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She's too cool for you.
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Hi! I have a bit of a crush on a girl at my school, and I think at least she has noticed me looking at her sometimes. Every time I look, she catches my eye. I'm however insecure about asking her out or something. She looks kinda tough, which I think I like most about her. She looks like a person who likes to party with her friends a lot. I am not really a party animal -.- OK? I party with my friends, and we usually go to the club. Now when I'm about to graduate we have a lot of parties ahead of us. Okay, I'm loosing myself here...

I think I could ask her out, but I somehow feel insecure... What if she thinks I'm lame? XD I am a bit afraid of being vulnerable. I mean I am on crunchy roll! I am not really the type of person who brags too much about my interest of anime/manga.
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DO IT XD
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Good advise so far.
Posted 10/18/11 , edited 10/18/11
Don't be a coward. Talk to her! I would kill for the opportunity to do so! (I know exactly zero females IRL as I go to an all-boys school) If you fail, don't dwell on it, and improve yourself. Don't take the presence of girls for granted!
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Cod-of-War wrote:

Don't be a coward. Talk to her! I would kill for the opportunity to do so! (I know exactly zero females IRL as I go to an all-boys school) If you fail, don't dwell on it, and improve yourself. Don't take the presence of girls for granted!


Yes, you are right... I never take the chance when I have it.
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hey, wait too long, and some other guy might snatch her up...Who knows, if she keeps looking at ya, she might be feeling the same way as you feel about her.Be brave, overcome this fear of being judged, you seem like a cool guy, anyway.
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CobaltRain wrote:

hey, wait too long, and some other guy might snatch her up...Who knows, if she keeps looking at ya, she might be feeling the same way as you feel about her.Be brave, overcome this fear of being judged, you seem like a cool guy, anyway.


Woah! Thanks man!
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I am listening to Mozart right now. Who does that?! I bet she must be listening to... I don't know, something hardcore.
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haha, opposites attract, i dont mean to spam up this thread, but seriously, go talk to her.Get her phone number so u can listen to her voice instead LOL
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All of the above. Yes, that includes: "Woah! Thanks man!"

You should just go for it, although at the moment you sound like a complete pushover, (I determined that from your other posts as well) and if she's as "tough" as you say she is, you may end up listening to "Self Esteem" by The Offspring for hours on end.
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CarboKill wrote:

All of the above. Yes, that includes: "Woah! Thanks man!"

You should just go for it, although at the moment you sound like a complete pushover, (I determined that from your other posts as well) and if she's as "tough" as you say she is, you may end up listening to "Self Esteem" by The Offspring for hours on end.


I don't like offspring that much... Herp derp.
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Big_A wrote:


CarboKill wrote:

All of the above. Yes, that includes: "Woah! Thanks man!"

You should just go for it, although at the moment you sound like a complete pushover, (I determined that from your other posts as well) and if she's as "tough" as you say she is, you may end up listening to "Self Esteem" by The Offspring for hours on end.


I don't like offspring that much... Herp derp.


Oh, that herp derp sounded spiteful. And it seemed that way because all you mentioned was the song. You're the crappy butthurt type who dislikes constructive criticism, I guess.
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Posted 10/18/11

CarboKill wrote:


Big_A wrote:


CarboKill wrote:

All of the above. Yes, that includes: "Woah! Thanks man!"

You should just go for it, although at the moment you sound like a complete pushover, (I determined that from your other posts as well) and if she's as "tough" as you say she is, you may end up listening to "Self Esteem" by The Offspring for hours on end.


I don't like offspring that much... Herp derp.


Oh, that herp derp sounded spiteful. And it seemed that way because all you mentioned was the song. You're the crappy butthurt type who dislikes constructive criticism, I guess.


Yes
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Me too.
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Posted 10/18/11 , edited 10/18/11
What you need to do is leave a bigger impression on her. If you don't quite want to ask her out right away then at least chat with her. It doesn't have to be anything complicated, just walk up to her in between classes or something and say "Hey, hows it going?" or Try to start a constructive conversation that the two of you can build off of. Maybe even try to strike one of her interests. If you say she is someone who likes to party then bring up a club or a party event. Just remember that this is not who you are, and leaving false impressions is never a good thing when starting a relationship. An example of a constructive conversation would be like, "Don't you think Ms. Thompson has been giving us a little bit too much homework lately? I was planning on going to ... club tonight, but It is going to make finishing all of this assignment a pain." Now if you stike something that she likes, she might reply something such as "Oh ... club, that is a fun place. I usually go there a couple times a month." Next thing you know you are chatting about clubs and you have a possible date location.

Just remember that talking is a normal thing to do and you shouldn't stress over it. Once you get to know her a little bit more then ask her out. If you choose to not talk to her though, then the only thing she will know about you, is that the two of you cross eyes a lot. Now if she is interested in you and you start talking to her, then it will make it that much easier to ask her out because in the back of her mind she might realize you are interested in her. This is just my two cents.
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