super clumsy, stubborn and persistant... but he always lends me a hand when i need it and such. we go to the same summer camp and clubs, but we both leave really far like we only see each other at camp or talk through the phone. so now it has been 4 years since ive known him (he hasnt changed at all) and my cabin partner told me that he has a crush on me! she bluffs and lies and messes with people alot so i didnt pay any attention, then she said she was going to prove it. people say his been acting wierd around me and everybody else agrees with her.. id notice it! idont notice if he acts wierd or not. now i feel like that emotionless character in mangas that dont realize someone has a crush on them :(... and im starting to have feelings for him but since he lives like really far and we dont see each other every other summer im not sure about starting a relationship... ahhh im soo confused and have no idea what to do!!! help


You're lucky.... to at least have a chance to see the one you like/love, to know exactly when you can see him again.

Okay, take this chance. You cannot let this go to waste, since there are so many bad things that could happen in this situation. When do you go to camp again? How far away does he live?
First of all....
Ignore what the joking friend said. The only thing that matters is your feelings(because if you show up all hyper like "Is it true that you like me?!", you may be mistaken and run into embarrassment.) Tell him you like him, THEN worry about whether he likes you back.


YEAH I WOULDNT DO THAT TO HIM HE WOULD FREAK OUT IF I TOLD HIM THAT...... AND YEAH I WILL IGNORE HER... UMMM TALK TO HIM ONLINE ALL THE TIME, WE TALK ON THE PHONE, I GO TO CAMP ON SUMMERS AND SOON IN WINTER BREAK ALSO WE PLAN TO SEE EACH OTHER LIKE GO TO THE MOVIES ON SPRING BREAK OR SOOO BUT......I HAVENT TOLD HIME YET....... ALL THIS PLANS I THINK HE STILL THINKS ARE AS A FRIEND AND SUCH.... SO I HAVE NO IDEA HOW IM GOING TO TELL HIM... AND I DONT WANT TO TELL HIM THROUGH THE PHONE OR SUCH I THINK THIS THINGS ARE FOR PERSON TO PERSON YOU KNOW AND THANKS BY THE WAY


Well, there's no other way. Of course he's going to freak out. The thing is, you have just the right span of time between meetings so if it fails, it won't be awkward cuz time will heal it. If it works, he'll remember because it won't be that long. Just go for it!

Oh, and please don't use caps lock next time you right back. IT MAKES IT SEEM LIKE YOU'RE ANGRY AT ME. (you aren't, right?)


oh no!!!!! i couldnt possibly be mad at the person thats helping me!!!!!! its just the way i write you see now i feel akward writting in lower case and yeah that makes sense... well ill give it a try thanks


that's good, I was worried you didn't like the advice.
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Ok i'm stuck

This 8 year old Has a crush on me and i said yes to get him off my back how do i let him down easy?
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