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What is a good age to have Sex?
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when you are married
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21 / F / boku no hero univ...
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any age older than mine. I'm old-fashioned like that
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Interesting comments. I'm a medical doctor and people tell me lots of things - I've seen lots of people think they did it too soon, especially girls who started under 16, but I kind of think it is sad to see people in their twenties who haven't enjoyed it yet.

The best answer to the question "when do you think the right age for you to have sex?" was from a 13-14 year old boy who said "whenever I can find a girl who will let me"

That aside - there are lots of things people can do short of intercourse and I think they should explore those things whenever it becomes of interest - but they should start with someone around the same age whom they can trust.
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Nyarth wrote:

There is no definite age when it's "good" to have sex, it all varies to person to person as with growth and the beginning of puberty. Even if the "law" at this time states that you have to be over the age 16/18 to legally have sexual intercourse; that's just a matter of justification of the fact that you are considered as an "adult", therefore you are "mature" enough to throw your virginity away. It all just comes to the generations of governments, law makers and religious cults etc that influences everyone's opinions - and opinionate that you have be over a certain age to do it, if not then you are "classified" as a peadophile and looked down upon society (just because it conflicts with everyone's opinions and views on the right age to have sex).

tl;dr, whenever your body is ready.


I agree with your sentiments, though I will mention that there are additional laws that work in favor of some younger couples (specifically, look up "Romeo and Juliet laws") in order to supplement what you have mentioned regarding the Statutory age limit.


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Interesting comments. I'm a medical doctor and people tell me lots of things - I've seen lots of people think they did it too soon, especially girls who started under 16, but I kind of think it is sad to see people in their twenties who haven't enjoyed it yet.

The best answer to the question "when do you think the right age for you to have sex?" was from a 13-14 year old boy who said "whenever I can find a girl who will let me"

That aside - there are lots of things people can do short of intercourse and I think they should explore those things whenever it becomes of interest - but they should start with someone around the same age whom they can trust.


As with the above, I agree with your sentiments. I just feel sad, now, because of what you said regarding people in their twenties.
Posted 10/28/11
Its a simple question, how the trash and drivel turn this into a complex question is beyond me.

As for the answer, its whenever you're mentally mature enough. An adult, not some horny teenager or some lass being peer pressured because every friend you have is a slut in sheep clothing.
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If you have masturbated and have succesfully had an orgasm than I assume you're interested in it.

Thinking of anyone under 15 doing the dirty....is well dirty but it happens. In my middle school there were 3 15yr old pregnancies.
Hopefully those that choose to do it so young at least consider using some kind of birth control beforehand....if you don't like condoms either gtfover it or use those little egg-shaped or listerine-strip sort of contraceptives for fucks sake. Otherwise you're screwing your parents, if they're nice enough to deal with it properly, as much as you're screwing your partner at the time.

20, though......? Fuck, that seems a little silly. : /

Depends how you and the other person feel in the end. Take proper precautions, either way, because if not plan on dealing with that person for the rest of your life
Posted 11/16/11
when i'm married. no one these days knows how to do that. >.<
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I first had sex at 13... I don't regret it, but I wouldn't recommend it. Younger kids are more inclined to make poor decisions regarding sex, namely with birth control, so it's generally a better idea to wait until slightly older so you can make wiser decisions.
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Girls : 18
Guys: 21
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Whenever the *($@$@)& you want, good lord these @$*(&@ threads.
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can you put an age on it? long as your both willing and your not hurting anyone and uh... ill stop now...
Posted 11/17/11
14 and up. Just use protection. Lost mine at 14 so I'm kinda biased haha.
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She was 19 I was 16.......

Really though maturity level would be the most important factor IMO..........but, now that I have children I want to say 21! LOL!
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