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Posted 10/21/11 , edited 10/21/11

tiatulip44 wrote:

Ok i'm stuck

This 8 year old Has a crush on me and i said yes to get him off my back how do i let him down easy?


How often do you see him? Is it possible that he might be joking? Does he get crushes often? Is there anyone YOU like currently?
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Posted 10/21/11

ew82076 wrote:


tiatulip44 wrote:

Ok i'm stuck

This 8 year old Has a crush on me and i said yes to get him off my back how do i let him down easy?


How often do you see him? Is it possible that he might be joking? Does he get crushes often? Is there anyone YOU like currently?

One or Twice a week,NO he has curshed one my sister,and two of my friend.A Offen,Mabye.

Posted 10/21/11 , edited 10/24/11

tiatulip44 wrote:


ew82076 wrote:


tiatulip44 wrote:

Ok i'm stuck

This 8 year old Has a crush on me and i said yes to get him off my back how do i let him down easy?


How often do you see him? Is it possible that he might be joking? Does he get crushes often? Is there anyone YOU like currently?

One or Twice a week,NO he has curshed one my sister,and two of my friend.A Offen,Mabye.



Okay, I'm going to go over all your possible options:
Convince him to like someone else
Avoid him
Figure out what he likes about you and change it
pretend he is talking about friendship.
And now for the hardest one.
Be honest and respect his feelings. Tell him you are very flattered, but you don't like him in that way.

If you like said advice, please invite all your friends.
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Posted 11/11/11 , edited 11/11/11
I like this girl who was like a child hood friend to me. I just feel comfortable when I'm just with her or when I talk to her. I think she likes me back. But if I ask her out my parents would kill me because they don't want me dating anyone like one of those parents who want their kids to have an arranged marriage.
My questions are:
How do I know if she likes me?
Should i tell her how I feel?
How should I ask her out?
If she says yes how do hide this secret from my parents?

Can someone with the answers to these pm me cause my brother uses my cr account sometimes and I don't want him to know I like someone cause he will literally kick my ass trying to find out. Pms are just more private and I'll be able to read it within the week it is sent.
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Okay... well... here's the story...

I'm in a relationship with this guy... and quite frankly I don't want to anymore. He's suffocating me, and quite frankly, I can't sleep at night because I can't feel love anymore. I would just like to be friends, however, this guy has been through so much relational torment I'd hate to give him more and stop being his girlfriend. I don't want to be anyone's girl anymore... but... I don't want to hurt him... what do I do? I'm trying my hardest... to make sure I don't hurt his feelings.
Posted 11/29/11 , edited 11/29/11

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Okay... well... here's the story...

I'm in a relationship with this guy... and quite frankly I don't want to anymore. He's suffocating me, and quite frankly, I can't sleep at night because I can't feel love anymore. I would just like to be friends, however, this guy has been through so much relational torment I'd hate to give him more and stop being his girlfriend. I don't want to be anyone's girl anymore... but... I don't want to hurt him... what do I do? I'm trying my hardest... to make sure I don't hurt his feelings.


How is he suffocating you? What kind of relational torment is it? You'll be staying near him afterward as friends, so he shouldn't be hurt by it. Make sure he knows you don't want to date anyone
Promise to be friends
Keep in touch as often as you would if you were still dating
so he doesn't get hurt.
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Well...I like (possibly to the point of love) this guy who is a school year older than me. He moved up to high school and Im still at the lower grade school. He volenteers at my school after school sometimes n i rly wanna tell him I at least like him but I cant get any time alone with him...i dont know when Il see him next. sometimes he comes for a week n doesnt come back for a mounth. I find myself thnking more n more about him, having dreams about him and just yearning to see him n when he leaves I get dsappointed..
How do I tell him?
How can I tell if he likes me back?
Is this love?
Posted 12/30/11 , edited 12/30/11

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Well...I like (possibly to the point of love) this guy who is a school year older than me. He moved up to high school and Im still at the lower grade school. He volenteers at my school after school sometimes n i rly wanna tell him I at least like him but I cant get any time alone with him...i dont know when Il see him next. sometimes he comes for a week n doesnt come back for a mounth. I find myself thnking more n more about him, having dreams about him and just yearning to see him n when he leaves I get dsappointed..
How do I tell him?
How can I tell if he likes me back?
Is this love?


I don't think you should tell him until you've gotten closer to him.
Does he treat you differently than he treats other girls? Is he more casual around you?
Only you can figure that out.
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Posted 1/2/12

ew82076 wrote:


Sukii-Yami wrote:

Well...I like (possibly to the point of love) this guy who is a school year older than me. He moved up to high school and Im still at the lower grade school. He volenteers at my school after school sometimes n i rly wanna tell him I at least like him but I cant get any time alone with him...i dont know when Il see him next. sometimes he comes for a week n doesnt come back for a mounth. I find myself thnking more n more about him, having dreams about him and just yearning to see him n when he leaves I get dsappointed..
How do I tell him?
How can I tell if he likes me back?
Is this love?


I don't think you should tell him until you've gotten closer to him.
Does he treat you differently than he treats other girls? Is he more casual around you?
Only you can figure that out.


He's always glancing at me and turns away when I look back...but he seems more nervous around me than anything
Posted 1/2/12

Sukii-Yami wrote:


ew82076 wrote:


Sukii-Yami wrote:

Well...I like (possibly to the point of love) this guy who is a school year older than me. He moved up to high school and Im still at the lower grade school. He volenteers at my school after school sometimes n i rly wanna tell him I at least like him but I cant get any time alone with him...i dont know when Il see him next. sometimes he comes for a week n doesnt come back for a mounth. I find myself thnking more n more about him, having dreams about him and just yearning to see him n when he leaves I get dsappointed..
How do I tell him?
How can I tell if he likes me back?
Is this love?


I don't think you should tell him until you've gotten closer to him.
Does he treat you differently than he treats other girls? Is he more casual around you?
Only you can figure that out.


He's always glancing at me and turns away when I look back...but he seems more nervous around me than anything


Aw, it's so cute!
Okay, try to be around him as often as you can. Don't follow him, just try to get in situations where you're together.
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Posted 1/2/12

ew82076 wrote:


Sukii-Yami wrote:


ew82076 wrote:


Sukii-Yami wrote:

Well...I like (possibly to the point of love) this guy who is a school year older than me. He moved up to high school and Im still at the lower grade school. He volenteers at my school after school sometimes n i rly wanna tell him I at least like him but I cant get any time alone with him...i dont know when Il see him next. sometimes he comes for a week n doesnt come back for a mounth. I find myself thnking more n more about him, having dreams about him and just yearning to see him n when he leaves I get dsappointed..
How do I tell him?
How can I tell if he likes me back?
Is this love?


I don't think you should tell him until you've gotten closer to him.
Does he treat you differently than he treats other girls? Is he more casual around you?
Only you can figure that out.


He's always glancing at me and turns away when I look back...but he seems more nervous around me than anything


Aw, it's so cute!
Okay, try to be around him as often as you can. Don't follow him, just try to get in situations where you're together.


Ok Ill try that. I trust you. Thanks for ur help.Ill invite my friends now.
Posted 1/2/12

Sukii-Yami wrote:


ew82076 wrote:


Sukii-Yami wrote:


ew82076 wrote:


Sukii-Yami wrote:

Well...I like (possibly to the point of love) this guy who is a school year older than me. He moved up to high school and Im still at the lower grade school. He volenteers at my school after school sometimes n i rly wanna tell him I at least like him but I cant get any time alone with him...i dont know when Il see him next. sometimes he comes for a week n doesnt come back for a mounth. I find myself thnking more n more about him, having dreams about him and just yearning to see him n when he leaves I get dsappointed..
How do I tell him?
How can I tell if he likes me back?
Is this love?


I don't think you should tell him until you've gotten closer to him.
Does he treat you differently than he treats other girls? Is he more casual around you?
Only you can figure that out.


He's always glancing at me and turns away when I look back...but he seems more nervous around me than anything


Aw, it's so cute!
Okay, try to be around him as often as you can. Don't follow him, just try to get in situations where you're together.


Ok Ill try that. I trust you. Thanks for ur help.Ill invite my friends now.


Thanks, good luck!
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I've sort of have many problems... I hope it is not too much trouble to ask about them all at once.


My first problem involves a girl I just met, she seems really nice and I think she might really be into me... however I rarely see her and we don't talk much on the internet. She has my phone number but never texts me and we only seem to interact affectionately when we are alone in a friend's house. She's allowed me to take a nap while resting my head on her shoulders, sometimes she'll playfully stroke my hair and other times she'll tickle me. I am thinking that this is just a little crush that is mutual between us and may not advance further if I pursued her.


My second problem involves the friend who's house I hang out at with the girl I just mentioned. She's a really neat girl and I see her more often than the girl I just mentioned... I found myself falling for her when we were alone at a convention over new years. She and I have a lot in common and I protected her from some perverts who tried to take advantage of her while she was asleep. I don't think she likes me the same way I like her, but she never exactly said no to me when I asked her out to go see a movie. Again, I think this might just be a crush and might ruin my friendship.


My third problem involves an ex... well she's more of a childhood friend, but I treat her like an ex because of the feelings that bloomed. I started off as a bully to this girl when we were in middle school, as we got into high school I started noticing that she was extremely beautiful and kind... she even forgave me for my cruelty in middle school. We became really good friends and even became inseparable as the years progressed... unfortunately when I was about to graduate from high school, she moved away before I could confess my feelings. We kept in touch for a long time and eventually we tried a long distance relationship... it didn't last. She visited me over the summer last year and we tried to rekindle our relationship, but we could not keep the flame lit. When she left to return home and go back for college, i never got to say goodbye properly... though the day before she left we had some "personal time". I am still not over her, but I haven't heard from her since she left... in fact it feels like she just vanished off the planet.


My last problem involves a friend's ex... I recently started developing feelings for her because I worry that the guy she might start seeing was the cause of her breakup with my friend. She's very nice to me and treats me like a brother, we don't get to talk very often because the guy she might be seeing tends to keep her busy and tells my friend and I that we are wasting our time and that she is "his now". I don't want to hurt my friend, but I need to get his ex away from this guy who I feel is only after her because he thinks he can control her... I know this guy insulted and put down my friend constantly in order to try and steal his girlfriend. I'm not in love with this girl, but I could grow to love her considering the respect I feel for her as she tells me that I'm a good person... she does not know that I like her
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I've sort of have many problems... I hope it is not too much trouble to ask about them all at once.


My first problem involves a girl I just met, she seems really nice and I think she might really be into me... however I rarely see her and we don't talk much on the internet. She has my phone number but never texts me and we only seem to interact affectionately when we are alone in a friend's house. She's allowed me to take a nap while resting my head on her shoulders, sometimes she'll playfully stroke my hair and other times she'll tickle me. I am thinking that this is just a little crush that is mutual between us and may not advance further if I pursued her.


My second problem involves the friend who's house I hang out at with the girl I just mentioned. She's a really neat girl and I see her more often than the girl I just mentioned... I found myself falling for her when we were alone at a convention over new years. She and I have a lot in common and I protected her from some perverts who tried to take advantage of her while she was asleep. I don't think she likes me the same way I like her, but she never exactly said no to me when I asked her out to go see a movie. Again, I think this might just be a crush and might ruin my friendship.


My third problem involves an ex... well she's more of a childhood friend, but I treat her like an ex because of the feelings that bloomed. I started off as a bully to this girl when we were in middle school, as we got into high school I started noticing that she was extremely beautiful and kind... she even forgave me for my cruelty in middle school. We became really good friends and even became inseparable as the years progressed... unfortunately when I was about to graduate from high school, she moved away before I could confess my feelings. We kept in touch for a long time and eventually we tried a long distance relationship... it didn't last. She visited me over the summer last year and we tried to rekindle our relationship, but we could not keep the flame lit. When she left to return home and go back for college, i never got to say goodbye properly... though the day before she left we had some "personal time". I am still not over her, but I haven't heard from her since she left... in fact it feels like she just vanished off the planet.


My last problem involves a friend's ex... I recently started developing feelings for her because I worry that the guy she might start seeing was the cause of her breakup with my friend. She's very nice to me and treats me like a brother, we don't get to talk very often because the guy she might be seeing tends to keep her busy and tells my friend and I that we are wasting our time and that she is "his now". I don't want to hurt my friend, but I need to get his ex away from this guy who I feel is only after her because he thinks he can control her... I know this guy insulted and put down my friend constantly in order to try and steal his girlfriend. I'm not in love with this girl, but I could grow to love her considering the respect I feel for her as she tells me that I'm a good person... she does not know that I like her


okay, calm down and step back. You need to live your life away from all these girls for a while. If your thoughts are riddled with only one girl during that time period, go for her. If they all occur to your mind, check back with me. I suggest girl #2, but it's your choice.
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Posted 2/11/12
My thoughts are still scattered... I think less of girl number four, but I'm still confused about girls one and two. They are really good friends and I don't want to be a two-timer if they both decide they like me... Girl three is still heavily on my mind, because of how close we were and how much she still means to me despite being pretty much gone.
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