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how do you MOVE ON??
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Posted 9/29/11
I have not told my crush how I feel about him, because I think he does not like me. I keep running away from him, when I see him. I barely talk to him now, and I try to distant myself from him. I still like him, although I only want him to be happy. Even though I would not be with him, I do not want to be his burden. He makes my heart beat faster, and he makes me have butterflies in my stomach. ^ - ^ I would continued to love him, although I don't expect to anything back from him.
Posted 9/29/11
Hmm.. hang out with friends
Posted 9/29/11

Lauriet wrote:


chrome_mist wrote:


Make him feel jealous, angry, guilty and sad.
Ruin his life.

When that's finally over,
go get another guy.




"and the trend of you scaring the piss out of me continues".



hmm.. make guilty first and and jealous at the end.
Posted 9/29/11
Go express with art. ;p
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Posted 9/29/11
It won't be much fun or exciting but, as others have suggested, roll with the punch, feel miserable and crummy (aka grieving process), pick up the pieces of your heart that are left and re-establish the bonds with your friends. It takes about as long to pull through the misery of loss as the relationship/friendship lasted initially. With time the pangs of loss will sting less and less. Meet new people. Do things, go places with friends, family.

If you do meet someone new (and exciting, etc) try not to sob and moan about the love that got away (unless you're dating your therapist) when you are with them. Too much sadness upfront drives the new potentials away as he/she wants to get to know you, not the one that got away. It also sets you up for future rejection as some folks are pragmatic enough in initial contacts re time management (getting to know you) and emotion investment (can you really get serious with me or am I just filler until your -ex comes to her/his senses re the breakup and wishes to start fresh again). People that matter won't expect you to bounce back 100% right away but in fairness to their feelings you can't offer just 50% of your real self because the other 50% is languishing in the depths of depression over the recent loss.

I've been in situations where I could've dated the sister as an alternative. It's best to do that if both you and the sister live 800 miles away from your ex-. Otherwise it's the old adage about setting yourself up....like living in a house next door to your parents.
Posted 9/29/11

NyuBoom wrote:


Lauriet wrote:


chrome_mist wrote:


Make him feel jealous, angry, guilty and sad.
Ruin his life.

When that's finally over,
go get another guy.




"and the trend of you scaring the piss out of me continues".



hmm.. make guilty first and and jealous at the end.


Sounds sexy.
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Posted 9/29/11 , edited 9/29/11
on feet? ^^ yeah, I know...
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Posted 9/30/11


Throw all your worries on God. ^-^
Posted 9/30/11
you just have to. there's no backwards way to do it.
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Posted 10/1/11
Once you realize, then you accept, you move on with time.
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Posted 10/1/11
if you feel like crying then cry let go of all the pain you felt,t's normal to feel angry with that person because your hurting, but life must go on, time heals all wound..........
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Posted 10/1/11
eat lots of ice cream and listen to lots of music until you feel better ^_^
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Posted 10/1/11

scarycatsscaringcats wrote:

how do you move on with a break-up or being dumped by your crush??


The best way2 get over some1 is 2get under some1 else! I know, shame on me!! But it usually works4 a little while!
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Well, I'd rape her, go rob a bank, and run for the rest of mah life. Don't forget to bring along your whips and your chains!!
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InfiniteWhiplash wrote:

Well, I'd rape her, go rob a bank, and run for the rest of mah life. Don't forget to bring along your whips and your chains!!


You're a lesbian? Rofl.
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