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Whats your right age to start SERIOUS dating?
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Posted 12/17/11
I think it depends much less on the individual and more on the situation that the participants in the relationship are in. I'm not going to say that having a job is a lot like being married, but it enforces elements of compromise and maturity in a person. A serious relationship implies building a life together and building a life requires money and attention, so, even if you have a couple that is great together, if the situation doesn't promote a healthy relationship, then it just isn't going to happen. I mean, the the military for example, many of the people in the military are mature people who really know about making sacrifices and toughing things out for the people they love. Yet, the military has a terrible divorce rate. Why? The situation just doesn't promote a healthy relationship.
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Posted 12/17/11
15 and above of course... maybe 14 but definitely 13 and below would be too young to understand true love so yeah.
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lmao good question. depends. ive seen a lot of dudes and girls whose first "love" screwed them over. from then on it seem their relationships have a pattern. Im sorry but there are double standards (sorry ) i would honestly let my son date when he's 14. my daughter, like 18 min. lol!
i know its fucked up and it will prob come back to bite me in the ass, but i really hope i only have son's. id be to worried about my daughter all the time lol cause i know how guys are

Posted 1/5/12
The age when you know right from wrong and will follow through with it.
Posted 1/6/12
16- olds in relationships walking around like they know shit about it annoys me.


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Hairbelly wrote:

Don't get serious with anyone until you're 27. If you live to see 28, then do as you please.


This.
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Posted 1/11/12
At 25 I would like it to be. But the craving for happiness is to great. And at the same time the craving for the opposite sex is even greater. You often make mistakes at a young age. I have.
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Posted 2/15/12
Well, it's hard to tell...
You have to be mature both in your chronological and mental age...
That way, you can start dating...:)
That's my opinion though..:D
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Posted 2/16/12
When you know what it means to have a relationship and the responsibility that comes along with it without basing it on sex.

For me, it was age late into being 14 and early being 15. However, I have not received the definite okay from my mommy about it. Nor have I found anyone who wants to date. It's a win-win situation I guess, lol.


But, yeah, when someone can handle a relationship and not base it on sex is what I think.
Posted 2/17/12
average should be 25, gives you just about the right time to learn from previous relationships, you'll notice most people settle down and have kids in their early 30's. as I get older i'm noticing more friends having weddings and baby showers
Posted 2/19/12
Maybe when you're in your twenties..?
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Posted 2/20/12
i'd say around the time where you finish high school.. or a little after because you'll know for sure that it isn't just a high school fling and you're exposed to more..' options' and experiences
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Posted 2/28/12
I think it really depends on the people in the relationship.
Everyone matures at different rates and I don't think we should be judging other peoples' relationships stating whether they're "serious" or not.

Just my opinion (:
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Posted 2/28/12

xXGintamaXx wrote:

When you know what it means to have a relationship and the responsibility that comes along with it without basing it on sex.

For me, it was age late into being 14 and early being 15. However, I have not received the definite okay from my mommy about it. Nor have I found anyone who wants to date. It's a win-win situation I guess, lol.


But, yeah, when someone can handle a relationship and not base it on sex is what I think.


How do you know if you can have a serious relationship without basing it on sex if you've never had one?
I'm very, very confused..


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Posted 2/29/12

bigpapapurpz wrote:

lmao good question. depends. ive seen a lot of dudes and girls whose first "love" screwed them over. from then on it seem their relationships have a pattern. Im sorry but there are double standards (sorry ) i would honestly let my son date when he's 14. my daughter, like 18 min. lol!
i know its fucked up and it will prob come back to bite me in the ass, but i really hope i only have son's. id be to worried about my daughter all the time lol cause i know how guys are




Some girls are the most scandalous though!!!!!
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