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Posted 10/17/11

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His absurd amount of happiness in that picture has made my already dull day even worse.
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I'm still young and I still don't understand a lot of things.I saw an article about scientists identifying love as a disease.I'm not even sure if love is as pure as everyone says.I don't know what love really is,but I think I've felt it before and I know I love my family(well,most of them).
But sometimes,I think to myself:
"You can't always have love,sometimes you're born in the wrong place,the wrong time.So you'll spend another lifetime searching,then maybe when you do find love,you can be with them forever,no pain,no tears,just spend your time in you're own paradise"
I do believe that we get born again into another life again and again until we find true love and correct our mistakes.So I think you should just go with the flow,don't give up,and if you're exhausted trying to find it,don't go searching for it and be desperate just go through life and enjoy it,and maybe you'll accidentally find love.You can spend you're other lifetime finding that person and maybe you'll be born in the right time and right place.
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Posted 10/17/11

justanotherguy_2005 wrote:


Starbrite101 wrote:








His absurd amount of happiness in that picture has made my already dull day even worse.



awwwwwesommeeeeee sauceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
Posted 10/17/11

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Aero-Mach wrote:


Starbrite101 wrote:

if you give up VYOOUUU VAAAREEE VWEAAAAK.

that is all /o/


There's nothing wrong with being weak right?

Love just doesn't work out the same way for everyone, your love life is probably fantastic.

But some of us have much less fortunate love lives...



oh no sir there is never anything wrong with being weak ,it is giving up that is wrong.
no actually my love life started off terribly bc my heart was torn into pieces and now i await for the next person to come.


*Tilts head*

Don't a lot of people give up?

I mean, don't you agree?

Being in a relationship just makes you vulnerable, why would you willingly give someone the potential to hurt you? A LOT?

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Posted 10/17/11

Aero-Mach wrote:


Starbrite101 wrote:


Aero-Mach wrote:


Starbrite101 wrote:

if you give up VYOOUUU VAAAREEE VWEAAAAK.

that is all /o/


There's nothing wrong with being weak right?

Love just doesn't work out the same way for everyone, your love life is probably fantastic.

But some of us have much less fortunate love lives...



oh no sir there is never anything wrong with being weak ,it is giving up that is wrong.
no actually my love life started off terribly bc my heart was torn into pieces and now i await for the next person to come.


*Tilts head*

Don't a lot of people give up?

I mean, don't you agree?

Being in a relationship just makes you vulnerable, why would you willingly give someone the potential to hurt you? A LOT?



IT ONLY MAKES YOUR STRONGAAAAAAR.
Posted 10/17/11

IT ONLY MAKES YOUR STRONGAAAAAAR.




*Slams hands down on my recently appearing desk*

I've never seen ANYONE stronger after love!

*Bunch of noise in the courtroom*

Judge. "Well, Miss Starbrite, do you have any objections?"
Posted 10/17/11
Walking outside gives people the opportunity and potential to hurt you. Not in the same way of course but people do countless things that make them vulnerable in all kinds of ways but we still do them anyway. If you are really too worried about getting hurt then just sign up for disability pay crawl into a bubble and have people cater to all your needs so you never have to leave it. Even then you won't be entirely safe but it might at least make you feel a bit safer.
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Walking outside gives people the opportunity and potential to hurt you. Not in the same way of course but people do countless things that make them vulnerable in all kinds of ways but we still do them anyway. If you are really too worried about getting hurt then just sign up for disability pay crawl into a bubble and have people cater to all your needs so you never have to leave it. Even then you won't be entirely safe but it might at least make you feel a bit safer.




You're very smart, but you left an opening in the comment you just made.

Walking outside does give the opportunity to hurt you, physically.

What do people do to make themselves emotionally vulnerable?

What all kinds of things? Well Guy?



Posted 10/17/11
If you talk to any person for any length of time you give them quite a lot of information about yourself unless you are very strict and censor it thoroughly. If they had the mind for it they could easily just keep track of various bits of information and later use it in whatever way necessary to make subtle or blatant attacks on a person. Of course I don't mean physical attacks either. I myself like to observe the people I talk to daily very closely so that I have ammo for when it is needed.
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IT ONLY MAKES YOUR STRONGAAAAAAR.




*Slams hands down on my recently appearing desk*

I've never seen ANYONE stronger after love!

*Bunch of noise in the courtroom*

Judge. "Well, Miss Starbrite, do you have any objections?"


yes. it's made me stronger lol. i can carry 100 pound weights nowz.
jk ._. erm it has though bc now i am more cautious and protective of my heart, which does not necessarily mean i give up on love but that with my past experienes i won't make the same mistake.
Posted 10/17/11

justanotherguy_2005 wrote:

If you talk to any person for any length of time you give them quite a lot of information about yourself unless you are very strict and censor it thoroughly. If they had the mind for it they could easily just keep track of various bits of information and later use it in whatever way necessary to make subtle or blatant attacks on a person. Of course I don't mean physical attacks either. I myself like to observe the people I talk to daily very closely so that I have ammo for when it is needed.




Is this guy serious? That was a nice comeback but maybe he thinks too much...

Heh, Can I take that back? I seem to have messed up a bit....

Anyway, I said why would you give someone that power!

You don't intentionally open yourself up in a conversation, but you do in a relationship! If you're not vulnerable in a relationship, you don't truly love each other! Correct?



(Nice to see you have a bit of a playful side :P)


Posted 10/17/11

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justanotherguy_2005 wrote:

If you talk to any person for any length of time you give them quite a lot of information about yourself unless you are very strict and censor it thoroughly. If they had the mind for it they could easily just keep track of various bits of information and later use it in whatever way necessary to make subtle or blatant attacks on a person. Of course I don't mean physical attacks either. I myself like to observe the people I talk to daily very closely so that I have ammo for when it is needed.




Is this guy serious? That was a nice comeback but maybe he thinks too much...

Heh, Can I take that back? I seem to have messed up a bit....

Anyway, I said why would you give someone that power!

You don't intentionally open yourself up in a conversation, but you do in a relationship! If you're not vulnerable in a relationship, you don't truly love each other! Correct?



(Nice to see you have a bit of a playful side :P)




I don't know if I really agree with the requirement of being vulnerable to be in love. I have been in love before but all the while I had it in the back of my head to keep plans for when things go south. I chose every word I spoke carefully while at the same time doing and saying everything anyone else in a relationship would say and do. It allowed me to just sit back and smile when things really did end because I was ready for it and fine with it. I guess one could argue that it failed because I wasn't fully into it but at the same time I really believe I was. I don't think any side would really be able to win in that specific debate. If you yourself believe that you need to be vulnerable to truly be in love then you have really set your own.....limitations that you would have to abide by which you don't seem to feel comfortable with. Not sure if that really answered your question though.
Posted 10/17/11

I don't know if I really agree with the requirement of being vulnerable to be in love. I have been in love before but all the while I had it in the back of my head to keep plans for when things go south. I chose every word I spoke carefully while at the same time doing and saying everything anyone else in a relationship would say and do. It allowed me to just sit back and smile when things really did end because I was ready for it and fine with it. I guess one could argue that it failed because I wasn't fully into it but at the same time I really believe I was. I don't think any side would really be able to win in that specific debate. If you yourself believe that you need to be vulnerable to truly be in love then you have really set your own.....limitations that you would have to abide by which you don't seem to feel comfortable with. Not sure if that really answered your question though.




He's 50/50? Dang, you think he'd fully agree with me, I better think of something else.

Whenever you're in love, you're supposed to let them into your heart right? And when they're in, they have the potential to hurt you, or when you give them your heart, they are free to take a knife to it.

But when they love you, they don't, they treat it like gently and with care....

What does he mean? when things go south? That means he put a lock on his love and she only got the artificial flavors and he kept the organic love to himself.

I think one arm was around her and the other arm was reaching for the doorknob in case she flipped.

I'll wait until he says something else.....


Judge. "Well, Mister Mach, do you have any objections?"

No, I'll wait until he makes further claims.
Posted 10/17/11

Aero-Mach wrote:


I don't know if I really agree with the requirement of being vulnerable to be in love. I have been in love before but all the while I had it in the back of my head to keep plans for when things go south. I chose every word I spoke carefully while at the same time doing and saying everything anyone else in a relationship would say and do. It allowed me to just sit back and smile when things really did end because I was ready for it and fine with it. I guess one could argue that it failed because I wasn't fully into it but at the same time I really believe I was. I don't think any side would really be able to win in that specific debate. If you yourself believe that you need to be vulnerable to truly be in love then you have really set your own.....limitations that you would have to abide by which you don't seem to feel comfortable with. Not sure if that really answered your question though.




He's 50/50? Dang, you think he'd fully agree with me, I better think of something else.

Whenever you're in love, you're supposed to let them into your heart right? And when they're in, they have the potential to hurt you, or when you give them your heart, they are free to take a knife to it.

But when they love you, they don't, they treat it like gently and with care....

What does he mean? when things go south? That means he put a lock on his love and she only got the artificial flavors and he kept the organic love to himself.

I think one arm was around her and the other arm was reaching for the doorknob in case she flipped.

I'll wait until he says something else.....


Judge. "Well, Mister Mach, do you have any objections?"

No, I'll wait until he makes further claims.


I suppose that is one way to put it. I prefer to see it as the love is real and the person is fully embraced but at any time I am free to walk out that door with a smile. Many will say it is fake but it is real enough to me so it fits my personality just fine. Have to say that did make me laugh reading that. I will say this though, even with what I just said there is room to bend the rules. I don't mind letting a few vulnerabilities slip when they are needed. When required I will pick and choose the least harmful ones while making sure I get equal or better vulnerabilities of theirs in return. I can be completely fine and content if a relationship ends with each side on equal footing.
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