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Do you find real life Tsunderes attractive?
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TheModernDayZombie wrote:

I dont really care, as long as they're cute.


This is pretty much the truth for any guy, until they mature to the point where they want to settle down and start looking for that kind of girl they can get serious with.

Regarding tsundere types, I don't really have a problem with them but most important to me is that they are honestly being themselves and not playing games or trying to be what they think I want. If that's who you really are, then I'm cool with it, but if I figure out you're just acting, I'm gone.


Whatever you are, just keep being true to yourself. The person who's right for you is the one who accepts you just as you are.
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Let's be real here. Relationships require work from both parties for it to work. If you don't try and please the guy you like ( I mean on an emotional level) then you are at fault. The reason why most marriages don't work is because no one is willing to work for it. Relationships aren't about love. Relationships are finding someone you can completely trust and you would give your life for. Love is after that.
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c7a1 wrote:

Let's be real here. Relationships require work from both parties for it to work. If you don't try and please the guy you like ( I mean on an emotional level) then you are at fault. The reason why most marriages don't work is because no one is willing to work for it. Relationships aren't about love. Relationships are finding someone you can completely trust and you would give your life for. Love is after that.


True that.
Posted 10/30/11

AHTL wrote:

To be honest, I was thinking "autism lol" when I read OP. People are too quick to label someone tsundere. Feels to me that tsundere is basically someone that will be very violent against their love interest, never be honest about their feelings and looks like a flat-chested loli- oh wait not anime. Sorry my mistake.

Everyone is different, and some have more trouble than others to show their feelings/be honest with themselves in the presence of others. Usually due to some childhood circumstances.

In the end, it's all about understanding each other.



CaptainMurasa wrote:

I'm yandere. if someone gets between me and AHTL I will probably kill them. and if AHTL rejects my love I'll kill him and then myself


Eh... Please don't go on a killing spree, Murasa.



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Sure, I'm a yandere and I like somebody to balance me out. Plus, playing hard to get is adorable, and I kind of like stubborn resistance.
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it would be a nice experience but i only know shy girls
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idiotic_female wrote:

I'm a girl and my previous boyfriend broke up with me because he thought I was a Tsundere.

I've broken off a LOT of relationships because I'm a 'Tsundere.'

The guys I've dated before told me I was cold, I tease them a lot, I'm kind of violent, I'm embarrassed with intimacy (kissing, holding hands, being affectionate like that..), I'm hard to read, I have problems showing emotions, I get angry too easily, I play hard-to-get, I'm too feisty, I'm socially awkward during lovey-dovey moments, I don't show that I care, and I don't give 'it' up easily.

Most of the time, I'm not even angry.. That's just the way I act.

How many of you would go for this type of girl?



PS.
I don't think I'm a Tsundere.
I don't want to be a Tsundere.
Too many broken relationships.
Motherfuck.


i have tsundere friends, but my girlfriends not tsundere. she's playful if anything. tsundere is to basically be an ass and then sucking it up. the idea of creating negative space and to replace it with positive. from what i read, i just see someone who is tom boyish, shy, and clingy. no offence.

im pretty sure your a great person to be with. i know of alot of people like you. though im not really the type of person to make the first move, unless my feelings are strong enough for me. saying that i wouldn't mind dating someone tsundere. if really depends on the finer details of her personallity.

i can read people really well. as long as she doesn't go to far with the tsun its fine. i find it adorable that you can't show your feelings the way you want it. i also have that problem, but im a spontaneous and romantic person so it works out,.

though tsun dere is meant for girls, i find that when i act tsundere, i attract girls better. but that when they already know im kind hearted to begin with.

so yea, a tip would trying to be a little more romantically spontaneous to start off if you really like the guy. cuz there's really no point in dating if theres no feeling involve. and by romantically spontaneous i mean a surprise kiss or something small to start out. to make him yours.
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I think I have one... I can tell she is having a hard time emotionally, but she tries to cover it up with tsun-like behavior and her substance abuse...
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I don't find tsunderes attractive/lovable/cute/hugable/adorable in anime, so I definitely don't like it in real life as well. Sorry.
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CaptainMurasa wrote:

<3<3<3

ok I won't go on a killing spree


Stay away from my hunky husband you ph@g.
Yes, I know you're a he. Now stop pretending and leave us alone.
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i am not very fond of tsunderes whether they r female or male. i find them quite annoying(no offense to anyone). however, i dont hate them czz how do i kno if they r good ppl or were badly emotionally hurt in the past that made them like this. if they r just being mean, distant, and playing hard to get, then i wouldnt associate myself with them anymore. i had almost always disliked tsunderes in anime/manga. even if they r the main character, i find them really annoying and wouldnt try to watch or read them or else i'll be angry at how they react to normal situations and making things worse.
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A girl can be tough, but there is something about femininity that is very attractive. For a lot of the gay men out there don't B.S. me that you dont like your man because he acts like a girl, that IS the reason why you like him, Cause he acts like an adorable little girl. So on the topic of femininity men do like it. Its attractive to release tension from every day "Manly" things. As a woman would you like your man to beat you up? would you like him to say, "Hey B!tch go make me some pie!!", Would you like for him to Kiss the neighbors wife in front of you, bring a few skank hoes home so he can fiddle around with ?

Im being serious. You describe your self as a heart less human that cannot show any love, care, or compassion to another human... so maybe the question you should as your self is, "Am I ready to be in a relationship?", "Can I deal with the emotional issues that relationships bring about?", "Am I willing to leave my self open to being hurt, disappointed, or to be loved in return?"

If you aren't, I'd suggest the next dope that thinks you're hot knows that you can't deal with relationships and you aren't ready for them. That way they don't have to worry about any emotional baggage from your end, and they can move their sights onto another person.

Nobody ever said that a woman could not be strong and still be feminine at the same time. You often see it in the shows you watch. Matsumo from Bleach and a few other characters show Femininity and Strength. Milk from Dragon Ball Z is a huge icon of this.

A man that can destroy universes is scared Sh!tless, when he knows he has to deal with a pissed off wife at home.
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tsunderes humor me , in terms of friends, to me indeed they are attractive, but i don't think they are suited for a long-term relationship...
unless they are willing to change their tsun-tsun ways for it to last...
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I think Tsundere and Clingy are polar extremes. With that in mind, the argument I'm stating is that, it's better to go for the in between. A Tsundere is someone who hides their true feelings and such. I must admit at first, tsundere are attractive and the whole 'hard to get thing' and the 'challenge' is what makes them attractive. But after a while, it just gets annoying and it becomes too bothersome to maintain a relationship like that.

There's no need for a relationship where someone simply rejects all intimacy and instead throws it back in your face because they're embarrassed.

Hypothetically, In anime it is really cute when a girl is tsundere because of the artstyle and such and then it skips to the next scene. In real life however, there is no skipping, and you are forced into a long winded argument about something stupid like holding hands or looking into her eyes too long, then getting violent.

In summary, Tsunderes good at first, but need to change during the course of the relationship or it just becomes a real pain.
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Umm, no. Definitely no.
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