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Do you find real life Tsunderes attractive?
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idiotic_female wrote:

I'm a girl and my previous boyfriend broke up with me because he thought I was a Tsundere.

I've broken off a LOT of relationships because I'm a 'Tsundere.'

The guys I've dated before told me I was cold, I tease them a lot, I'm kind of violent, I'm embarrassed with intimacy (kissing, holding hands, being affectionate like that..), I'm hard to read, I have problems showing emotions, I get angry too easily, I play hard-to-get, I'm too feisty, I'm socially awkward during lovey-dovey moments, I don't show that I care, and I don't give 'it' up easily.

Most of the time, I'm not even angry.. That's just the way I act.

How many of you would go for this type of girl?



PS.
I don't think I'm a Tsundere.
I don't want to be a Tsundere.
Too many broken relationships.
Motherfuck.



Reading all this, I think I'd do much better with a Tsundere. The last boyfriend you had in your life just don't want to accept you as you are. Not every girl is gonna be "easy" to relate with, such as yourself and I know this for a fact.


Posted 4/6/12 , edited 4/6/12
There ok but I clash whith people like that becuse am one
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Tsunderes ... Well, tsunderes in anime are exaggerated. Tsunderes in real life are more secretive with their own feelings. They can't show their true emotions without feeling extremely embarrassed thus saying the opposite help them cope with their embarrassment.
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Posted 4/7/12
i've gotten this before too.
but who cares.
its not real.
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In real girls I can't tell if a girl is a tsundere or just plain tsun.
If they act bitchy towards me I wouldn't bother with them unless I know they have a nicer side.
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"Beats me..." is what i would like to say but that isnt entirely true... I know someone who is a completely "Tsundere" but i get pretty good along with her. Guess it´s all about the relationship you have with someone...

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Nah. I find girls who don't throw themselves on me the most attractive.
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No. God no. I like people who are easy to get along with, confident, and up front about their feelings. Difficult girls aren't cute. I don't like tsunderes in anime/etc either though, unless they're a) mostly nice, and b) not a stereotypical lollie girl. Maybe it's my age showing, but I just don't like bullcrap.
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I don't think I have met a real life tsundere, but if they are as outrageous as they are in anime, I do not think I would be into them. You don't sound like the anime characters to me. Your personality sound rather attractive to me actually. Ergo you are not tsundere?
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Personally I like tsunderes, since they make me have to work for what I want instead of being handed to me on a silver platter.
Maybe it's because I am currently dating a self-proclaimed tsundere, who knows. But I like them nonetheless.
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VERY. OP you are so adorable.
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Posted 4/7/12

idiotic_female wrote:

I'm a girl and my previous boyfriend broke up with me because he thought I was a Tsundere.

I've broken off a LOT of relationships because I'm a 'Tsundere.'

The guys I've dated before told me I was cold, I tease them a lot, I'm kind of violent, I'm embarrassed with intimacy (kissing, holding hands, being affectionate like that..), I'm hard to read, I have problems showing emotions, I get angry too easily, I play hard-to-get, I'm too feisty, I'm socially awkward during lovey-dovey moments, I don't show that I care, and I don't give 'it' up easily.

Most of the time, I'm not even angry.. That's just the way I act.

How many of you would go for this type of girl?



PS.
I don't think I'm a Tsundere.
I don't want to be a Tsundere.
Too many broken relationships.
Motherfuck.



Tsundere is a person whom over time "warms up" to you. If they're rolling with the negative side of it all the way then no, I wouldn't be interested in that type of girl. There has to be enough positive to outweigh the negative.

In my opinion, anyone who would accept being treated like that for an extended period of time is either a coward/pushover or has some form of inferiority complex and doesn't believe they deserve/can get anyone who will treat them better.

Tsunderes would never accept being treated the way tsunderes tend to treat others, that's part of the tsundere nature.. And honestly, if someone won't accept being treated an certain way, then why is it ok for them to treat others like that?

I've been with an "tsundere-ish" type girl, I ended up breaking it off simply because there wasn't enough "good" to make the "bad" worth it. It's perfectly ok to challenge people and to have problems with certain things, but it can't only be challenges and problems..


PS.
I'm not sure I'd call you Tsundere, most of the things you list about yourself are relatively normal and some of them are things I'd actually find attractive/cute.. But I guess it depends on how far you take things I guess.

PPS.
If you meet a guy who is ok with you being violent towards him, walk away.. I promise you hes got the freaky kind of issues.

Posted 7/19/12


Yeah, i'm one of those people. I don't intend to act this way but some reason I just do, one thing that I hate about myself. One of my friends was recently with someone similar to this and I told him straight away that I think he should break up with her. I also told him if he was strong and loved her enough, he has to keep with her long enough so that she opens up. It was not going to be quick and easy, it would be long and spending a lot of deep time. He couldn't do it and it ended in a break. I feel sorry for my friend and for the girl he broke up with.

Some may say people like that are just too cold hearted, but I don't believe that. Knowing that I am that type of person, not any person can be with me. Someone who is strong and able to put up with my cold actions and understand why, I will eventually begin to feel calm and warm towards you. Misunderstood person, I just want someone who's strong enough to almost mind read me and accept every inch of me so that I can begin to show the same to them. Or is it just me who feels this way? Either way, I think that you're just misunderstood. Eventually you will find someone who is strong enough.


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I don't mind getting along with people who will warm up to me. In fact, I'm sort of like this myself. When I first meet people, I usually come off as quiet, wary, guarded, aloof, and almost hostile. After a few meets and drinks, people tend to like me more, though. I think it's just a sense of discomfort around the unfamiliar.

It's not that I don't want to show my emotions, I just can't do it with people I don't trust. Unless I'm drunk or something, but that's a different story. I love meeting people during parties and things. I can show my emotions and say hilarious things from the start without batting an eye when I'm buzzed, it's great.
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Ooh. I'm exactly like you.
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