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Nice Guys Finish Last, A-holes Finish First
Posted 10/10/11 , edited 10/10/11

FlyinDumpling wrote:

Nice guys eventually become desperate guys


Unfortunately what you said is one of the many flaws as a result from being in the race for a long time. One other flaw being their lack of experience.

Anyway,

Finishing last isn't a bad thing overall, because when you finish the race you won't take your prize for granted. I'm still racing and I'm fucking exhausted.
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I have walked both paths....
When I was a teen I was a nice guy & a wuss. I spent a lot of time alone until I was 17.
I decided to remake myself. This was very hard to do. Now I had dates with 2 - 4 girls a week. Not one a barker

To this day I don't understand girls who fall for these jerks and I was one. In my 20's I married a hot crazy bitch.
After the marriage the "crazy" really came out. A few years later we split up.
I didn't go back to being a jerk since I've mellowed and matured.
Now I was able to be a gentleman who was confident in my life.

This worked pretty well, but most of the girls in their 30's were crazy after a split up or looking for the next hubby.
After this insanity I took a break and wasn't looking for anyone.
I ran accross a girl who wasn't looking either. We were a perfect match.
We got married 18 months later and are still in love. Without looking, I found my soul-mate.
ITS BEEN A GRAND 25 YEARS. TRUE LOVE CAN STILL BE FOUND
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Posted 10/10/11
This thread in SA summed it up nicely.
Posted 10/10/11

Kamek20XX wrote:



lol I know. I read your post, but most jackasses have too much confidence and think that they can get any type of women they want, particularly in any kind of way. I seen many fools like that, but the jackasses I'm implying and the ones you are implying might be totally different...........I'm not wrong, am I?


Well, you're probably right, we're viewing two different sides of the same coin. I guess in a sense we're both correct, even if it's just a little bit. There's two types of jackasses: The type who hurt people because they enjoy it, and the type that hurt people because they know they can do it.

Posted 10/10/11


Yeah...D&D, Card games, video games, collecting cheap half-naked plastic figurines...

Lots of hobbies!
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astrodome wrote:

This thread in SA summed it up nicely.


That was a good read. See, now, I thought I was classified as a nice guy for two reasons really - I take whatever comes my way with a smile, and my relationship rule of thumb is "honesty is the best policy" and the golden rule: do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Reading that made me realize I'm just an ordinary boring guy lol, and that nice guys are fucking sociopaths! They're manipulative, spiteful, cruel, dishonest, and outright frightening to be around. I am pretty confident that I've dated the female version of the nice guy, and I can understand completely why women shove nice guys straight into the friend zone.
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Posted 10/10/11
Women are masochists, they like being roughly handled. Smack her around a few times and she's yours.
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I has come to my attention that white girls in general are a bit touched in the head. Every white girl I have ever dated (and I dated a number of them) have either been loony or bitchy, or both.

I'd date other "races", but I'm nearly 100% convinced that I am not attractive to girls. Im not ugly, but Im not hot either.

Yeah, anyway... Id date an asian or a black girl, or a middle-eastern southeast asian girl... but I think I had my fill of white girls. lol


ummm... what were we talking about..?
Posted 10/10/11
nice guys worry too much. a lot of girls still go for nice guys. you just have to find the right ones. don't worry about finishing last, what matters is that you finished.
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Posted 10/10/11
Um. Maybe? Yes? No? Who knows..... I'll figure it out once I've got my world domination in check....
Posted 10/10/11
There is a difference between assholes, which usually are insecure, and confident men. Whom are secure and much happier with themselves. Women are in this case, absolute fucking morons. Good for the jerks and assholes, because they feed off of stupid people.

I have two bits of advice. Be happy, and be secure. The mistakes you made yesterday will either be solved by you today or by the you tomorrow. People can hold it against you, but whether or not you let yourself live it down is more important. The hard part is letting yourself be happy. Everyone deserves afew chances at it, so be happy.
Posted 10/10/11

Dave1004 wrote:



Yeah...D&D, Card games, video games, collecting cheap half-naked plastic figurines...

Lots of hobbies!


To get back on topic, there are some of what we call "alpha males" that delve into the geeky. They too appreciate entertainment of the likes we do aside from wooing the females.

And the figurines can be rather expensive.
Posted 10/10/11

kitsuneshoujo wrote:

I has come to my attention that white girls in general are a bit touched in the head. Every white girl I have ever dated (and I dated a number of them) have either been loony or bitchy, or both.

I'd date other "races", but I'm nearly 100% convinced that I am not attractive to girls. Im not ugly, but Im not hot either.

Yeah, anyway... Id date an asian or a black girl, or a middle-eastern southeast asian girl... but I think I had my fill of white girls. lol


ummm... what were we talking about..?


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We're talking about what people think about the saying, which is the title of this topic. You just said what type of women you want to date........mister.
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Posted 10/10/11
I agree. Both sexes tend to judge the opposite as an attraction. Can't lie to yourself if you were to just say that you like him/her because of how they are. there has to be a physically connection.
yeah, I'm a nice guy and i fit its stereotype. But i'm not complaining because i have the gf ive been looking for and my successes shows i didnt finish last...I raised the bar.
Posted 10/10/11
Why do nice guys complain so much? And when you call them out why they're complaining, they turn NOT so nice?

Who gives a flying fuck?

Why do "Nice" guys think their lives revolve around girls? If you can't find a nice girl, maybe it's time to stop looking? Don't look, and no they won't come to you,

There's nothing wrong with a solitary life, girlfriend/wives are more of a liability rather than an asset.
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